The whole story of Oriental Selection
At first, a certain editor of Oriental Selection denied that "Dong Yuhui's essay" was his own creation. In the past, the company had always boasted that the essay was all written by Dong Yuhui, but now it was criticized by this sentence The denial left many people in disbelief and asking questions.
did not expect that a small incident would lead to such consequences, so Sun Dongxu and Dong Yuhui, CEOs of Oriental Screening, tried to appease fans during the live broadcast, hoping to suppress the incident as much as possible.
But then the editor came out to accuse him, saying how hard he worked, and Dong Yuhui was just a copywriter in front of the camera. There was a public internal strife, and the incident became more and more intense.
So Oriental Selection had to stand up and adopt tougher measures to control the situation. On the night of 12.12, CEO Sun Dongxu held a meeting in front of the camera in the live broadcast room, criticizing the editor for communicating with emotions and accusing fans of aggressive behavior:
during He even lightly threw his phone and blamed netizens.
’s original intention was to calm down the matter, but it aroused even greater dissatisfaction among fans. They spent money to buy things, but were accused of fandom culture. For a time, the stock price of Oriental Selection fell in response, and at the same time it lost hundreds of thousands of fans. .
From this incident, some people see internal struggles, such as Dongfang Selection taking out the CEO as a gunman, and some people see business competition, such as a company trying to poach Dong Yuhui, but what I saw It's the nature of the mind.
Sun Dongxu threw his mobile phone during a meeting in the live broadcast room. What does this little incident reflect?
Actually, throwing the phone is a very small matter, and it is a gentle throw to express one's emotions, but it depends on the occasion .
If there are only twenty people in this meeting, then if you gently throw your phone, others will only be angry and dare not say anything, or they will not care at all, and they will only have some minor troubles, or there will be no impact at all.
But he threw his phone during a meeting in the live broadcast room, with billions of people watching. Even if it caused dissatisfaction among some people, it would cause an uproar and cause big trouble.
He indulged his behavior, and with such indulgence, is a small trouble in a small scene, and a big trouble in a big scene !
So why do big guys keep the precepts? It’s because the requirements for their behavior must be not to indulge themselves even when there are no people around, so that they can do it when there are many people.
If a person is used to indulging his behavior in small scenes, then he will definitely not be able to control his behavior in big scenes.
So powerful bosses like the Diamond Sutra very much. Why?
because the very core sentence in it is:
Conquer your heart
Anyone who is powerful will know the value of these words.
Only by subduing your indulgent heart, or greed, when there are few people, can you subdue your heart when there are many people.
Because when there are many people, the cost of making mistakes is very high. It may be your arrogant words that ruin the results of decades of hard work.
The small incident of Sun Dongxu lightly throwing his cell phone reflects that he usually disrespects others and has no intention of improving his words and deeds, let alone taking the initiative to surrender his heart.
Why don’t many people dare to make big money?
often fails to make big money because of indulging in greed.
For example, as long as you have money, you will think about doing this and that, which will bring you a lot of things and consume yourself; for a greedy person, it is good not to make a lot of money, otherwise if he makes a lot of money, he will indulge himself. If you are greedy and do many things, you may lose more.
You see, many people now always say that is minimalist and simple because there are too many things, which will consume your energy and energy, and it will also consume your money.
But the reason why a large number of people can control their desires does not mean that they really subdue their hearts, but that their hearts are trapped by reality.
Because they have no money, they have to be minimalist and have no choice. They don’t control their desires; what they often say is probably, if I had money, I would do whatever I want, but now that I have no money, I have to practice Buddhism.In essence,
still cannot control itself. As long as the conditions are met, it will still indulge its greed. If it really makes a lot of money, it will be accompanied by all kinds of things and troubles.
Therefore, for an indulgent person, small money is a small trouble, big money is a big trouble ; they dare not make big money, because the small trouble caused by making a little money is already exhausted, and the big trouble caused by big money , and even unknown troubles, they are afraid and unable to bear them, so they dare not make money.
Many people say they want to make money, but in fact, subconsciously they do not want to make money.
The way to solve the trouble caused by this problem is:
Conquer his heart
If he surrenders his heart, for example, he can still make money even if he has money. Control yourself and don't be greedy and cause a lot of trouble for yourself. Money will not cause him trouble, and he will naturally dare to make money.
My Thoughts
In fact, I didn’t think that indulgence was so harmful before, but after reading this incident, I found that when you have reached a certain position, your character is the most important.
When you make any arrogant words or disrespect others, if you are just an ordinary person, you will at most be beaten;
But if you are a very high-level person, all previous efforts may be ruined.
Keeping the precepts is particularly important.
