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Speaking of the name Sydney , everyone subconsciously thinks of the ex-girlfriend of mainland Internet celebrity Wang Sicong .
But this Sydney is not another Sydney, Sydney is her stage name, her real name is Yan Huiming.
Yan Huiming was born in Italy in 1965 and returned to Hong Kong at the age of 14 to enter the entertainment industry.
If everyone doesn't know who she is at this time, then everyone must have seen the TV series she has acted in.
She is Li Mochou in the 95th edition of "The Condor Heroes", and Madam Ma in the 97th edition of " Tianlong Babu ", but her works are far more than these, she debuted at the age of 14 with Chow Yun-fat , Huang Rihua , Leslie Cheung , Miao Qiaowei and many other celebrities acted.
She fell in love with Leslie Cheung at the age of 16, and at the age of 18 she fell in love with Xu Shaoqiang, who was 15 years older than her. to Canada.
The bloody thing is that Sydney came back to film after many years, and the director even asked her to play Xu Shaoqiang's lover in the play.
What is even more heartbreaking is that Xu Shaoqiang had already divorced and married someone outside the circle at that time. It turned out that Xu Shaoqiang did not want to divorce but did not want to marry her.
How is Sydney now? How are you doing?
Sydney's father was a businessman and married several wives in those days.
With more wives and more children, of course, Sydney has 9 siblings, and she is the 8th eldest. Although
is a young daughter, she has not received the attention of her father. Such a growing environment is doomed to her rebellious character in the future.
If Sydney didn't enter the entertainment industry from Italy, maybe when she grew up, she would marry a man of the right match for a happy life.
In 1976, Sydney's sister Michelle quickly became popular with the role of Huang Rong in "The Legend of the Condor Heroes". Sydney, who was in Italy, was very envious of her sister's ability to become a big star and had the idea of becoming a star herself.
's parents and sister knew that they would oppose her idea in the future, but no matter how they persuaded Sydney, she was determined to enter the entertainment industry.
In 1979, under the recommendation of her sister, she starred in Chow Yun-fat's " Family Love ". Although he only played a little-known role in it, he was still in the entertainment industry.
Sydney and Leslie Cheung met at a dance party.
On that day, my sister took Sydney to dance, and the Sydney of Cardamom Nianhua walked to the center of the dance floor. Leslie Cheung, who had just returned from the UK, was also familiarizing himself with the domestic environment at the dance.
was 16 years old in Sydney and Leslie Cheung was 24 years old.
Sydney's youthful self-confidence attracted Leslie Cheung's attention, and the two got to know each other through the introduction of her sister. At that time, Sydney was still a girl, and she was still very ignorant about her relationship. On the other hand, Leslie Cheung was very interested in this little girlfriend. .
Sydney likes to dance, and she loves to go to the dance hall when she has something to do. Leslie Cheung did not hesitate to quit her job to accompany her to dance. Even when she was sent by the company to , Singapore, and on a business trip, she did not forget to buy fashionable and beautiful clothes for Sydney.
It's a pity that the preservation period of this relationship is too short, it only lasted for a few months and it ended. Many years later, Leslie Cheung committed suicide by jumping off the building. Every time Sydney laments this incident, she will think of their love affair.
ended the first relationship, and Sydney threw herself into the intense filming. In 1981,
cooperated with Shi Xiu and Miao Qiaowei in " Heroes Out of Boys ", and in 1982, he cooperated with Chow Yun-fat again to star in the costume martial arts drama "The Lonely City Guest". In the same year,
and Xu Shaoqiang also filmed the Hong Kong horror film "Raising Ghosts", and it was precisely because of the filming that Sydney fell in love with a man who ruined her life. When
filmed "Raising Ghosts", Sydney was 17 years old and Xu Shaoqiang was 32 years old. Xu Shaoqiang spontaneously developed a favorable impression of this girl in her youth.
Compared with Leslie Cheung, who is simple-minded, Xu Shaoqiang is a loverA veteran in the field, there is a set of tricks for girls.
Sydney's family, siblings, and many fathers seldom paid attention to her. Sydney, who lacked fatherly love since she was a child, felt that she had found a sense of security in Xu Shaoqiang. Coupled with Xu Shaoqiang's sweet talk, Sydney soon fell.
's sister Michelle strongly objected to her relationship with Xu Shaoqiang after knowing it, believing that it would not have a good outcome, but Sydney disagreed, she thought that her sister's objection was only because Xu Shaoqiang was much older than her.
Young and ignorant, despite her sister's dissuasion, she moved to the apartment that Xu Shaoqiang rented for her, and the two began a sweet cohabitation life.
Not long after, Sydney found out that she was pregnant and proposed to Xu Shaoqiang to get married. At this time, Sydney learned that Xu Shaoqiang was already married and had a child.
The news made Sydney's heart smashed like a beast of a flood. At this time, Xu Shaoqiang said that he and his wife no longer had feelings. Divorce was a matter of time. Now they are still reluctantly together because they are worried about their children. Xu Shaoqiang asked Sydney to wait for him.
Xu Shaoqiang lightly said to let Sydney wait for him, and Sydney waited for a lifetime, delaying Sydney's life.
Sydney naively believed in Xu Shaoqiang's promise and looked forward to becoming Xu Shaoqiang's veritable wife in the near future.
18-year-old Sydney gave birth to a son for Xu Shaoqiang in 1983, and a daughter to Xu Shaoqiang in 1985.
Seeing that the children grew up and became more sensible, Sydney couldn't let the children bear the infamy of being illegitimate, and urged Xu Shaoqiang to get married with her.
In 1986, under the repeated urging of Sydney, Xu Shaoqiang finally agreed to take Sydney to collect the certificate on the agreed date. Sydney wept with joy and imagined that the hardships finally came to an end.
In order to welcome this day, Sydney specially dressed up and waited for Xu Shaoqiang at the entrance of the Civil Affairs Bureau, and saw Xu Shaoqiang walking towards the Civil Affairs Bureau, holding Xu Shaoqiang's hand with a smile.
The process of applying for the marriage certificate went very smoothly. Suddenly, the staff said to Xu Shaoqiang: "If you are married before, you must show a divorce certificate when you marry someone else." The book is "
In fact, he forgot to bring it, it is clearly not divorced.
Sydney is disheartened and heartbroken. He finally sees the true nature of the man in front of him, but unfortunately all his good years are ruined on him.
did not see any hope in Xu Shaoqiang, and Sydney, who could not expect any results, decided to leave this sad place with two children to settle in Canada.
left Xu Shaoqiang's Sydney to become a real single mother. Before that, she gave birth to two children in a row, and she did not work for 7 years at home to take care of the two children wholeheartedly. Living in Sydney, where she did not have any skills in a foreign country, was stretched.
After living in Canada for a while, Sydney decided to come back to earn money to support a pair of children.
7 years ago, Sydney was young and beautiful. As soon as she debuted, she cooperated with many celebrities and won the appreciation of directors. She was recognized as a beautiful girl in Hong Kong at that time.
Today is different from the past. Today, Sydney is a mother of two children, and any industry has undergone earth-shaking changes in 7 years, not to mention the entertainment industry with newcomers.
So it is difficult for Sydney, who has just come back, to reintegrate into the entertainment industry. Fortunately, her sister Michelle's strong support has enabled her to gain a firm foothold in the entertainment industry again. It's just that since filming, she has to run on both sides, often flying back to Canada to visit her daughter during filming intervals.
's son is okay. Not long after her daughter was born, Sydney couldn't accompany her because she was busy with filming. This directly caused her daughter to be very unfamiliar with her every time Sydney returned to Canada to visit them. I don't want to touch my mother.
This makes Sydney very sad, but there is no way to make money where there is a home, and there is no home where there is money. In order to make life more comfortable for their children, Sydney chose the latter.
Under the recommendation of her sister, Sydney played Fan Qiuniang in " Legend of Heroes and Girls " in 1988. Although thisThe drama did not make her very good, but it was enough to announce to the outside world that she was going to come back in the entertainment industry.
From 1988 to 2001, Sydney starred in " Manchu Qing Dynasty: The Dangerous City of the Thirteen Dynasties: ", "The Winner is King", "Sword God", "The Heavenly Silkworm Changed", "God" "The Condor Heroes", "Criminal Investigation File 2", "Five Awakened Teenagers", "Eight Dragons", "Looking for Qin Ji" and so on.
Among them, "The Heavenly Silkworm Changed: No Longer Sky", "The Condor Heroes", and "Dragon Babu" received the highest attention.
In 1993, director Xiao Sheng and were preparing to shoot "The Heavenly Silkworm Changed: The Sky Will Be High Again". Several protagonists were chosen, but Tangning was the only one who could never find a suitable candidate.
Xiao Sheng set his sights on Sydney, who had come back soon, so he called Sydney.
Sydney took over the play with joy. I didn't expect to find out that the male protagonist was Xu Shaoqiang after going to the crew, and he played Xu Shaoqiang's lover in the play.
Sydney wanted to quit for a while after she knew the truth, but at this time she no longer did things without considering the consequences as she did more than 10 years ago. First, the director Xiao Sheng has been kind to her, so she can't be so ungrateful, and secondly, she has just made her comeback, so there is no capital to pick a script, and acting is already good.
It is distressing that for more than 10 years, Sydney has sacrificed everything for her children and lost her career. Xu Shaoqiang not only did not give her any results, but also married another woman outside the circle after the divorce. Sydney has been waiting for many years, and the marriage certificate that she longed to receive was easily obtained by another woman.
It's just that at this time, Sydney no longer has any illusions about Xu Shaoqiang. Even if the two are acting as lovers in the play, there is no trace of waves in the backwater-like heart.
's hard work pays off, because "The Heavenly Silkworm Changes No Longer Than the Sky" Sydney once again gained attention.
In 1996, "The Condor Heroes" starring Gu Tianle and Li Ruotong was launched and became a hot TV series in that year. Sydney played the role of Li Mochou, who "killed the world's heartless men".
may be that her emotional experience is particularly suitable for the character of Li Mochou, so she portrays this character in a penetrating manner, which makes people love, hate and pity. In reality, Sydney, who can't take revenge, had an addiction in the play. In addition to the role of Li Mochou,
also played Mrs. Ma " Kang Min " in the 97 version of "Dragon Babu". Most of the characters
Sydney has created since their comeback are negative images, but Sydney in real life is indeed a person who loves life very much.
Many years later, a reporter interviewed her about Xu Shaoqiang's feelings. She confessed that she was indeed unkind, but a pair of children was the best gift given to her by God, and she loved her children very much.
On September 15th, Sydney posted a message on social platforms saying that he was confirmed new crown also made a picture of Cordyceps flower pig bone soup for himself. He also told everyone in the comment area that the soup he made tasted very good, and netizens also warned them. Sister Shirley should take good care of herself and wish her a speedy recovery.
Now a pair of children in Sydney have grown up, son Xu Weidong and daughter Xu Yingkun have also stepped into the entertainment industry one after another. Father Xu Shaoqiang has made a lot of efforts to use his personal connections to bring his son into the industry.
Last year, Xu Yingkun also posted a photo of their brother and sister with their father on social platforms and called their father a hero. It seems that their relationship with Xu Shaoqiang has indeed eased now. Sydney also declared to the public that the children had grown up and would not interfere with their interactions with Xu Shaoqiang.
As Sydney once said, two children are her best gift. Halfway through her life, she must have no regrets now. I wish her good health and a happy life!
