Wen/Lin Mumu
In "Thirty Only", Wang Manni, who has been single for three years, finally meets Liang Zhengxian who is satisfied in all aspects. She finally determines her status, accepts his unmarriage, and has to be rejected by the other party. Persuade and try to accept open relationships.
Wang Manni undressed in public.
Faced with Xu Huanshan, who had derailed and asked for forgiveness, the unforgivable Gu Jia also decided to let go.
Just as Gu Jia said
“Some things happen, they happen, and they can’t go back.”
Those who mistakenly think that after wandering in love, trying to fix them can restore their original appearance, but they are deceiving themselves.
No matter how good the scar repair technique is, it cannot conceal the fact that the wound has never stopped bleeding.
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does not deny the existence of a "three-person" relationship in reality, but has a third person's shadow of love. Even if it lasts for a long time, it can cause pain and suffering.
French existentialist writer Simone Beauvoir and philosopher Jean-Paul Sartre are well-known open-ended partners in the last century. They both allow each other to "go on business trips" in their relationships. With such a frank and open attitude, Has the relationship between the two really been harmonious and happy?
"I tried to be satisfied in this kind of relationship, but I wasted effort, and I never felt at ease in it."
Beauvoir’s monologue in the memoirs reflected her hiding in mutual respect and perfection. Fit, accept the struggle in the love relationship of "the existence of a third party."
looks like an enviable "threesome" relationship, and the torture behind it is unknown to outsiders.
Some people may refute that as long as the balance is well balanced, there is no problem in maintaining long-term relationships with a "third party".
Gambling King and his four wives are not typical examples?
Looking at the information between the gambling king and his wives over the years, it has revolved around competition for favor, property, and conflicts. Every warmth seems to have a purpose behind it. How much is left between the gambling king and the wives belongs to the lover I am afraid that only the person concerned will know the sincerity between them.
In mathematics, the triangle relationship is the most stable combination, but the triangle relationship in the relationship can easily go out of control.
Taylor and her husband Eli in "Fatal Woman" have always pursued an open relationship. After the emergence of Scheming Jie De, they took advantage of the shortcomings of the three-person relationship and deceived and provoked the two sides, which caused the originally loving Taylor couple to continue to have misunderstandings and conflicts. .
Schiller once said:
"True love is single-minded, the field of love is very narrow, it can only accommodate two people to survive."
those who have been intruded into the territory of love by a third party, Even if the foreigners are successfully expelled in the end, it will be like a white paper that has been smoothed again, and it will be difficult to restore the original appearance.
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I remember there was a saying on the Internet: "Love is 0.5+0.5=1".
Good love is two people who love each other, and each part of themselves is cut off. It may be some bad temperament habits, or it may be a hobby. The two hearts continue to merge until they become one heart. .
In 1998, the popular Guo Aiming gave up his career and chose to marry Liu Qingyun , who was inferior to him in all aspects, and became a full-time wife.
Many people feel unworthy and sorry for her, but she thinks this is the most suitable way of life for her. She once said in an interview that she never regretted choosing to be a happy housewife.
Liu Qingyun, who continues to take root in the entertainment industry, has never had a scandal with her female partner in the filming. Cecilia Cheung even bluntly said, "Liu Qingyun has never seen her in front of her." Everyone in the entertainment circle said Liu.Qingyun is not good at words, but he has said countless sweet love words to Guo Aiming on multiple occasions.
I have determined that you are the only color of my life. From then on, I only have you in my eyes, and I can't tell anyone else.
has left you what you want to say, and naturally has nothing to say to others. For many years after the marriage of
, the two have always maintained the sweet state of their passionate love, and their enthusiasm is not reduced by half.
In front of Liu Qingyun, Guo Aiming always looks like an innocent girl, while facing Guo Aiming, Liu Qingyun always has a doting and gentle expression.
Tu Lei once said:
"Love must be loyal and exclusive."
is loyal, physically and mentally loyal to each other, and does not change due to changes in the world or appearance decline; exclusive, no matter when, the other person is the only one in your heart.
Once these loyal, exclusive, beautiful and persistent love experiences are shared by a third person, they will immediately become dull.
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"Now that my career is on the rise, announcing my relationship will affect my promotion, so I can't give you a secure future."
"When our relationship is stable, let's announce our relationship to friends and relatives."
"Wait for me to handle the relationship with him before contacting you"
Many times, these comforting words that make people wait and wait will eventually turn into jokes.
Suhomlinski once said:
"Love is the poetry and the sun in life."
is a poem, how can it be forbidden to chant; it is the sun, how can it be prevented from appearing.
The openness of a relationship is clearly the starting point of a relationship and a declaration, showing that we are exclusive to each other.
Cai Shaofen once mentioned in the show that when he first fell in love with Zhang Jin, he had three chapters: "cannot be published, can't kiss, can't hold hands."
just can't let others know that they are together, and the result broke within a few days. The rules you set yourself cannot be restrained because you truly love someone. The determination of
can give both parties a great sense of security.
In the movie "He Actually Doesn't Like You That So", Neil believes in unmarriageism, Beth longs for marriage. They love each other deeply and they broke up because they could not agree on marriage.
The two people who suffered from lovesickness are back together after experiencing the illness of their relatives, and Beth, who does not want to lose Neil again, decides to accept his unmarriage, and no longer forces Neil into the palace of marriage, but Neil chooses The proposal was given to the wedding Beth had always dreamed of.
If you really love someone, you will not be willing to let him down and sad.
To truly love someone, we will do our best to give the other person what he wants, even if we need to break the principle.
can't open and clear the relationship, in the final analysis, it is just because you are not the person that the other party really cares about.
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Good love will let you learn to accept, but you will not be wronged to accept.
True love needs to wait, but those who really love you cannot bear to let you wait.
In the Book of Songs, "Life and death have a broad bond, and be happy with your son. Hold your hand, grow old with your son", has been talked about by people throughout the ages.
When you meet someone who wants to stay together for a lifetime, please bravely brand your own mark on the other party, and declare to the world his determination that he must be in this life.
After all, it is not easy to meet the right person, but it is very easy to get lost.
