Speaking of secret love, it reminds me of the heroine Zhao Jinmai in the recent hit drama "The Little Thing of First Love". I believe everyone is not unfamiliar with her. She is the female No. 1 Han Duoduo in this year’s hit movie "The Wandering Earth". With this film, she has become the youngest "4 billion queen" in mainland China. She is only 17 years old. Such achievements are really admirable.
In addition to "The Little Thing of First Love", she also performed "The Little Thing of First Love", and the two youth dramas both tell the story of secret love.
secret love mostly occurs during adolescence. Many people are afraid to say their love easily because they are afraid of affecting their studies or being rejected. Therefore, the feeling of wanting to be close to each other but not being able to get close is inevitably a bit bitter.
In the two TV series, Zhao Jinmai’s two romances also conveyed to us a concept: Although secret love is bitter, it is full of nutrition.
1. When in a crush, in order to keep up with each other's footsteps, I will try to become a better self There is a question on
Zhihu: What is the value of paying silently for a crush?
One of's highly praised answers is: The value of a crush is probably to make oneself strive to become a better self, enough to match the other's excellence.
deeply agrees.
When we meet people we like, we all want to show the best of ourselves in front of each other, so we will work silently to make ourselves better.
In "The Little Thing of First Love", Zhao Jinmai plays the heroine Xia Miaomiao. She looks ordinary and has a bit of buck teeth. With a pair of heavy glasses, she looks like an ugly duckling. But ordinary, she fancy a handsome and excellent senior Liang Younian, this is a dazzling male god in all aspects. His appearance instantly burst her inferiority complex, and she was determined to counterattack as an excellent goddess in every aspect, so that she could be worthy of the excellent senior Liang Jiaonian.
But her counterattack was very difficult. In order to make herself look better, she reluctantly underwent an operation to treat myopia and was able to take off the thick glasses. In order to be able to perform a couples rivalry on the same stage with Liang Younian, she is also trying her best to get a place to play. In order to go to the same university as him, she is also studying hard.
is like this, she has done a lot of things for him, just to be able to stand shoulder to shoulder with him and join hands in a beautiful marriage.
In the end, the result is still good. After Liang Younian was admitted to Shanghai University, Xia Miaomiao, with his extremely high college entrance examination scores, once again became Liang Younian's college girl, and the relationship between the two became possible.
Some people say that the best love is to achieve each other. With their joint efforts, the two of them made it possible for this relationship to develop and also allowed them to meet a better self.
Since you have love in your heart, work hard for this love, and work hard enough to match or surpass the one you like. Even if you can’t be with the one you like in the end, you will gain a better self. Happy but not doing it?
2. Sometimes the unspoken love is for each other to have a better life
once said that the furthest distance in the world is not the distance between life and death, not the separation of the sky, but I stand in front of you, but you don't know that I love you.
This can't help but feel sorry, I love you, but you didn't notice it, and I didn't show my heart, just miss each other like this.
In "Youth School", Zhao Jinmai plays the heroine Lin Miaomiao, and her classmate Qian Sanyi has been secretly in love with her. In their high school years, Qian Sanyi often teased Lin Miaomiao and fought with her, but his actions revealed his love everywhere, which made everyone see it. The strange thing was that Lin Miaomiao, the person involved, did not show up. Undetected.
After the college entrance examination, it was also a suitable period for confession, but Qian Sanyi never had the courage to confess to Lin Miaomiao, so he hid the love in his heart.
However, if this love is not expressed, is it not a good ending?
One of them is the high-profile college entrance examination champion who has been admitted to the top universities, and the other is a relatively ordinary student who can only go to ordinary colleges. There is a big gap between them, even if he confessed, The two are together, it's not necessarilyCan last long.
Actually, what lovers are most afraid of is not the long distance, but the distance in their hearts. When the two are in two different worlds, the distance in their hearts will gradually become farther and farther, and when the hearts are farther away, love will gradually disappear. Up.
Therefore, instead of speaking out love and enduring the heart-piercing pain after being separated from reality, it is better to hide it in your heart and keep the pure beauty. In addition, both parties will not have too much love for affection, so they can spend more time and energy on themselves and make themselves more shiny.
Socrates once said: secret love is the most beautiful love in the world. It is true when think about it, because it can also make each other a better self.
Therefore, although secret love is bitter, it is full of nourishment. I hope everyone can get nourishment from sour secret love.
