text/Wild Buckwheat
Three years after the epidemic, everyone's life has become more and more difficult.
Some people lose their jobs, some fail to start a business, some start all over again, and some people are swept up by the times. There are people like
who do nothing while bemoaning the injustice of fate.
And a character in the recent TV series " Ode to Joy 3" made me discover the way young people can change their destiny - work hard to make money.
because he didn't want to be deeply involved in his native family, so he worked hard and finally got a place in Shanghai. Not only did he have a high salary, but he also picked up his mother who had been abused all the time.
If you look at this character seriously, you will understand: Fearlessly working hard to make money is a good medicine to cure all mental problems, and seizing every opportunity to make money is the way to change your destiny.
1, the fate can be changed by himself
Yu Chuhui's original family is very bad, his father cheated and abandoned his wife and children.
made an excuse to sell the house shared by the husband and wife, and spent all his savings, bought a new house and put it in the name of Yu Chuhui's grandparents, and transferred the joint property of the husband and wife smoothly.
If Yu's mother wants to get a divorce, she can only go out of the house without any money.
Later, after her father and the affair broke up, she turned to look for Yu's mother, but after tasting the fresh fruit, how could she swallow the pickles?
Her father beat and scolded her mother at every turn, which caused Yu Chuhui's grandparents to look down on her mother.
She knew very early about the discord in her family, her father's unbearableness, and her mother's cowardice and incompetence.
In such a family environment, Yu Chuhui was admitted to the prestigious school - Shanghai Jiaotong University CNC major. After graduating, he entered the iron rice bowl company in the circle, doing work that corresponds to his major.
Mao Dun once said: fate is nothing but the loser's boring masturbation, but the coward's mockery. Our future can only be determined by our own will and our own efforts.
Studying hard is the first step to change her destiny, and getting admitted to a key university is the second step to changing her destiny. She has already completed the two most difficult steps.
As long as she completes the third step, her destiny, her life can be changed.
Yes, the third step is to make money.
On weekdays, she works tirelessly in the company, fighting wits against bad bosses.
does not stop making money on weekends, goes to dance classes part-time as a substitute, and does not forget to improve himself in his spare time.
Someone once said: Destiny has never been "decided", as long as you are not willing to be mediocre and have the courage to change, you can live your own life.
And Yu Chuhui is like this, planning step by step, working hard towards the goal, life gradually opens up, and the future road gradually becomes clear.
is the so-called, relying on mountains and mountains, relying on water flow, relying on yourself is the most practical.
The original family is not your shackles, but the driving force for you to change yourself and change your destiny.
For ordinary people, learning is the easiest way to change themselves and the best shortcut to change their destiny.
The knowledge you learn can be turned into money for you to use. Like now, you can pick up your mobile phone to shoot videos and make money.
Learn to write, whether you are a mother, an ugly girl, or someone with no skills, you can make money by writing articles.
You can rely on yourself to change your original destiny little by little and develop in a better direction. Don't repeat the mistakes of your original family and become the person you hate the most.
2, the opportunity to make money is
The reason for Yu Chuhui's original family made her suffer from heart disease.
So whenever there is a chance to make money, she grabs it like a drowning person grabbing a life-saving straw.
A professional dance teacher in Yu Chuhui's part-time dance studio suddenly resigned. The person in charge of the
dance studio was worried, and Yu Chuhui immediately recommended himself, saying that he wanted to take a class with a professional teacher.
But the person in charge felt that Yu Chuhui couldn't compare with a professional dance teacher, so he said to think about it.
Yu Chuhui is also very clear that she is a wild way, not as good as a dance major, but she did not give up, she still asked the person in charge to try the class to gain a chance for herself.
and under Ye Zhenzhen's reminder, quickly went to learn the original English version of sports anatomy, and then learned exercise physiology .
Yu Chuhui has a strong learning ability, first-class mobility, strong acceptance ability, and a stronger ability to infer others.
She not only taught herself dance-related sports science content, but also learned related medical knowledge and nutrition knowledge.
This knowledge seems to be an independent entity, but it is also closely related to dance. After the trial class of
, Yu Chuhui was unanimously recognized by the parents and became the first choice for parents to choose dance teachers for their children, and successfully led the class of professional dance teachers.
Too Fuller said: A wise man always takes an opportunity and turns it into a bright future.
It is precisely because Yu Chuhui made sufficient preparations before the trial class that she successfully seized this opportunity.
There are many such opportunities in real life, it just depends on whether you can grasp it or not.
For example, you and your colleagues meet to learn English together, and you spend three days fishing and two days drying the Internet.
and your colleagues ignore English regardless. In just a few months, English has improved by leaps and bounds, but you are still stuck in the same place.
At this time, your company happens to have a project to connect with foreign businessmen. Who do you think this opportunity will be given to? The answer speaks for itself.
Always remember that opportunities are for the prepared.
3, making money is her biggest confidence in rejecting high-quality men
Yu Chuhui's excellence has attracted a high-quality suitor, Luo Beisheng, this man has a house, a car, and savings in Shanghai, and he has high financial managementhand.
can be said that this is the first choice for most girls to find a partner. The suitor,
, started a fierce pursuit from the initial question to the discovery of Yu Chuhui's goodness.
waits at the door of her dance studio every weekend.
send flowers made of skewers that the little girl likes, and drive a BMW to send Yu Chuhui home.
When Yu Chuhui was secretly entangled by a married man, she stepped forward and helped her teach the man a lesson...
was replaced by another little girl who was working alone in Shanghai, and it was estimated that she would fall under such an offensive. And Yu Chuhui was very awake from beginning to end.
Luo Beisheng, a high-quality man, did not give up and asked Yu Chuhui: Is it so difficult to accept me? At least you don't have to work two jobs like you do now, so lucky.
Yu Chuhui's answer is worth thinking about by all girls: It's really hard for people to support and rely on others. I have to look at the face of the gold master every day, asking the gold master to get living expenses is like begging. Unlike now, the boss has to look at my face, and the salary is justified. "
Although I am not a very ambitious owner, I am a well-known financial addict. I like to be cheap and my character is suspicious. But I am very persistent in the matter of independence and self-reliance."
Yu Chuhui is very sober, She knew that she weighed a few pounds and two taels. Two people who were born unequal. It would be too tiring to live a life of accommodating each other.
Cicero said: "A person who relies on himself and owns everything can't be unhappy."
When Yu Chuhui rejected a high-quality man, she had already found a job with a monthly salary of 20,000 yuan, and she also worked part-time in the dance studio As the wind flourished, parents lined up to join her class.
She knows that making money is her biggest source of confidence and happiness. So she resolutely does not allow herself to depend on others, so that she has the power to choose.
In real life, many girls expect to change their fate by marrying, but reality also hits the face quickly.
Most women who depend on men for money are unhappy.
Because the moment you choose to depend on a man, you lose the right to choose, the right to speak, and the dignity.
Because you have no money, men can abandon you at will, and you can't fight for children.
Because you have no money, the mother-in-law starts to pinch you, thinking that you are supported by her son, and she can show your face at any time.
Because you have no money, you have to think for a long time to buy something for yourself at home, and decide whether you can buy it or not.
Because you don't have any money, in your parents' house, you are also the water splashed by your married daughter. Or you can't honor the family that gave birth to you and raised you as you wish.
look, how sad life is.
So, relying on others is worse than relying on yourself. Only when you have money can you have confidence.
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Zhihu once had a highly praised discussion: 99% of human troubles can actually be solved by money.
The second uncle can't save you from mental internal friction, only money can save you.
So please let go of your complaints and work hard and do the job at hand.
If you don't have a job, you spend time to learn a skill. Now that the Internet is so developed, if you want to learn something, you should watch the relevant video explanation, and then buy the relevant book.
As long as you really want to learn, there is nothing you can't learn.
May we all earn money and be able to choose the life we want. The pictures in the
article are from the Internet.
Author: Wild Buckwheat
Introduction: I want to run wild and never look back on the road to make money from codewords
