life is a journey.
In this trip, there will be all kinds of scenery and encounter all kinds of people and things.
We can't know which person and which event will have what kind of meaning to life.
The journey of life is full of problems and troubles. Some problems are incomprehensible and have troubled you for a long time, but an unintentional sentence may make you suddenly enlightened.
is the same as watching a TV series. Some people watch the plot, and they are obsessed with the joys, sorrows and joys of the characters. Some people watch life and taste something from other people's stories.
" Zhen Huan Biography " has been on the air for so many years, and everyone is still rewatching it again and again. It is enough to see that there are many things in this show that many people like, and everyone will have a different feeling when they watch it. There are two lines in
"The Legend of Zhen Huan", from Zhen Huan, two simple sentences, but they explain the truth of life. When life is not satisfactory, you can read it.
1. In the world of human affairs, since you can't take care of everyone, you can only take care of yourself. ——Zhen Huan
Sometimes, people really need to live selfishly.
A person's energy is limited, you can take care of others, but you can't take care of yourself, and many people have a misunderstanding that it is good to think that others are good.
has seen a lot of people, and they are used to being wronged and seeking perfection. They suffer all the hardships by themselves. In the end, they are not thankful for their efforts. It is okay to live with grievances.
If you can't take care of everyone, you can only take care of yourself. The words
should be kept in mind.
Zhen Huan is in the palace, she is a noble concubine, has fame and fortune, and has children, but she still can't take care of everyone, not even her own daughter.
What's more, we are an ordinary person, and we are even less skilled, and we can't be very comprehensive. Therefore, don't take others too seriously. It's important to be careful about yourself.
In fact, the reason is very simple, only when you have a good life can you take care of others.
When your life is smooth, financially independent, and your heart is complete, you will have the spare energy to help others, otherwise, you will not have the will or ability to be considerate of others.
If you think a lot and the problem still can't be solved, it is better to change your mind and think about yourself. Don't be too selfish, but don't be too stupid.
2. Never waste time and effort for someone who is not worth it. ——Zhen Huan
In our life, we will meet many people and things that are not worthwhile.
The men he met in love were unreliable, and even got hurt and abandoned. After getting married, he found that his husband was not of good character, and his virtue was bad. This is not worth it.
A job that is tasteless and a pity to abandon, there is no room for improvement, and you can see the boredom at a glance, this is not worth it.
People and things that are not worth it, don't spend time and energy arguing about it, it's unnecessary.
People who are not worth it, leave decisively, stop losses in time, don't think that you can change others, and don't delusionally think that you will be an exception to others.
What is not worth it, you should let it go, after you leave, start over, move forward, don't look back, there may be another dark spot ahead.
People and things that make you uncomfortable and unhappy should consider whether it is worth it.
Don't hesitate, sometimes hesitantly tearing and consuming yourself, it will make you feel more sad than the matter itself, time-consuming and labor-intensive, and in the end, it's just a waste.
If you leave the wrong one, you may meet the right one. This is true of people and things.
Your time and energy should be devoted to beautiful and worthy people and things. Life is only a few decades old. Let yourself live as you wish and be happier.
Life is actually quite difficult, you will encounter all kinds of problems, you will encounter all kinds of people and things, but this is also a kind of scenery in life.
If you are unhappy, don't be sad, think more about yourself, it's okay to be selfish, be considerate of yourself, give up people and things that are not worthwhile, life is in your hands after allinner.
Whether watching TV or reading a book, seeing the world, seeing all beings, seeing all things, you will experience a different meaning of life.
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