The recently hit "Crocodile and Toothpick Bird" is an urban youth romance drama, telling the story of three men and three women chasing dreams together. Each person represents a personality: Li Nanen is innocent, simple, tough and strong; Wan Wei is calm, confident, pursuing perfection in doing things, ambitious, and demanding of herself and others; Zuma is full of vitality, initiative, clear goals, and the courage to pursue love; Zhou Erwen is cold, does not like talking to others, and hides everything in her heart , The export is a set of scientific truths; Gentleman Takagi, who knows how to use people well, can always resolve embarrassment, is a reconciliation agent for all kinds of contradictions; Wu's so-called technical nerd, taciturn, has severe communication barriers; Yu Buju is a love scene Master, dare to speak out.
Chen Bolin, who plays Zhou Erwen, is a high-cold scholar, and Li Nanen is a happy enemy. Chen Bolin is even more remarkable. In 2011, with the literary film "Guanyin Mountain", he was nominated for the Best Actor Award at the 13th Deauville Asian Film Festival in France, and later starred in "I May Not Love You", which was well received by the audience. Love, and won the 47th Taiwan TV Golden Bell Award for Best Actor for this drama. In 2014, he won the 15th Chinese Film Media Awards for the Most High-profile Actor Award. It was really rewarding. It fully demonstrated Chen Bolin's superb acting skills and his popularity among audience fans.
Let’s analyze Zhou Erwen’s character, full of hostility, communication always makes others uncomfortable, and seeing nothing is pleasing to the eye. His way of communication will only intensify conflicts, no matter how the subsequent plot develops. In our real society, if you communicate like this, you won't have friends, that is, no matter how good you are, you will not be recognized by others. And Zhou Erwen's self-consciousness, stubbornness, and difficulty accepting others' opinions will eventually make him uncomfortable.
In the process of getting along with our friends, there is no shortage of such people around us. They always look like others owe him money. I want to say a few words to him and I am embarrassed. Over time, everyone will isolate him. Either you don't speak, and you have a sting when you speak, so that people who are uncomfortable will not have more luck.
, on the contrary, Takagi's handling method in the TV series is very comfortable. He trusts the team completely, so he gives them all the research matters. He is a competent backup, no matter what everyone needs, he will do his best to accomplish it.
Therefore, getting along with high EQ can not only bring pleasure to yourself and others, but also help yourself with a friend. In our ordinary lives, there will always be moments in the human world that we need help, and we can make ourselves a friend by speaking well.
So it is extremely important for us to have a high level of emotional intelligence. No one will see your kind soul through your selfish appearance. People get along with each other. You speak well, be friendly to others, don't refute others casually, and others will treat you like that. We must respect each other!
To make others comfortable is to make yourself comfortable! What do you say?
