That being said, I thought that there were only two troubled children, Yang Mo and Yuan Wu, in the drama "Gone Child", plus the "big boss" Xu Enhuai, there were three. The core idea that wants to express in the whole play is obvious - children need the correct family education . The three problematic parenting styles have created three different problem children, and their actions and even their lives are caused by serious problems with their parents.
Yuan Wu: Destroying
in doting, I want to ask who is the best actor in this drama, I personally think it is Wei Chen. Wei Chen is a handsome guy, but the image of Yuan Wu he created has reached a terrifying level - blurred and sluggish eyes, hunched body, and skinny. This is just the outside, the inside of this person is also very bad, suffering from neurosis , unable to communicate with people normally, gambling, and eating old.
Who would have thought that Yuan Wu was a famous college student who once had a wife and daughter? has such an outrageous transformation, it's no wonder his parents have been doting on him. He is a full-fledged mother and boy. From childhood to adulthood, everything is handled by his mother. Even blind dates require his mother to talk to him and rehearse. He doesn't know how to put laundry detergent in the washing machine, because he can't live without work. Himself, his father died and he chose to hide his body to cheat his pension.
He is actually a giant baby. As soon as his mother died, he lost his way and didn't know how to live and survive. What's the use of good grades? He has been destroyed by the doting of his parents.
Xu Enhuai: Blackening in the absence of love
In the first episode, we saw this well-behaved, well-behaved, and excellent junior high school girl, and we would never have imagined that she was responsible for all this. Why do you say that the big boss is Xu Enhuai?
Although it was not stated explicitly in the play, there was a scene in the last episode that shocked Yang Yuan - Enhuai pushed the box, and Momo came out from another place. What did Yang Yuan think of? It was Enhuai who lured Momo into hiding in that secret passage, and then deliberately let him be discovered by Yuan Wu. Obviously, Enhuai wants Momo to disappear forever, and let his father Xu Anzheng enter the game, so that he can become the daughter of Yang Yuan's family.
seems sensible and self-reliant, but she lacks love. Her mother couldn't treat her normally because of 's depression, and she made her do some things beyond her ability since she was a child; her father was busy with work and never cared about her, and she was discovered by her She sexually assaulted Lin Chuping. She lacks love and is too precocious. The concern of Yang Yuan and Tao Fang for her is a beauty she has never experienced before. The absence of her parents when she was growing up made her come up with such bad ideas and do bad things.
Yang Mo: Escape from
In the end, this is the child Yang Mo who disappeared in the corridor. He is the youngest and the luckiest among the three "children", because his parents have experienced the disappearance of the child, and the way of education has completely changed, from unreasonable to healthy and reasonable.
He's not being spoiled, he's not being kept free, he's being watched. Yang Yuan's family atmosphere is too depressing, Yang Yuan always listens to his wife Tao Fang, and Tao Fang is only an academic. Every day he only knows to let his son read, do homework, and go to cram schools, killing his interest and killing his childhood. , talking is not a word. This is already very difficult for normal children, but Yang Mo is another child with ADHD, and escaping has become his wish, which is why he will be kind.
"disappeared child" just refers to Yang Mo who disappeared in the corridor? No, his disappearance is the physical layerThe face disappeared, and it turned out well, he was found. The real spiritual disappearance of is the disappearance of Yuan Wu and Xu Enhuai. Yuan Wu is like a walking corpse, the "child" has been stripped from him, has merged with his mother, and has been buried with his mother; Xu Enhuai's disappearance is the disappearance of innocence, she is more mature than adults, she thinks more, mental age Far from being a child anymore.
This result is caused by inappropriate family education. Coddling creates giant babies, lack of love creates extremes, and strict control creates escape. is a 12-episode short play, but it shows the problems of family education in today's society so thoroughly and in place.
