"go through the days" correctly
In "Mencius·Gaozixia", there is a passage:
will be relegated to the people of Sri Lanka, and you must first pain your mind, work your muscles and hungry your skin, I was emptied, and my behavior was disorderly, so I was tempted to endure what I could not.
In short, it means that God is going to send a great mission to someone, and he must first endure hardship, both physically and mentally.
countless facts prove that this sentence is correct.
But what I want to say is that no one in the world is suffering, if you compare misery, you will always be a loser, because someone is worse than you.
If this is the case, how do we become the one chosen by God?
In other words, goodness is the result of simmering, but how to simmer, how to make the hardship not in vain, this is the key to the problem.
talk about actress Tang Wei!
Tang Wei once said to himself that I am like the Shanghai Stock Exchange A shares, rushing to the highest point in history, and then crashing. After
finished filming the film "Lust Caution", Tang Zhiyi became popular and won the Best New Actor Award at the 44th Taiwan Film Golden Horse Awards. However, due to the controversial nature of this film, Tang Wei had to go abroad.
When Tang Wei went to the UK, he brought all his net worth. He paid 500,000 for the film and 800,000 for endorsements. The endorsement fee of
was actually 6 million yuan, and 4.8 million yuan after tax had been paid to her account, but the advertisement was suspended a few days after the advertisement went online, and Tang Wei voluntarily refunded the 4 million yuan fee to the advertiser. When
arrived in London, Tang Wei wanted to find a school to study, but when he inquired about it, it was unrealistic: First, her English was not good enough to meet the enrollment requirements; second, the tuition was too high to read.
Because he doesn’t know when he will have the opportunity to make money again, Tang Wei doesn’t want to use his old capital, so he needs to find ways to make money: one is to make some cash, such as washing dishes and doing odd jobs; the other is to apply for a training course specializing in English, hoping to do well Achievement wins a full scholarship.
However, she did not go to wash the dishes, but used what she had learned in college: art and badminton.
Tang Wei tears out clothes from old newspapers and paints Japanese geisha makeup; paints Peking opera facial makeup on his face with oil paint; carries a bucket of water and writes calligraphy on the floor with a sponge brush......
spends two hours a day When she goes out to perform, she can always have dozens of pounds in rewards, which is enough for her daily expenses.
Tang Wei not only took to the streets to perform on the street, but also “sell her”. Many people may not know that she is a national second-level badminton athlete.
She found a club, played a game with the resident coach, and successfully became a part-time sparring partner of the club, earning about £900 a week, which can pay for rent and language training.
has gone from being self-sufficient to being self-sufficient, her English is getting more and more slippery, and she has gradually adapted to life in London. The real turning point of
was a call received four months after coming to London. The other party was Bey Logan, the president of Weinstein Brothers Films. When the two met for the first time, Tang Wei was still playing performance art on the street. Bey Logan watched her in the crowd, admiring her creativity. After
was introduced by BeyLogan, she got to know the local entertainment industry in Britain, and through them, she met a group of famous makeup artists and image designers, and finally met the fashion designer Garey.
Tang Wei not only plays badminton well, but also knows fine art. She was also a professional model. When she met Garey, Tang Wei showed him her portrait. The charm of old Shanghai immediately moved Garey.
At the London Fashion Design Week in 2008, Tang Wei became Gary’s queen model and went to the runway. That week she received a salary of 20,000 Euros. The
show was very successful. With the help of Gary, Tang Wei met many designers from international first-line brands. At this time, she received a call from Hong Kong, where she could get a Hong Kong resident ID card, as well as the new film "Moonfull Hennessy" cooperating with Jacky Cheung.
She chose Hong Kong, but then the problem came. Her Cantonese was very bad, so she devoted herself to learning Cantonese again.
Tang Wei and Peng Yuyan both have one characteristic, that is, they are always learning new skills. In the days when
was in the UK, she learned English; came to Hong Kong and learned to speak Cantonese; made the movie "Late Autumn" and learned Korean, Also found love, got married and had children.
Tang Wei said that no matter when, it is the survival of the fittest, and only by continuous learning can people go further.
And this is exactly the answer I want.
It’s not the most important thing that a person can endure hardships and endure. What’s really important is to grow up in the process of enduring hardship, to develop skills, to be able to endure, and to strengthen yourself. Otherwise, even if you get old and the universe explodes, you will still be there. Panting in the chaos.
This is the most correct way to open the "suffocation".
In the dark days, please grit your teeth and hold on, and endure; in the days of gritted teeth, please don't forget to grow up.
A good life is born out; the ability to break the cow is forced out!
