during this period is very good, especially the TV series " exam " has a strong lineup, whether it is a young actor or an old actor, they are all powerful.
The play starts from the families of several senior high school students, and tells how to deal with emergencies on the eve of the college entrance examination. At the same time, it also makes everyone feel the difficulty of this generation of college students. It is very interesting that
has such a family in "Big Exam", that is Zhou Bowen's family.
Zhou Bowen is a quasi-high school senior, a veritable scholar, with excellent grades, strong self-awareness, and at the same time very sensible. Mother Zhao Shan runs a breakfast shop, and the whole family basically depends on her mother's breakfast shop for their livelihood. Dad Zhou Meiren is a lazy "giant baby" who likes to play cards and games on weekdays. He doesn't help his wife with work or asks about any housework.
said that the family situation is interesting, entirely because the father is lazy, and the son of a strong scholar is rarely seen in film and television dramas. Zhou Bowen's family is very new to the audience, and everyone is very curious about their father-son and husband-and-wife relationship.
Many viewers don't understand that Zhao Shan is diligent and willing to work, why does she blindly condone Zhou Meiren's delicious food and lazy cooking, and treat Zhou Meiren like raising a young son?
How did Zhao Shan indulge Zhou Meiren?
From the play, we can see that Zhao Shan's indulgence to Zhou Meiren is like doting on her son.
Zhou Bowen said that since he could remember, Zhou Meiren either played games or played cards with his poker friends, never helped his mother with any housework, and never even helped the breakfast shop, inside and out. Zhao Shan takes care of the outside.
It can be seen from this that Zhao Shan's indulgence to Zhou Meiren has always existed since the two got married. Zhou Bowen didn't want his mother to work so hard, and thought of a way to ask Zhou Meiren to help Zhao Shan work.
started by not letting Zhou Meiren play poker with his poker friends, and then reported them to gather during the epidemic, and even changed the password of Zhou Meiren's game account to prevent him from immersing himself in online games.
But these are all temporary solutions, because Zhao Shan will act as a peacemaker and intercede for Zhou Meiren.
Zhou Bowen finally asked Zhou Meiren to promise to get up early to go to the vegetable market to help buy vegetables, but Zhou Meiren stayed in the car and did not want to enter the vegetable market. Zhao Shan watched Zhou Meiren stay in the car and didn't say anything, and even helped to cover up, Lie in front of your son. The level of indulgence
is very much like an old mother who spoils her son. At the same time, it also makes the audience wonder, what is Zhao Shan's picture?
Zhou Bowen didn't understand until he was admitted to university, the real reason why his mother indulged his father's delicious food and lazy cooking
Zhao Shan indulged Zhou Meiren so much, everyone didn't understand it, even Zhou Bowen asked Zhao Shan why?
Zhao Shan talked about the past. Zhou Meiren was also one of the best bricklayers in the village back then, but in order to give Zhou Bowen a good reading session, Zhao Shan sold the house in her hometown without telling him, and bought a house and a restaurant in the county town.
But Zhou Meiren was not good at communication and personality, so the decoration team in the city couldn't keep up, and she never recovered. Although the clue given in the play is this, in fact, there is a real reason why Zhao Shan indulges Zhou Meiren to be lazy.
1, because of love, and a little love brain
Zhao Shan must love Zhou Meiren very much, otherwise he would not be so indulgent. Zhao Shan loves Zhou Meiren very much. In her eyes, as long as Zhou Meiren doesn't do anything wrong, she can accept it. In the
play, Zhao Shan once said to Zhou Bowen that she said that Zhou Meiren is just playing cards and games, which is also good. It can be seen from this that Zhao Shan has a little love brain, as long as Zhou Meiren acts like a spoiled child and says a few good words, she will be very useful.
Women who don't pursue much are often very happy. Zhao Shan may feel that her husband has been at home, his life is safe, and his family is healthy, so he is content.
2, because Zhao Shan is a giving personality
From the fact that Zhao Shan is willing to give, regardless of the return, Zhao Shan is a giving personality. She doesn't need her husband to do anything for her, and she doesn't need her husband to do anything for her, she is willing to do these things.
However, people with a giving personality are inherently lack of self-confidence, Zhao Shan puts the fault on her own.As a result, I subconsciously think that I am not good enough, and I feel that only by giving can I keep the other person for a long time, and I have no sense of security.
Perhaps for Zhao Shan, only by pampering her husband and letting him be inseparable from her can she keep her husband permanently and make herself feel safe and secure.
3, for the sake of the child
The reason why Zhao Shan devoted herself to this family without any regrets is for the children.
So Zhao Shan endured it alone, and over time she became accustomed to this kind of life. In fact, many things are nothing more than just being tired, not worrying about so much, but living a little easier.
So Xiaoqi thinks that Zhao Shan indulges Zhou Meiren to be lazy, and the most important thing is that she loves this man, because love can accommodate everything about this person and spoil him.
Zhou Bowen hasn't been in love yet, so he doesn't know anything about it. Maybe when he is admitted to university and falls in love, he will understand why his mother did this.
Finally, Xiaoqi wants to ask everyone, what do you think is the real reason why Zhao Shan indulges Zhou Meiren to be delicious and lazy?
