Illustration: TV series "Thirty Only" stills
TV series "Thirty Only" Synopsis:
This TV series named "Thirty Only" starring Jiang Shuying, nursery rhymes, Mao Xiaotong , etc., has not yet started broadcasting In the past, it has attracted widespread attention.
is not only because the "Gu Jia" part of the play was resigned by actor Tong Liya, which aroused heated discussion among netizens, but also because the play itself focuses on women over 30 years old. Regarding love, marriage, family, workplace, friendship, family affection, etc., you can feel the transfer of clear values. In
, there are three story lines in total, and these three lines represent three different kinds of lives of three kinds of women. Whether it is a full-time wife, an older single woman, or an ordinary wife, we can all be in the play Find your own shadow to enlighten to varying degrees.
The play not only leads people to find emotional resonance, but also arouses our perception and thinking about our inner self and real life.
Reading other people’s stories and interpreting your own life is a rare TV series. After
TV series "Thirty Only" started, two characters left a deep impression on me, one is Wang Manni and the other is Li Ke.
In my opinion, they are really two completely different women.
Wang Manni is not rich, even if she is working. She stood in the high-end counter, holding the title of "Sales Champion", and she still lived carefully. In
's impression, in order to send money to her parents, she has been saving for several months, and in order to pay off the fines in the shop, she only eats a box of ten yuan for several days. She counts the money spent every day, and looks worried about the rent, just like us in real life, a little embarrassed, and a little helpless.
There are more difficulties in life than good fortune. It is the reality that Wang Manni has to face, but even so, she still has a unique charm in her, that is her arrogance.
writer Su Qin once said: "A woman's arrogance is the self-confidence in the face, but more importantly, the backbone of the heart." From the perspective of the episodes just broadcast, Wang Manni has the backbone.
She is a cabinet sister of a luxury brand, and she can usually meet many rich people. With her appearance, if she wants to cling to it, it is not a difficult task, but she has never had it. The most obvious time for
was her interaction with Song Donghu.
Song Donghu is the blind date introduced to Wang Manni by the family. When they first met, the man claimed to have an annual salary of one million, and a vain face made Wang Manni uncomfortable.
Then, he took Wang Manni to the business club on the second floor for a free buffet lunch. As soon as he saw his greedy and greasy mannerism, Wang Manni completely lost interest in this person.
At the beginning, Wang Manni didn't understand why the place for two people to date would be on the first floor of the lobby instead of directly in the restaurant. It wasn't until she saw Song Donghu's performance that she understood that all of this was in his plan.
met in the lobby. Once he was dissatisfied with himself, he would lie about working upstairs and let himself leave alone. If he is satisfied, he will bring himself to the second floor to support the scene.
uses women's looks to judge the quality of blind dates, and regards girlfriends as a tool to support the scene. Song Donghu's various performances made Wang Manni very dissatisfied. Before she had finished eating, she blacked out the greasy man and then sneaked away.
It can be seen from this that Wang Manni has her own bottom line, even if the other party is richer than herself, even if he can give herself a better life, she is not willing to wrong herself. Meeting such a man
consumed all the patience of Wang Manni. But she didn't expect that it didn't take long for him to appear in Wang Manni's shop once, and also brought a new girlfriend.
Why did Song Donghu come to the store? On the one hand,
is to take new girlfriends around and show off their magnanimity. The more important aspect is to show off to Wang Manni.
"If you followed me back then, it is you who are trying on clothes here. It is a pity that you can only try on clothes with me now. I am still wondering why you rejected me back then, where did your arrogance and courage sell Expensive."
He laughed at Wang Manni with a smug face.But Wang Manni was not moved at all, until she sold clothes worth tens of thousands of yuan to that girlfriend, and Song Donghai had to pay for it, she finally fought back and said:
"I'm too expensive, you can't buy it." It started." The operation of
not only caused Song Donghu to suffer a dumb loss, but also allowed himself to take a performance commission. I have to say that Wang Manni's move is really great, killing two birds with one stone, and it's very pleasant.
When she watched Song Donghu leave with a smile, I saw her arrogance as a woman. This attitude of not being moved by money and being able to bravely fight back at others is something that women who rely on others don't have. Compared with Li Ke who played next, this feeling is even more obvious.
Li Ke is an employee of Gu Jia's husband's company. Her work performance is not outstanding, but her performance is quite positive.
In order to attract the attention of Gu Jia's husband, she did not hesitate to spend 25 yuan to buy an orange, and make dinner every day and send it to Gu's husband.
She thought that this would attract the attention of the leaders, but she did not expect that Gu Jia was paying attention to all this.
Gu Jia noticed the woman as early as the time Li Ke gave out the oranges. In order to remind her not to overstep, Gu Jia bought many of the same oranges as gifts to the whole company, hoping she would take a warning.
, but instead of constraining, she intensified. In order to prevent the situation from developing further, Gu Jia had no choice but to fire her.
can clearly live a stable life, but because of his crooked mind, he lost his job. What happened to Li Ke is alarming.
In real life, like Li Ke, it is not uncommon for women who want to rely on men to reach the sky.
In their opinion, using their beauty to seek asylum is a very labor-saving shortcut. As long as it succeeds, you can hide behind that man and enjoy everything about him with peace of mind.
But often, they all overlook a question, that is: how long can this enjoyment last? In the
TV series "My First Half of Life", Luo Zijun married Chen Junsheng and became a housewife with peace of mind. When asked why she didn't go out to work, she once replied proudly: "Chen Junsheng said that he will support me for the rest of my life." What is the result of
?
Within a few years, Chen Junsheng threw himself into the arms of another woman, leaving Luo Zijun alone to cry at home.
In fact, both Li Ke and Luo Zijun are people who want to take shortcuts. But where is the shortcut so easy? This man can lovingly guarantee to take care of you for the rest of his life today? If one day he gets tired and suddenly turns around and leaves you, what should you do?
may get short-term comfort by relying on men. But in the long run, this kind of life is extremely unstable. Once the relationship changes, the one who gets hurt in the end must be the woman who gave everything.
can only say that it is too silly to want to rely on a man's superior Li Ke.
Compared with Wang Manni and Li, it is not difficult to see that women who rely on themselves and women who want to rely on men, the difference between them is actually the backbone.
Wang Mannila black Song Donghu, you can directly reject him and then leave happily, you can even stop Song Donghu to pursue the life you want, but is Li feasible?
If Li Ke's plan is successful, she can indeed live without worry. But every day in the future, she will live in worries and fears, fearing that this man will leave one day, and fearing that he will suddenly no longer want to do. More importantly, if you rely entirely on a man, you will lose all your decision-making power. I dare not confront him, leave if I dare not say to leave, and dare not ask him. An unfree life like
is actually more terrifying than having no money. The society of
is realistic. Independent and confident women can be respected by all people. Even if they are not beautiful, they can still live beautifully. But if you only want to rely on men and don't seek to be motivated, then after a few years of youth, maybe you can only face the ending of being left behind. I regret it at that time, everything is too late.
Life is fair. If you spend your most precious decades to please a man, you will be dominated by him in the following days. But if you use your time to improve yourself, then what you get will be a better state and a brighterfuture.
Living hard, you may not achieve something in a short time, but every drop of sweat you shed will become your confidence in life.
No one can be your eternal safe haven. Only when you live stronger and stronger will you become more and more free. When you don't need to rely on anyone, all the good things will come as promised.
Independent and confident women are the most beautiful, what do you think?
