has no ups and downs, no exciting scenes, not even a single eye-catching shot. Why does
make many people feel so moved?
Someone else said that there is not a word about love in the whole play, but love is everywhere;
So here comes the problem. What moved
? What is it about
that makes people so moved?
Those viewers who were teary-eyed in front of the screen and had red and swollen eyes when they left the theater,
Have you really experienced the life of Youtie and Guiying?
01 The lack of real experience is a bit illusory
Why do you say this?
The so-called sense of substitution, means that you have really experienced it, at least have had a similar experience, and then you have known it before, and you have unconsciously entered a "similar scene".
Tang Dynasty Du Fu wrote in " Spring Hope ": "Beacon Fire lasts for three months, and family letters are worth 10,000 gold."
How many readers can feel the same way?
has never even experienced a war, has never seen "Ma Zuo's Lu Feikuai", and has never heard of "a bow like a thunderbolt",
, how dare you say that you deeply know what it is like to be a beacon in March?
I have never experienced the fear of being separated from my family, and I have never experienced the death of a loved one in the flames of war.
How dare you say that you deeply understand the meaning of family letters worth ten thousand gold?
Anyway, I read Du Fu's Anshi Rebellion works, at best, I relied on a few costume dramas in my mind, as well as war scenes, to reluctantly imagine and so-called experience. How impressed can
be?
is really hard to say.
A full man does not know the hunger of a hungry man.
Actor Haiqing stayed in the local area for a long time in order to play Guiying well. Her agent ran away after a few days.
Could it be that Haiqing doesn't know the hardships of life in the local countryside?
of course know, but without real life, there is no true character.
actor so. The same is true for
audiences. Leaving the real experience, in any case "substituting into the plot" is a bit self-deceiving.
Sitting in front of the screen, how many people born in the 70s, 80s, and 90s have truly experienced the lives of Ma Youtie and Guiying?
Raise your hand in the comment area, I'll do the math.
02 What we see is more of freshness and curiosity
What the city people see is not the poverty of the rural people, but the mud houses, torn cotton-padded jackets and dry farmland.
What young people see is not the love of the older generation, but the mutual dependence hidden in the dust.
Don't be mad!
I'm not here to sow discord, let alone belittle urbanites and young people.
If you think the first part of my article makes sense, and you can agree that "there is no real substitution without real experience",
, then you can also understand what I am saying here.
There are some urbanites, although they may be bright and beautiful on the surface, there is a bit of bitterness behind them,
But after all, your feetWalking down the main road, I saw a dazzling array of products on the supermarket shelf in .
You can say you can't afford it, but you've at least seen it.
And there are Tie and Guiying, the most luxurious place I have ever been to in my life is probably the restaurant that I went to on the day I donated blood.
They went to work in the field, and what they saw was loess;
went home and lay on the bed, and what they saw was loess on the wall;
Every day, this is real life.
Therefore, the people in the city are fresh, curious, and moved by the way of life.
Most young people have a very different view of love now than in the past.
What's more, there are Tie and Guiying, who can't talk about love at first, at most it is to live, to survive, to make do with each other.
Compared with sweet love, being dependent on each other is more important to Youtie and Guiying!
Don't forget, You Tie said on the grave of his parents, "We got married." Not marriage.
To say that they are in love, it is also in the years of mutual warmth and mutual cherishment, and gradually developed reluctance and family affection.
They didn't watch movies holding hands, they didn't sit back-to-back on rocking chairs dreaming about the future, and they didn't send flowers and gifts to each other on the Qixi Festival; Just in the cold winter, I light a light and warm a glass of water for the other party who has not returned late at night. Is
like love?
is very similar!
even surpassed the three-minute popularity of young men and women in reality.
So, young people, you are just envious, just curious, just feel fresh!
Yo! There are Tie and Guiying, who are so far-fetched, that they still have such a touching heart-to-heart bond!
is wrong!
That was their realistic move to learn to warm and cherish each other in their ruthless years, ruthless fate, and ruthless life.
It's more like two fringe people are pitiful for each other.
Forgive me for being so brutally "poor".
Youtie has been bullied all his life, but he is powerless to resist.
In the eyes of those around them, they are the edge of life, the edge of power.
They are the center only in their own lives.
You Tie and Guiying are representatives of a considerable part of the "older generation".
The older generation, in the ruthless years, has no right to choose, no right to fight, only the right to accept.
Nine times out of ten, there is no love, only family.
However, what I want to say is that the love of is enough to illuminate the road ahead of them and warm their hearts to each other.
That's enough. The reason why
is enviable and touching is not love, but the solidity and truth behind the affection.
In this era of flash marriage, flash divorce, and no desire to get married at all,
Tie and Gui Ying's perseverance is undoubtedly new, enviable and desirable.
03 Above is my personal bias
If my opinion makes you uncomfortable, please bear with me.
After all, I can't impose my opinion on you.
You have your choice, you have your say.
Me too.
You can disagree with me, but you might as well defend my right to speak up.
me too.
wish:
Live the rest of your life and live the way you want!
