"Thirty Only" is the finale.
is not unexpected. From the beginning to the end, the plot, personality, and in-depth analysis occupy the hot search on all platforms every day.
finally became less popular.
moved from a hot search to a video platform and hurriedly watched half of it.
There are some words that are only suitable for hot times.
Some words are only suitable for cooling down. The
TV series is over, but people’s discussion of 30+ women, their attention to 30+ marriages and families, is far from over. This is phenomenal. What
reveals behind
is that women occupy an increasingly important position in the division of labor in society. Although
is an urban emotional drama about the heroine, but I have seen other real lives.
01
Gu Jia.
is a lot of hot search articles, the first appeared in the show, people set a reservation.
Independent, courageous and family-oriented.
Someone scolded her at the very beginning, in order to mix the wives, and the company's financial resources are not sufficient, buy a river view house to live in a luxury house;
to please the nouveau riche Mrs. Wang, check information and find contacts to help Mrs. Wang buy asteroids, satisfy Wish;
in order to have a place in the group photo of the rich wife, max out the credit card purchase package.
bought Mrs. Li's loss-making tea plantation in order to gain the favor of Mrs. Li.
seems to reveal a flattery, but I admire her courage. All the actions of
to match the wife's circle are Gu Jia, and her name Gu Jia fits well.
I don’t think anyone would deny that, to cater to the tastes of the wife’s circle, she let her son enter the school of her dreams; let her own losing company receive a few big deals; let her live a more exciting life. The most important thing about
is that Gu Jia did not abandon her integrity and kindness, and the three views are righteous.
Can you say that everything you earn for your family and children is not worth mentioning?
No, it is great!
Many people should be the envious of women who work hard for their career as a family and still not lose their independent self.
The look of striving for a happy life by yourself is cool and sassy!
02
Xu Huanshan---Gu Jia's husband.
Some people say that he is fantasizing in his mind, how romantic the blue fireworks are. Others don’t understand him and they are angry with investors.
Some people say that he went to jail again after derailing, and he was a scumbag himself.
I would like to say that Xu Huanshan:
wants to have the longings and dreams that belong to the age of 20, but he is unwilling to assume the responsibility and stability of the age of 30.
He can be said to be a imaginary perfect designer, and he is right.
Xu Huanshan is also very hardworking for work, there is a kind of arrogance in his bones, and always feel that many people do not understand him.
However, while disgusting with his wife Gu Jia and relying on his wife to get company orders, he also enjoys the pleasure of this kind of welfare.
while admiring the innocence of Lin Youyou who got involved in his marriage, while enjoying Lin Youyou's adoration of himself, but not very indifferent to his wife and children. The contradictory character of
has long heralded his tragic ending.
What kind of dreams should you have at any age and ability!
Yataro Matsuura said: "Those who are often sleepyPeople who are uneasy and anxious often have the problem of ‘thinking too much’ about the future. "
Now the anxiety of young people is a bit too much, in fact, doing the right things right now, although small and ordinary, is the wisdom of life!
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In order not to carpool with others to squeeze out to rent to work, for the sake of her inner vanity, she accepted her boyfriend’s Luxury car.
drives to work every day, Wang Manni's whole body is relaxed and happy.
in order not to return to her hometown for blind date work, angrily told her mother to buy a house in Shanghai at the age of 30, or find a suitable person to marry. Go back again.
will not talk about her future life (plot) for the time being. The many behaviors that
has done are for two words----- decent.
After working for many years, adult self-esteem seems to be It is the most valuable.
04
tell the end of the story.
male 28 years old, named Li Lang.
female 29 years old, she knows each other when she knows each other when she is not relatives.
zzz1, 0 family members. The recent years have been scribbled to get married.
originally thought that this life would be ordinary, and the contradictions appeared in the first half of the marriage.
Li Lang is not a rhetoric, but he is happy to make a promise of love.
women are not beautiful, but they are naturally warm Pure good.
logically, after the quarrel, there should be harmony between people.
but Li Lang listens to his mother in every detail.
women complain that she has no independent personality and independent opinions, and she dislikes her promises are always bad checks, anger her Li Lang There is always a stingy lifestyle of "spending money, I feel too uncomfortable in my heart".
can't compete for a long time, and they don't understand each other. The half-year marriage has reached the freezing point. The story is true, and the ending is not perfect.
I wonder what you can think of?
05
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is thirty.
Only in the grind of reality, can you see the path under your feet clearly, and have the mind not to be shaken by others.
Regardless of men and women, when you are close to your thirties, you will have a group of extremely enthusiastic friends and relatives around you. With the identity and experience of people who have passed by, I would like to advise you: It is time to start a family first.
seems to have a family, it is the respect for the important node of humanity in the 30s.
But the so-called "Thirty",
It does not require us to achieve a great career when we are 30 years old,
, what a happy marriage
has,
, but to have a strong heart,
z0 z0 haven.
Actually, the rhythm of life due to age can be summarized in one word: precision.
know exactly what you want, and know exactly how to achieve what you want.
Thirty years old is not the threshold, not even forty, fifty or sixty.
No matter when, where, and where, I hope we can still have "but nothing"Free and easy and bold.
After all, every stage we go through is not in vain. Experience will leave us with perseverance.
May you be warm and pure, and may you be independent, free and easy, and always be a better version of yourself.
THE END
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