He Han and Tang Jing have been in love for 10 years, both in terms of career and appearance, they are a match made in heaven and are a perfect match. He Han and Tang Jing thought so too, so they fell in love. It's a pity that they have been in a long-distance relationship for ten years, and they always failed to get married for various reasons. He Han later fell in love with Tang Jing's best friend Luo Zijun and gave up her career and future for her.
Many people feel sorry for the endless love between He Han and Tang Jing. If they are really together, it will be a powerful alliance between a domineering president and a strong woman. How many people should be envious.
Too bad they still missed it. I used to feel that the 10 years of youth that Tang Jing paid for was not worth it, but when I watched this drama again, I realized that Tang Jing had long expected this kind of ending. She spent 10 years testing He Han, but just wanted an answer.
's imaginary enemy in love
Tang Jing and He Han's biggest obstacle when they are in love is Vivian. Vivian is young and beautiful, with strong working ability, and her personality can be domineering and gentle. There are many excellent women like her. The suitor can choose, but she prefers to fall in love with He Han who doesn't love her, and can't extricate herself.
At that time, He Han and Tang Jing had reached the point of getting married. In order to snatch He Han, Vivian deliberately took He Han's house key, took pictures at He Han's house and sent them to the circle of friends, just like a hostess.
Tang Jing broke down when she saw Vivian's Moments. No matter how He Han explained that there was innocence between him and Vivian, including that he did not know about Vivian going to his house, Tang Jing's doubts about He Han could not be eliminated.
He Han is too good. He is handsome, well-born, and has outstanding abilities. He is a leader among high-quality men. An attractive man like him is surrounded by countless Yingying and Yanyan. They have their own style. Tang Jing does not believe He Hanzheng. When they are young and vigorous, they will be indifferent to their embrace.
Because he couldn't let go of this suspicion, no matter how many times He Han proposed to marry him, Tang Jing refused to nod and agree to marry him. In order to let Tang Jing let go of the past, He Han changed the house and cut off contact with Vivian. But when Tang Jing heard Vivian's name, her nerves would be tense.
Luo Zijun said that Tang Jing has an emotional cleanliness. Although she said to outsiders that she enjoys single life, in fact, she just couldn't let go of the past of He Han and Vivian.
However, I don't think Tang Jing has an emotional cleanliness. She seemed to regard Vivian as a rival in love, but it was actually a test to He Han, because she wanted an answer.
Tang Jing once said to He Han: The company allowed me to do it because the company needed me. Just like people, when there is no substitute, no matter what you do, you will stay with you. When you find a substitute, no matter how much you lower your eyebrows and beg you, you will still be kicked out.
Tang Jing and He Han are together and lack a sense of security. In the 10 years she has been in love with He Han, she has never let down her guard for a day, because He Han has not given her any promises, and she is afraid that someone better than herself will appear in He Han's life and take her place. So she kept working hard to make herself irreplaceable.
Vivian is the one who made Tang Jing feel the sense of crisis, because her appearance stepped on Tang Jing's weakness.
After the relationship between He Han and Tang Jing went wrong, Tang Jing was transferred to work in Hong Kong. When He Han was on a business trip to Hong Kong, both Vivian and Tang Jing learned that he was coming.
That night, Vivian first found He Han to confess. When He Han was about to reject her love, Tang Jing appeared at the door with a bottle of red wine. She was wearing a red dress with a smile on her face and delicate makeup, and it was obvious that she had been dressed very carefully. When Tang Jing saw Vivian, the smile on her face froze.
Vivian said to Tang Jing in a mocking tone: Tang Jing, this man in front of him will not marry me, nor will he marry you. It's a pity that you waited longer than me and loved me more, so you were more sad and disappointed than me. You have not given up until now, you have become a joke in the circle, the waiting sparrow Tang.
After hearing this sentence, He Han said to Vivian for the first time seriously: All the words you just said are all upside down. I hope you can understand that the one between us who refused to marry is Tang Jing Do notIt's me, it's not Tang Jing who has been chasing each other with a stubborn face, it's not Tang Jing, it's me who has been waiting for the other party. As long as she is willing to marry me, I will immediately get down on one knee and marry her home. Therefore, no one can slander Tang Jing in front of me.
After Vivian left in despair, Tang Jing hugged He Han and cried. What she has been waiting for all these years is He Han's words.
Vivian's taunting of Tang Jing is exactly what everyone said. In everyone's eyes, it was Tang Jing who was pursuing He Han, year after year. They despised Tang Jing's complacency, and nicknamed her "Sparrow Tang".
I believe that Tang Jing is not the first to hear these words. She has worked hard in the workplace for so many years and has been enduring the ridicule of others. She doesn't care what others say about her, but she cares about He Han's attitude.
The reason why she can't let go of He Han and Vivian's past is not because she doesn't trust He Han, but because she hopes that He Han can stand up to protect her like she does now, dispel those who miss him and let her see to his unwavering love for her.
Tang Jing targeted Vivian because she regarded Vivian as an imaginary enemy in love. Because even without Vivienne, there would be other women. She wanted to see He Han's attitude towards excellent women pursuing him.
If He Han could have said these words back then, she would not have put Vivian in her eyes at all, and other excellent women would not have caused her to be wary and disturbed. It was He Han's non-rejection and non-commitment that made her feel confused and inferior in her relationship, and regarded Vivian as an enemy. She loves He Han, but He Han's love is not specific. She was afraid of losing He Han, so she didn't have the confidence to fight against Vivian.
After He Han said this, Vivian let go of the past and started a new relationship. Ironically, when He Han and Tang Jing were in love, they never said these words, nor did they defend Tang Jing in this way.
Now he says these words calmly, it seems sincere, but in fact, he knows that he and Tang Jing will not continue to be together, and he just protects her out of friendship.
If He Han loves Tang Jing, can he bear the jokes of others watching Tang Jing and talk about her watching for so many years behind her back? Can he endure Vivian's provocation of Tang Jing in person, causing Tang Jing's emotions to collapse? If he loves Tang Jing, why doesn't he explain the affair between him and Vivienne to let everyone know that Tang Jing is the real master? If he loves Tang Jing, why does he even know that Tang Jing hates Vivienne and ask Vivienne to meet with Tangjing behind his back when he goes to Hong Kong?
He Han is capable and talented, but he is also conceited and selfish. He is detached from Vivienne, but just enjoys being admired and wants to let others know that no matter how old he is, he is full of charm. He proposed to Tang Jing, but it was only expected that Tang Jing would refuse. Because he didn't really want to get married, he wanted Tang Jing to see the hope that he would marry her, and when he really wanted to get married but no one chose, he would have a well-informed backup by his side.
is like Chen Junsheng said: In fact, for men, there is nothing to want to get married now, or not to get married now, that is all excuses. Men only want to marry you and don't want to marry you.
If He Han really loves Tang Jing, he will be worried about losing her, so he can't wait to get a certificate from her immediately. He deliberately did not give Tang Jing the promise he wanted. It seemed to respect Tang Jing, but in fact he gave himself time to think about it, because he was not ready to marry Tang Jing at all.
Emotionally out of control
Tang Jing and He Han are lovers in life and rivals at work. Both of them wanted to talk about Adam, a big customer, because when they talked about Adam, they would have the leverage to negotiate with the company. The employees of the company all know that He Han does not recognize his six relatives, and he will not show mercy to Tang Jing, and they all sympathize with Tang Jing. Because Tang Jing spent many years of energy and time in order to cooperate with Adam. If we can't talk about Adam, a big customer, Tang Jing will resign from the company.
Just when Tang Jing was anxious, there was an additional data report on the desk. Tang Jing knew that this data was given by He Han, and that she took this data to find Adam, and Adam would give up and He Han. Cooperation. He Han just went to work in another company, and such a thing would be very detrimental to his future development.
But in order to cooperate with Adam, Tang Jing chose to sacrifice He Han to keep her job. She took the data to find Adam. But Adam and He Han are very good friends, Tang Jing found that no matter how much favorable evidence she produced to prove He HanHan made mistakes in his work, Adam would cooperate with He Han, only to find that he fell into He Han's trap.
He Han is testing her!
Sure enough, He Han told Tang Jing that he had found someone to put this data on her desk, and he wanted to see who Tang Jing would choose between work and him and who to give up.
He Han said to Tang Jing: I do this, it is a teacher-apprentice test for you, and a friend's test for him. You are doing well, almost full marks. As long as you communicate with me in advance, worry about hurting my feelings, or hesitate for a while, worrying that someone with a heart will deliberately put information on your desk to frame me, you will miss the opportunity. In fact, no matter which one you choose, he will convince Adam to choose you.
Tang Jing collapsed. She knew that what she did to He Han was a good thing for the company, but for He Han, her choice meant the end of their relationship. Because in Tang Jing's eyes, there are only interests and no feelings.
Sure enough, since this incident, He Han began to get along with Tang Jing as a friend. Although he was a little disappointed with Tang Jing's choice, he was more gratified. He found that Tang Jing had grown up and became the second He Han. If she continued to maintain it, it would be difficult to have another opponent, including him.
If He Han loves Tang Jing, he will be disappointed, sad and angry when he finds that Tang Jing values her work more than herself. But he didn't. He was rationally surprised to see Tang Jing do this. It was his reason that made Tang Jing understand that there was no love between them.
No matter what Tang Jing does, He Han has never gotten angry. He solves everything with ease and lightness, as if nothing can stop him. But He Han's goodness towards Tang Jing is limited to teaching her how to stand firm in the company, and he disdains to care about her life and trivial matters.
That's why Luo Zijun said to He Han: Do you know what love is? You don't really love anyone at all. Every day you have a computer in your head calculating in and out, making ends meet. You are emotionally unsound, and you have no idea what unrequited love is? The sentence
shocked He Han, because it pierced He Han's disguise. He Han found that he was calculating all the time, even when he was with Tang Jing, he was discussing how to choose in life to maximize his own interests. He never seemed to be willing to give anything for a person without asking for anything in return.
Later, He Han fell in love with Luo Zijun, and his changes were seen by those around him. Luo Zijun did not bring an umbrella when he was on a business trip. He was worried that she would not be able to buy a ticket, so he would call to remind her. The car she was in broke down on the road, and he was worried that she would not be safe alone, and he would drive to pick her up no matter how late it was.
Luo Zijun's son celebrated his birthday. In order to make Luo Zijun happy, he knew that a major incident had happened in the company. If he didn't solve it in time, his future would be worrisome, but he still gave up this opportunity to celebrate Luo Zijun's son's birthday. Luo Zijun's mother and sister needed help. In order to reassure Luo Zijun, he would arrive in time no matter how busy he was.
Luo Zijun is going for an interview. He will carefully organize the information and patiently teach her how to do it. Even Lao Zhuo said: I have never seen you so gentle with anyone.
When Tang Jing discovered that the relationship between He Han and Luo Zijun was not right, and deliberately introduced him to Luo Zijun, he even lost his mind and took the initiative to confess to Tang Jing, just so that Tang Jing would not embarrass Luo Zijun.
Tang Jing saw He Han's thoughtfulness and meticulousness towards Luo Zijun and his emotions were out of control, only then did he know that He Han had never loved her. Because He Han never reminded her to bring an umbrella in the rain, and would not care whether it was safe for her to travel alone. Even if she was sad and sad and went to work in Hong Kong where she was unfamiliar with her life, and there were many difficulties in her work, he felt that she could face it by herself.
When a person has you in his heart, he will worry about losing you. Your little trouble will make him nervous. If he doesn't love you, even if you are sad to the point of despair, he thinks you can survive alone without even a word of concern. Yu said. Love doesn't need to be proved, people who have you in their hearts will naturally prove their love in his own way.
In the end, He Han quietly left Shanghai, and his 10-year relationship with Tang Jing also came to an end. Although this ending is a bit cruel, for Tang Jing, it is also a kind ofrelief. She had long expected this ending, but she refused to admit it before.
is like her conversation with Lao Zhuo:
Tang Jing said: I am free now, I no longer have to live the way he likes, to be precise, the way I think he likes.
Lao Zhuo said: In life, some people don't know who they love until they die, and some people don't know until they die, who loves them.
If a person truly loves you, you can be any kind of girl, you can be gentle, you can be unreasonable, and you can be yourself. If he doesn't love you, he needs you to be gentle and considerate, obedient and sensible, self-reliant and self-reliant.
Fortunately, Tang Jing used 10 years of youth to see through the essence of her love with He Han. The rest of her life is still long, and she still has a chance to start over.
I hope Tang Jing can meet someone who truly loves her. People and things in the past are different from each other, so be safe! Life always has to be a little regretful to be considered complete!
