Cheng Shaoshang in "The Stars and Men is Splendid", although the daughter of the head of the family Cheng Shi, Zhuangzi who lived in the countryside since childhood. Even the housekeeper dared to despise her.
Leaving aside her tragic experience, let's talk about what makes this seemingly illiterate woman so educated.
Because of her, she has been pursued by three high-quality men, including Lou Yao, a son of an aristocratic family, talented Yuan Shen, and general Ling Budo.
's hidden charms aside, on the surface, there are at least three charms.
The first one: perseverance and tenacity
Cheng Shaoshang has not been with his parents since he was a child, very similar to the current "left-behind children".
was thrown to a village in the countryside to fend for herself while her fever persisted.
A young businessman who has been short of clothing and food, he devoured his meal before returning to the house.
shows how persevering and tenacious she has to be in order to deal with all kinds of difficulties and survive hard.
After his parents returned, he was severely educated by his mother.
Cheng Shaoshang was right in the "book case scandal", so he would rather be dealt with by military law than bow his head to his mother.
Although she has not been cared for by her parents since she was a child, she did not abandon herself because of the harsh living environment.
didn't complain about his misfortune, but thought about how to survive.
Cheng Shaoshang's perseverance in his bones is indeed admirable.
The second one: brave and resourceful
Along with Cheng Zhi and his wife, they were chased by rebels on their way to Hua County, and Cheng Shaoshang remained calm in the face of danger.
She abandoned her luggage, hunted for prey, made defenses, delayed time and waited for rescue.
pulled out a broken arrow for Ling Budo and suggested to Cheng Zhi to hold a fundraiser, and obtained sufficient funds to rebuild Hua County.
When the whole family was wrongfully imprisoned, Cheng Shaoshang went to Tongniu County alone to find his father to find out the truth...
Brave people do not feel fear, but can overcome their fear.
Cheng Shaoshang is such a girl, she is not only brave, but also wise.
Than if you dare to throw away money and goods, know how to use tools, and can raise funds skillfully.
can be said to be calm and ingenious. Although she is a girl, her courage is no less than that of a man.
The third: independent personality
"Ling Budo is my favorite person in the world, but I am still myself." .
In ancient times and even in modern times, there are always many women who live as accessories of men, as if pleasing men is their value of existence.
There are also women who lose their true self once they fall in love.
For example, interrupting one's own hobbies, focusing on the other party, circling around the other party all day, etc.
and Shaoshang had an independent personality that very few girls had at that time. She was independent and self-reliant, and she never thought of relying on Ling Budo.
The people around the fifth princess pushed Cheng Shaoshang into the river, and she did not ask Ling Budo for help. Afterwards, he did not take the initiative to tell Ling Budo about it.
She is calm when she is in trouble, knows how to protect herself, and how to solve and deal with it.
is also because he did not rely on him since he was a child, and everything has to be caused by himself. Although the formation of
is sad, it is also a great benefit. After all, independence is a particularly good quality.
is independent and will always be one of the most attractive signs of a woman.
is independent, which means being independent, not following others' opinions, and not following the crowd.
It's even more so in love, I can love someone, but I'm still myself.
Although some people say that "a child who can cry has candy to eat, and a woman who can act like a baby is better", butThat is limited to someone who catches your crying and coquetry.
And it's easy to form a dependent mentality. Once you lose your dependence, you will be unable to move an inch or your posture will be ugly.
being independent will make you feel more secure and feel a little colder, but you will feel more at ease.
can also earn real respect or admiration. Cheng Shaoshang like
has grown tenaciously in the face of adversity and has his own stubbornness and character.
She has to be admired for her ability to stand up to her own side when her family is in danger.
When facing love, she is neither humble nor arrogant, always maintaining a clear and pure heart, and at the same time maintaining a sense of kindness and justice... Who doesn't like Cheng Shaoshang like
? If I were a man, I would have admired her too.
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