An excellent TV series, like a glass of old wine with a vintage, it needs to be savored carefully, the more it tastes, the more powerful it is.
I was trapped at home because of the epidemic, and I have been watching previous classic TV series. After finishing the "Langya List", I watched "Knowing No" again. The heroine of
Sheng Minglan is a clear-headed woman. She is a concubine in the family who is not loved by her father. Her mother has died young and has been raised by her grandmother. Although she is young, she has long learned how to watch her words and how to protect herself, and she has her own unique view of her marriage and relationships.
"Knowledge" is also a romance film, which contains many love philosophies, which has benefited me a lot.
Yesterday, I saw the part where Sheng Minglan helped her cousin Sheng Shulan and Li. Through the two stories of the love between Sheng Shulan and Sheng Minglan and Qi Heng, it can be seen that if the relationship reaches an irreversible step, it is a blessing to stop the loss in time.
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Sheng Shulan is the long-term daughter of the Sheng family, and she is married to Sun Zhigao. Sun Zhigao is a well-known local child prodigy. He was admitted as a talent at a young age. The Sheng family wanted to change their impression of a foreign merchant's house, so Sheng Shulan married with a rich dowry.
Sun Zhigao's character can be described as Jinyu's external defeat. He prides himself on learning, but until the moment he reconciled with Sheng Shulan, he was still a talent and did not make progress in his official career.
Sun Zhigao lives in the house provided by the Sheng family, eats the food provided by the Sheng family, and spends the money of the Sheng family, but does not cherish his wife well, and follows his mother to torture Sheng Shulan in a different way, and wants to marry a brothel. The woman came in to be a concubine.
Sheng Shulan couldn't bear it, she wanted to give up this marriage, but Sun Zhigao didn't want to let her go, just wanted to give her a letter of resignation.
Divorce is not the same concept as Heli. Heli is the voluntary dissolution of marriage, just like our current divorce. Divorced wife refers to the woman who made a big mistake and was swept out by her husband. Abandoned women often lose their reputation, suffer humiliation, and cannot remarry.
In this marriage of Sheng Shulan, she is not the party at fault.
With the help of Sheng Minglan, Sheng Shulan got his wish and reconciled with Sun Zhigao and got rid of Sun Zhigao, a man who ate soft food.
Sheng Shulan reconciles smoothly, which is a new life for her. If she continues to swallow, she might be tortured to death by Sun Zhigao and his mother.
Furthermore, Sun Zhigao is not self-motivated, he only knows to eat soft food, it is difficult to have a happy life with such a man, it is better to stop the loss in time and get rid of the two vampires as soon as possible.
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Sheng Minglan’s first love was Qi Heng. The two of them were happy and admired each other. Unfortunately, their two families were not in the right place. Under the forcible interference of Qi Heng's mother, Ping Ning, their love did not bear fruit.
Sheng Minglan completely cut off this idea after knowing that he and Qi Heng had no future. Since then, Qiheng has been very polite and estranged, treating him as a stranger.
Sheng Minglan's approach seems cruel. After all, Qi Heng has always been in love with her, even if Sheng Minglan has married Gu Tingye, even if he has married Shen as his wife, she has not let go of this relationship.
Sheng Minglan put down quickly, and did very heartlessly. Even after Qi Heng was on the list, Pingning County Lord agreed with them, Sheng Minglan did not give Qi Heng a chance to recover.
She knew that she had no relationship with Qi Heng, and she knew that she could not face the conflicts between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage. Compared with Qi Heng, Gu Tingye can protect her well and make her no longer live tremblingly. Gu Tingye is more suitable for her.
Since there is no destiny, and since the relationship has been irretrievable, why bother with it, both yourself and others?
people all need to look forward, blindly indulging in the pain of the past, there is no benefit to them.
Since the relationship is irretrievable, it is better to stop the loss in time, free yourself from the pain and entanglement, and welcome a new life.
let him goAt the same time as people, you are letting yourself go. Don't sacrifice your own happiness because of other people's emotions. It is too uneconomical.
