Recently, some netizens discovered that the male star Huang Zitao posted a picture of the Korean female singer IU on social platforms. Later, I didn’t know the reason for this and deleted it immediately.
Although Huang Zitao’s operation was very fast and gave almost no time to respond, he still couldn't hide it from sharp-eyed netizens.
Before Huang Zitao was in the live broadcast, he blew himself up in love with a foreign female singer, holding the conviction that "do not confess early, love will run away" , he took the initiative to send a private message. As a result, I don't know what the other party's considerations are, and he has never responded to him.
Generally speaking, silence mostly means rejection. The truth of
, Huang Zitao, who has been in the entertainment industry for many years, will not fail to understand. But because he admired the girl too much in his heart, Huang Zitao said in the live broadcast room that as long as the other party agrees, he will immediately disclose their relationship tomorrow.
Huang Zitao smiled and said: "I love this girl so much, I not only want to fall in love with her, but even want to marry."
This remark, coupled with the operation of deleting IU photos in seconds, makes people think of him. The girl whom she secretly loves is actually the Korean actress IU.
is here, I have to sigh, the fan's detective ability. As soon as such speculation appeared, fans went to pick Huang Zitao's social platform. Finally, it was discovered that Huang Zitao's social account on a certain platform followed 3 people in total, two of which were artists under his banner. This is understandable. As a boss, it is natural to pay attention to the employees' daily life. And the other one is the gossip heroine IU.
After learning this news, fans were very happy. Although they all like Huang Zitao, they also know that they are definitely not the ones who can work with idols for a lifetime and spend a happy time with him. For this reason, when that person shows up, they will be sincerely happy.
So Huang Zitao's message comment area, congratulations a lot. However, some netizens hold different opinions on this, that is, Huang Zitao's confession in an isolated way that makes the woman fall into public opinion for no reason is undesirable. Some people even say that this is harming IU and is undoubtedly a moral kidnapping.
In this case, if the woman really likes him and is willing to step into the palace of marriage with him, and stay with him to grow old, then naturally there is nothing to say. After all, you are unmarried and I am unmarried. Let’s talk about love. Injecting colorful colors into a boring life is also a beautiful thing.
But what if the woman doesn't like him? Because of everyone's uproar, agreeing to his request violated her principles of life. All young people have a beautiful longing and yearning for love, but if they work very hard, in the end they choose someone they don't like.
ask, who would like this kind of life?
True, love may go through countless trivialities and finally disappear gradually. But experiencing love disappears and never experiencing love, it feels different.
So choose not to agree? If Huang Zitao and IU are ordinary people, that's fine. But they are not. As public figures, they represent not just individuals, but their teams, fans, etc.
your honey and my arsenic. In IU's eyes, perhaps Huang Zitao has various shortcomings, which are not enough to entrust him for life. But in the eyes of Huang Zitao's fans, idols are perfect.
In this case, if IU replies not to like it, it will inevitably cause dissatisfaction from Huang Zitao's fans. In the eyes of IU fans, all this is just a normal choice for idols, so for Huang Zitao fans, it is naturally not pleasing to the eye. In this case, if one is not handled properly, their respective images may be damaged.
Huang Zitao is not a young white who just debuted, so he would naturally think of the consequences. But even so, he still chose this way of confession that contained moral kidnapping and embarrassed IU. It had to make people wonder how true is the love in his mouth?
Maybe when someone sees this place, they will disagree-confessing in public means courage. Now having the courage to stand in front of the world and speak out my love for you, what's wrong. Compared with those men who only dare not express themselves to their lovers, Huang Zitao seems more genuine.
I think people who hold this kind of thinking may have misunderstood the meaning of true temperament.
The so-called true temperament used to refer to artists who are not pretentious, not pretentious, do not wear masks, and are willing to give up more for the faith that they insist on.
such as Brigitte Lin. Already approaching Ershun's age, but still undiminished love for life. After learning that her husband had betrayed the marriage, she divorced cleanly.
However, with the passage of time, the definition of "true temperament" by the general public has become more and more ambiguous, which has led to a certain type of personification of "true temperament". It seems that having such a personage is good, and not having it is bad. of.
So in the eyes of many celebrities, the so-called true temperament is to be yourself, cry as you want, make trouble if you want, and don't suppress yourself deliberately.
For example, Huang Zitao, because he likes IU, he confessed on the social platform, regardless of how much psychological pressure the woman will bear.
For example, Zheng Shuang, because he doesn't like it, either loses his temper at the variety show scene, points to the people's neglect of her, or furiously accuses everyone of not understanding her heart in the live broadcast room.
Chinese traditional culture has always paid attention to indexing. If
is within this degree, then everything is good; if it exceeds this degree, then even good things will become bad things.
true temperament is naturally the same. For the audience, they naturally don't like stars who wear masks all day and are too fake. This is like real flowers and fake flowers. Although the fake flowers have gone through the spring, summer, autumn and winter, they will always look like a peaceful year, but because of the lack of trueness, they are not loved by everyone. Therefore, it is really indispensable. If
is too real, it would be bad.
Zeng Guofan talked about his views on true temperament in "Bingjian"-undressed and undressed, no one else, this madness is also. Sitting freely and asking questions at will, this is also lazy.
explained in the vernacular: the untidy clothes, the lack of trimming, and the lack of pretentiousness are madness; just talk as you want, no matter what the occasion or situation, this is laziness.
In fact, think about it carefully, since ancient times, such people are not uncommon, such as Zhang Fei in "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms", Lu Zhishen in "Water Margin" and so on.
Is it good to be a true temperament then?
Zeng Guofan then gave his own views- is very happy and angry, forgetful, and nearly rough.
roughly means: when you encounter happy things, you will be overjoyed; when you encounter angry things, you will be angry. Once the matter is over, to forget the matter completely and continue to act like this is almost "rude".
Taoism pays attention to the combination of yin and yang. If a person is too negative, it will inevitably make people feel vigilant and involuntarily want to stay away; if a person’s yang is too heavy, although it will shorten the distance with others in a short time, it is often because of improper words and deeds. And offended many people, from then on provoke right and wrong, and gradually became disliked.
Therefore, the best state is the combination of Yin and Yang.
Therefore, you can have true temperament, but you must pay attention to proportion.
Finally, I hope Huang Zitao can grow up and bring more quality works to the audience.
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