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Yixiu cried to the emperor before he went offline: The virtuousness of the concubine is also the most distressing and saddest for the concubine Where!
I think this is what the queen really looks like.
Since she was robbed of the queen's position by Chunyuan, and since her child died, she has been hiding herself and embarrassing herself.
She treated those who had hurt her with revenge and viciousness, and then this viciousness returned to her, and she couldn't let it go for a long time.
Therefore, Yi Xiu has actually been living with a heavy shackle.
is reflected in getting along with people, she can't take care of her heart. A person who can't take care of his own heart will naturally not respect other people's hearts.
Therefore, she will take advantage of An Lingrong's jealousy to alienate her from Zhen Huan 's sisterhood; she dares to openly attack Qi Fei to take away the third brother; she also dares to pinch the queen mother, using the matter of Long Keduo Blackmailing the Queen Mother...
Yi Xiu's sense of boundaries is very lacking. In order to achieve her goal, she has already resorted to all means.
And in terms of self-view, she doesn't know how to love herself. A person who does not love himself well is naturally incapable of loving others.
So when she treats the emperor, she wants to love but doesn't know how to love, and naturally she can't get the emperor's love.
is embodied in the above four aspects.
No. 1, her love is very disciplined and heavy, making people feel lifeless. In the first episode of
" The Legend of Zhen Huan ", Zhang Tingyu reminded the emperor not to put too much faith in Nian Gengyao and others, and Hua Fei sent someone to invite the emperor to have a meal.
The emperor was silent for a while and went to Yixiu's place. It was obvious that Zhang Tingyu belonged to the queen's faction.
As soon as the emperor drank the duck soup, he was relieved for a while, and he praised Yi Xiu's craftsmanship, and reminded her that the kitchen should be done by the servants.
Yixiu said, "Although the concubine is the queen, she is also the wife of the emperor. As a wife and serving her husband, how can you feel tired?"
Her words are quite satisfactory, they seem to be fine, but they are not to the emperor's appetite.
Because Yixiu uses [rules] to respond to emotions.
Therefore, after the emperor used three bowls of duck soup, he was very dissatisfied when he heard Yi Xiu admonishing to "eat three times", and "don't favor it, understand moderation, and make it last for a long time" and so on.
He suddenly pierced Yi Xiu's mind: the diet is the same, and so are the people, are you trying to say this? The translation of
is: Can't you say something directly? As for continuously [dotting] me here?
Yixiu clearly wanted to say something of concern to the emperor, but she was accustomed to bewildering expressions, which made the emperor very impatient.
Although the emperor was afraid of Concubine Hua (a rational idea), at this moment, [emotion] finally prevailed.
So, the emperor shook his face and left, and ran to care about Concubine Hua.
Looking at the piece of eggplant Yi Xiu clipped to the emperor, she was as overwhelmed and embarrassed as she was.
Second, Yi Xiu lacks self-evaluation, she is immersed in the role of "good wife" defined by the emperor and cannot extricate herself.
After Fuzi passed away, Yixiu wanted to sue Concubine Hua.
continued to go to the emperor [dot] in the name of giving bird's nest, but the emperor gave Yixiu a spoonful of bird's nest because he wanted to calm down for the sake of the court.
also said: It's winter, and the queen needs to supplement more.
Yixiu immediately smiled brightly, and he didn't care about the complaint.
It is obvious here that Yixiu needs some love from the emperor to comfort his soul, even if there is a human life behind this love.
She didn't want to speak for Fuzi at all, but to suppress Hua Fei, but she was also happy to receive the emperor's mercy by the way.
Yixiu is very concerned about his image, especially the image of "good wife" in front of the emperor.
So Yu Ying'er is arrogant and domineering, sings loudly in the middle of the night to disturb the palace, and dares to punish Xin Changli, it is the queen mother who came forward to clean up.
Yixiu is unwilling to be a villain, ruining his good image in front of the emperor.
Third, Yixiu couldn't give the emperor enough security and direct emotional value.
Yi Xiu's attitude towards the emperor is typical of coaxing a little boy: take a class and give him another date.
But the emperor is a very assertive person, and he is not an ordinary little boy. He doesn't like to express his emotions innuendo.
Therefore, he likes the direct and bright concubine Hua. Because
is real enough, all emotions are real, even if they are jealous and domineering.
He also likes Zhen Huan who shows his love to him, because behind Zhen Huan's words is naked love and behind love is a sense of security.
A person like the emperor needs others to love him more than he loves others before he can feel safe, which has to do with his attachment type. The emperor
is a typical alienating and avoiding personality (click to learn more).
He didn't grow up in front of the queen mother since he was a child. What the queen mother brought to him was more of a feeling of indifference and alienation. He also had a younger brother, the old fourteen, who was in front of him for comparison.
This makes the emperor's heart insecure, and insecure people hide themselves.
is reflected in intimacy. He yearns for that kind of direct feeling, and the care and words of others are best shown directly on the bright side.
If the other party is hiding and tucking, he can't feel it, and even feels that there is something in the other party's words.
To some extent, Yixiu's character is similar to that of the emperor.
Because Yixiu is also an unloved child in her original family, she was robbed of the queen's position by Chunyuan. On the surface, she pretended to accept it happily; in fact, she hated Chunyuan and killed Chunyuan. Yuan and her children.
The way a person speaks and does things reflects her inner world.
When Yixiu felt threatened by his living environment and felt unsafe, learned to hide his true thoughts and emotions, and naturally he would quietly indulge this habit in the way of communication.
So, Yi Xiu and the emperor are actually people with emotional expression disorders.
They are all communicating with the imaginary object in their hearts, and their conversations are not what they want to say on the surface.
After Zhen Huan had a miscarriage, the emperor did not enter the harem for a month, so Yi Xiu advised the emperor to re-draft.
The emperor mentioned a standard: this woman should not only be obedientIf you are sensible, you need to know him and understand him; but you can't understand too much. If you understand a little, it's enough to be able to talk to him; After the Emperor
left, Yi Xiu began to conduct self-examination: Ben Gong also knew too much.
This is the similarity in their personalities. They only speak half of their words, and the other half depends on each other's guess.
Ke Yixiu is not the emperor. Apart from her, the emperor has many other concubines and concubines. You only need to make a choice to gain a little sense of security.
Yixiu wanted to love the emperor but didn't know how to love him, and he became very distorted before he could feel secure.
When she couldn't appease the emperor through emotional value, she took another route: to please.
After Zhen Huan had a miscarriage, Yi Xiu arranged for An Lingrong to sing to ease the emperor's sorrow. I remember at this moment Shen Meizhuang said: can the lover's heart really be so generous?
It's not that Yi Xiu is so generous, it's that she has no way to get the emperor's love, but she still yearns.
She will look forward to the arrival of the emperor in the middle of the moon. When Zhen Huan takes away her only spiritual comfort, she will want to kill Zhen Huan immediately.
However, after Zhen Huan left the palace, she looked at the emperor so uncomfortable and felt sorry again, so she helped the emperor relieve his grief by manipulating An Lingrong and Qi Concubine . The emperor
was not happy, because he also longed for healthy feelings.
Therefore, Yi Xiu has been imagining that he can give the emperor the best feelings, treating the emperor as a puppet, and ignoring the emotional care that the emperor really wants.
In the end, he turned himself into the person the emperor hated the most, and he would never see her again.
lover, for this sake, it is really sad.
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