Zhao Benshan has always been a big celebrity in the entertainment industry.
Until now, Zhao Benshan, who is already full of white hair, is still active on the stage, and continues to bring different wonderful performances to the audience with his own spirit.
has a lot of right and wrong, and behind Zhao Benshan's scenery, there are also some little-known stories.
Zhao Benshan's first wife is called Ge Shuzhen.
The woman Ge Shuzhen and Zhao Tiedan, the son Ge Shuzhen gave birth to Zhao Benshan, are the biggest "pain" in Zhao Benshan's life .
Ge Shuzhen, who was abandoned 31 years ago
In 1991, that is, 31 years ago, when Zhao Benshan was at the peak of his career, chose to divorce Ge Shuzhen, a woman who didn't have much culture and didn't know how to "understand",
In 1991, many Everyone thinks that Zhao Benshan chose to abandon Ge Shuzhen.
In fact, even Zhao Benshan himself said back then that the person who felt especially guilty in this life was his ex-wife Ge Shuzhen.
However, Ge Shuzhen is a reasonable person. In Ge Shuzhen's heart, she never felt that Zhao Benshan had abandoned her.
Ge Shuzhen is a woman who grew up in the countryside and has been taking root in the countryside, so she knows how to cherish it very much. Life is also very grateful.
31 years ago, when she and Zhao Benshan divorced, Ge Shuzhen didn't blame Zhao Benshan, let alone embarrass Zhao Benshan.
31 years ago, when she and Zhao Benshan divorced, she didn't embarrass Zhao Benshan too much. When
and Zhao Benshan divorced, Ge Shuzhen was also very peaceful.
However, when Ge Shuzhen divorced Zhao Benshan, she also took all of Zhao Benshan's savings, and at the same time brought her two children born for Zhao Benshan to live with each other.
However, what Ge Shuzhen never expected was that 's divorce was just the beginning of her own suffering. Why did
say that divorce was the beginning of Ge Shuzhen's hard life?
Because after the divorce from Zhao Benshan 31 years ago, although Ge Shuzhen took all of Zhao Benshan's savings at that time, the savings are always spent less and less.
does not have Ge Shuzhen with Zhao Benshan behind her, so she has to think about her own future and the future of her children.
For the future and for her livelihood, Ge Shuzhen's hard life began like this.
Ge Shuzhen is different from Zhao Benshan, Zhao Benshan was very popular 31 years ago, and he is also a big man on the stage.
31 years ago, Ge Shuzhen was a woman who didn't know anything except washing, cooking and raising children.
So for Ge Shuzhen, when she just divorced 31 years ago, although she had a lot of savings from Zhao Benshan, at that time Ge Shuzhen also understood that the hardest days in her life had just begun.
In order not to sit still and eat, in order not to let the children grow up as hard as themselves.
Ge Shuzhen chose to work part-time, but when she was working, didn't ask for anything, but only wanted to stabilize .
When Ge Shuzhen chose to work part-time, she didn't care what others said, she scolded herself. When
doesn't do well, Ge Shuzhen always finds the reason in herself. When
was wronged, Ge Shuzhen would not tell others that my ex-husband was Zhao Benshan.
Because Ge Shuzhen knows that if she lets others know that her ex-husband is Zhao Benshan, she will definitely give herself face, and she will definitely take special care of herself.
Because Ge Shuzhen knows that if others give Zhao Benshan face, he will definitely not learn anything, and it will be difficult for him to gain more useful knowledge in his future work.
is that everyone does not know that Ge Shuzhen is Zhao Benshan's ex-wife, so at work, Ge Shuzhen does not enjoy special treatment.
After her husband abandoned her 31 years ago, Ge Shuzhen's work has always been very hard. When
doesn't do well, others criticize him, and even fry their own squid.
But no matter how others criticize her, no matter how tiring her work is, Ge Shuzhen endures it because she knows that the real society requires knowledge and skills.
So no matter what difficulties you encounter, no matter how tiring her work is, even if it is selling small things on the street, Ge Shuzhen will do it very seriously. At the beginning of
, Ge Shuzhen was particularly bitter,
because of whether it was a part-time job or going out to start a business, basically failed and ended . When
was working hardest in Ge Shuzhen, another blow came, and this blow was the death of 's son, Zhao Tiedan.
Because in the winter of 1994, that is, the winter of 28 years ago, Zhao Tiedan, the son of Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen, passed away forever because of illness.
The winter 28 years ago was a particularly hard winter for Ge Shuzhen. Because of this cold winter,
not only did not make any money, but her work was also hit hard. What
made her even more unacceptable was that in this cold winter, her only son left her forever.
28 years ago, she witnessed her son's death
28 years ago in the winter, after her son's death, Ge Shuzhen was a different person.
Ge Shuzhen at this time will not even mention her ex-husband Zhao Benshan.
At this time, Ge Shuzhen also said to her eldest daughter Zhao Yufang : Don't tell your father about your work, or your work outside and setting up a street stall.
Ge Shuzhen's eldest daughter, Zhao Yufang, has been very sensible since she was a child.
So many times, Zhao Yufang wants to borrow her father Zhao Benshan to help her mother and live a happy and stable life.
But Zhao Yufang also knows her mother's stubbornness, so Zhao Yufang has been persuading her mother for so many years, hoping that her mother can accept the help of her father Zhao Benshan.
31 years ago, my husband chose to separate from him when his career was booming.
Twenty-eight years ago, Ge Shuzhen witnessed her son's death with her own eyes.
These life experiences will never be forgotten for Ge Shuzhen. It is precisely because
has experienced some things that ordinary people can't experience, so Ge Shuzhen also insists on what she believes.
Ge Shuzhen's persistence over the years makes people very distressed. After
divorced, Ge Shuzhen has always insisted on earning her own wealth with her own hands .
Even if her daughter Zhao Yufang really wants to change herself through a general relationship, Ge Shuzhen, a mother, still insists on her own entrepreneurial path.
Ge Shuzhen's persistence is really touching and very positive. Because
has experienced ups and downs over the years, Ge Shuzhen really persevered and really succeeded.
did not borrow Zhao Benshan's fame, but through her own hands, Ge Shuzhen's career is admirable, and she has brought many people.
Some employees under Ge Shuzhen also felt that Ge Shuzhen's persistence made people cry.
Because many people see that Ge Shuzhen is a hard-working woman, and they also know what her persistence is for.
In addition to insisting on not accepting the help of her ex-husband, Ge Shuzhen also insists on educating her children in her own way.
We all know that Zhao Benshan's two children are quite famous in the entertainment circle, and they are also controversial.
, but many people don't know Ge Shuzhen's eldest daughter, she has always been very low-key, not seeking fame and fortune, let alone being able to live a luxurious life.
This is where Ge Shuzhen insisted to make people tearful. If it weren't for Ge Shuzhen for so many years, she had always insisted on using the simplest method to educate her eldest daughter.
Maybe now the eldest daughter born by Ge Shuzhen and Zhao Benshan can also show her face, but if
chooses to show her face, she will definitely be talked about.
is because of Ge Shuzhen's tenacityTherefore, the eldest daughter Zhao Yufang has a very good grasp, and few people in the outside world know about her life and details.
Ge Shuzhen today is still sticking to what she insisted on back then.
The current Zhao Benshan is still very famous in the outside world, but Ge Shuzhen never felt in her own life that it was bad for Zhao Benshan to leave her back then. The current Ge Shuzhen of
is still insisting, does not talk about the affairs of his ex-husband Zhao Benshan outside, nor does he make any evaluation of the current Zhao Benshan.
The current Ge Shuzhen still insists on educating her daughter in the most simple way. Although her daughter is married, Ge Shuzhen still hopes that her daughter's family will not be discussed or paid attention to, and it will be as simple as being happy and happy.
Some people say that the abandonment of Zhao Benshan 31 years ago changed Ge Shuzhen.
also said that seeing her son's death in the winter 28 years ago really changed Ge Shuzhen.
Actually, Ge Shuzhen has a lot to do with her life experience, but it also has a lot to do with her personality.
The current Ge Shuzhen is low-key, but her life is happy and stable.
can have a stable and happy life today, Ge Shuzhen does not depend on anyone, she works silently to create her own world through her own hands.
The persistence behind Ge Shuzhen is both inspirational and tearful.
is inspirational because she decided in her heart and persevered.
tears, because in the process of her persistence, she has experienced too many ups and downs and vicissitudes, because in the process of her persistence, people really see how a woman with a hard life can be tenacious in society Survive.