There are always two ways to produce love, one is love at first sight, and the other is love over time. Love at first sight has always been regarded as the highest level of love that produces love. Just one glance will make it happen. It is completely the vigorous love produced under the collision of hormones and the fusion of magnetic fields. This kind of love is beautiful and sincere. But it is almost impossible for long, because it is reason that can control life.
The reality in life will defeat the sensual love. The experience of shuqi is the best explanation. has a long-lasting love, without the enthusiasm and madness of moths to the fire, but you can see the mysterious side of love, two people who will have a long-lasting love, just like the two words "ambiguous" His energy has fought a protracted battle, is a like-minded partner, a friend and a lover.
meets you and meets happiness
The most complicated relationship in the world is nothing more than a relationship between a friend and a lover. Shu Qi and Feng Delun and can continue this relationship for nearly 16 years, which is enough to show how much they value each other. A person who has experienced harm does not dare to go forward, and a person is unwilling to risk losing a close friend to a relationship.
Actually said that the two people are ambiguous. It is better to say that Shu Qi is waiting for Feng Delun, waiting for him to want a marriage, waiting for him to stop obsessing about love at first sight, waiting for him to find a partner for many years to no avail, turning around to see the person who is most comfortable together By your side. Especially for her past that is so difficult to be accepted by the world, she needs an understanding, tolerance, and love. is over 30 and she can't stand another blow, so waiting is the best and safest choice.
can reflect the value of this waiting is that when Feng Delun proposed to her, he was not opposed by anyone who could influence the formation of this new family. In other words, Hsu Qi was finally not denied because of the past! This has to mention Feng Delun’s family background. He was born in a wealthy business man’s family. Although the actor’s mother was the second wife, he was the child of his father’s heart. His father considered his future to study abroad and do a career. , And he inherited his mother's artistic cell, but he only wants to dedicate his future to the entertainment business.
Facts have proved that although his father had expectations of him, he did not ignore his ideas, respect his preferences, and gave him great financial support when he realized his dream of director. is enough to see that Feng Delun has a pair of enlightened parents, and a father who has seen the world experience gains and losses in the business field, naturally, he will not have any opinions on Shu Qi's past for survival.
"Affectionate love for a long time"
believes that everyone who has experienced the hardships of life can think of and understand the decisions Shu Qi made. When only had a relationship with himself as a "daughter-in-law", it is normal to find it difficult to accept. Perhaps only like Feng Delun, he has experienced a more open education in the West, and his parents did not regard the past too importantly.
can become Shu Qi's real son in life! Or maybe Feng Delun chose Hsu Qi when he had known each other for nearly 16 years, and he also had some thoughts about the past, so he maintained the relationship between the two people with friendship, until the soul fit between the two people surpassed those past powers, and had it. Later it was regarded as a marriage of "a long-lasting love".
"True love will not be affected by anything other than emotions" , Shu Qi and Feng Delun’s marriage very well verified the authenticity of this sentence, Shu Qi’s life experience, and the good life she envy of others. It also makes the audience willing to believe that "you will really see a rainbow after the storm"!
If after her love was defeated by reality, she did not continue to expect love, did not believe that life would give her the love she wanted, then I am afraid she would not have the life she has today. For the first time, fortunately, there is none in the world. in case. So an inadvertent multiple choice question in life can really affect the direction of life.
is plain and plain
is actually born at the age of 44 this year.On Sunday, Feng Delun ingeniously showed a close photo of the two on his social platform. And once wrote: "Good night, birthday girl, always 18 years old, always beautiful!" and Shu Qi, who has always been playful, also interacted with her in the comment section and joked with her husband Feng Delun: "This Who is the woman?" It is not difficult to feel from it, Shu Qi was obviously spoiled by Feng Delun as a little princess.
In short, although the couples of Shu Qi and Feng Delun rarely exposed the daily life. However, the small surprises of coincidentally reveal the sweetness of their married lives all the time. Actually, whether it is marriage or love. As long as both parties in the same relationship can cherish each other, what does it matter if life is flat. It's not easy to meet a partner who really suits you at the best age. If you do, why not hurry up?
Everyone knows that before meeting Feng Delun, Shu Qi had an unbearable relationship with Liming, but a woman who has not experienced a few failed relationships, how can she grasp the happiness now? Therefore, a woman's happiness is to strive for by herself. Before the man who really loves him, tries hard to live his life to the fullest. Only in this way can he miss the chance before love really comes!
Seizing the happiness, Shu Qi has been married to Feng Delun for many years. Although the two have not passed the good news of the birth of a child, their relationship has not deteriorated because of the lack of children. Under the influence of traditional thinking, many people always feel that it is a pity that a woman gets married and has no children. But as far as Hsu Chi is concerned, they are still the same as they were when they first fell in love. This is God's greatest favor for her.
Conclusion
We don’t know what kind of multiple-choice questions will appear in front of us in the future, or whether there will be a correct answer waiting for us to discover. What we can do is to welcome life positively. No matter how great the ordeal is, as long as we choose the option closest to hope, there will always be a day when we will see the glory!
It’s right that women’s youth can’t be squandered easily, and it’s right to pay each other in love. Shu Qi can give her seven years of youth to Dawn, which is also a brave decision that people admire. But because of the fact that it cannot be changed, it is not anyone’s fault that love cannot be cultivated. The fault of lies in the fact that the fate of the two people is almost like-minded, and almost "looking back suddenly, that person has a sense of soul fit in the dim light".
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