Sadomasochism is a normal state, not a pathological state.
In a relationship, sadomasochism is a form of pleasure that relies on pain, which is similar to tragedy to some extent. People will get savior-like pleasure in a character full of sadness, or empathize with compassion. Such emotional experiences tend to be more profound and lasting, and even form emotional dependence.
The relationship between love and relationship is varied, some people pursue the mediocrity and gentleness like a long stream of water, some people look for the unforgettable ups and downs. And what I recommend to you today are those love movies that are sometimes deceiving, sometimes pathological, and sometimes cruel.
01. "Best Bid"
Love is the truth woven by lies
An appreciative auctioneer of a top art auction house, distinguishes the true from the false at a glance, and has never failed in his career for decades. As an elegant and temperamental person An eccentric old virgin, his greatest hobby is to collect portraits of women from various periods. Until one day, a young woman living in the castle with a large number of antiques intersects with her work. Because the female protagonist suffers from agoraphobia and never showed up when communicating with the male protagonist, this mysterious and special way of communication made the male protagonist secretly feel emotional, but step by step into the terrifying conspiracy.
Love is a willingly deceived. Even though you already know that it is a deception, you still have the expectation to wait in this scam. It will reveal the truth in the rigorous fraud, and the male protagonist is no longer calculated. A cold-blooded collector, but a poor man waiting hard for love to return.
is just like in reality, those who embrace the tenderness of the time and the sweet words and are willing to be a prisoner of love, even if the truth is in front of them, they will still look for evidence of love like a detective. .
02. "The Phantom Seamstress"
love is drinking poison to quench thirst
A top male fashion designer and country waitress fell in love at first sight, and took her as her own inspiration muse, taking her into the colorful fashion world. Does it feel like a cool beginning to hear this? But the life after that is true and cruel. In this film by the actor Daniel Day-Lewis, the male protagonist played by him is a quirky and picky person who will throw off the last inspirational muse because of the loudness of the meal. He also frequently appears when getting along with the heroine. Contradictory, seeing that the relationship is about to break, the status of the two is very different, but the heroine uses a plate of poisonous mushrooms to defend the love.
Many people disagree with the pathological or ruinous concept of love in the PTA film, but I don’t think that watching a movie is a kind of moral judgment. The desire for control and attachment in love is fighting for love in career. Relationships in love are not always equal. One party will love the other party more, and the other party will give more. I think this is an abnormal and even gloomy but still warm love movie. He presents our possessiveness in love and the game between two people to the public in an extreme way. He explores a game of power.
At a certain darkest moment, love is drinking poison to quench thirst, but the two people in it are willing to do so, willing to sink.
In addition to the sexual relationship and mind control that the film wants to discuss, at the level of film production, the photography of service is very good. The vintage grain of film flows throughout the film, and the pieces of neon clothes are exquisite The film itself is also a gorgeous visual artwork. When removing those gorgeous costumes, what I think of is that on the day of the celebration, the two awkward people finally looked at each other amidst the crowds and left amidst the excitement. I think this is the most romantic situation I have ever seen in 2018.
03. "The Man without a Surname"
The choice at the bifurcation
This film uses a very attractive concept: if you make different choices at the bifurcation of your life, what will your life be like? Kind of?
It tells about the future in 2092. When the 118-year-old male protagonist Nemo was interviewed before his death and recalled the past, at those important life bifurcation points in his life, different versions of life were actually produced, which led to In different versions, three women who had different entanglements with him.
Through such a magical concept, through the timeline of Nemo's life, we have experienced the ambiguity of his life. In choosing to go left or right, we see the results triggered by different choices, true and false false, And as a romance film, the soft science fiction elements, pigeon’s superstition experiment, superstring theory, butterfly effect, etc. are played very cleverly. If you want to see love, you can see the life under different choices. , If you want to see science fiction, you may be able to see a multi-dimensional space richer than Inception, the theory of the Big Bang.
In fact, in many films that talk about choice, they end up talking about a universal truth. It is not important to choose what to change or stick to the result, but to enjoy the scenery along the way. The audience is eager to see a perfection in the movie. To make up for the regrets in real life and draw a blueprint to help future life. But I was lost in these three seemingly unsuccessful feelings. Life is hard to justify. The things I can grasp are even more limited. I have to bear all the rest for every action I make. Consequences, but there is no way for you not to miss the character that shines in your entire memory.
04. "The Life of Adele"
After the passion fades, love will never end.
The above mentioned are all love stories of the opposite sex. Here I would like to tell you a love movie with the same sex. The film
is a film adapted from a novel, about Adele's raging homosexual love. The scale of the film in terms of sex is also amazing, and this kind of footage has been shocked from the beginning, but in the end I entered the "sage time" to think about when the relationship came into being. gap. The lens language also uses a large number of close-ups and close-ups, and many of them are hand-held lenses, which give the audience a violent impact on the movie's protagonist's life situation and bring the audience in with a sense of presence.
And the most valuable part of the film is that it is not forcibly instilled with same-sex love, that is, true love. It uses the political correctness of the lgbt issue to play tricks. Emotions are strong, life is concrete, and loving someone is from the perspective of men and women.
The protagonist starts from discovering his sexual orientation from the protagonist to finding true love step by step, and then losing his lover step by step. The delicate brushwork in the whole process, all the people who have been in love and those who have been out of love can have strong empathy. Putting aside social issues between the same sex, the emotion itself is nothing more than two ordinary girls having an ordinary love in the best time, and the dazzling light bursts out from this, which is the halo that your lover has plated on you.
From love to separation, from youth to adulthood, from eye-catching blue hair to fading back to brown, mixed with thoughts on art, literature, and philosophy, how we should know ourselves, and how should we feel youth. Why do people who truly love each other cannot be friends? I think the last paragraph of the film is the best answer. Years later, the two met again. You can see that there is still the attraction between them that made them together at the time, but they can no longer be together. The last figure of Adele left makes people cry Can't be alone.
Time and experience are a merciless sickle messenger. If you still have the feelings of the past, then meeting again is just a sickle cutting, and the barbs will make people more painful.
Love is an eternal topic and problem for mankind, longing for the freedom of love, but also obsessed with the possession of love. People will see themselves clearly over and over again in those complex emotional entanglements, and they will still fall into the same mystery trap, ups and downs.
Love has many appearances. Sometimes you see it as disgusting, and sometimes you see it as romantic and charming. The human nature is so complicated, the love is so complicated.
"I am not afraid of death, I am afraid that I cannot grow old with the person I love." When we love strongly, we can speak the most beautiful language in the world. When we are hurt by love, we feel like a dream, feeling that maybe This time we are all just fooled by love.
love is perhaps the largest sect in the world, attracting countless people who love others and will always be followers of each other. This is the greatest salvation.
// Sheep one week
