Li Siyu is a particularly independent woman. In her career, she works very hard and does not need to rely on anyone. However, if a woman is too independent, her boyfriend will have no use for her.
In her own career, she has been mixed up and has a great opportunity for promotion, but she is emotional and is suppressed by Yuan Hui. In order to thank Yuan Hui for taking care of herself, she promises to be the other party and competes for the director. At the time, she only accompany running.
She simply thinks that as long as she makes concessions, her relationship with Yuan Hui can be the same as before. She doesn’t know that Yuan Hui’s goodness to her is purposeful, and that she cares for her is just to take her into consideration. For her own use, Yuan Hui used this to force her to make concessions when they encountered the two opposing interests.
There is nothing wrong with being kind, but a mindless and kind workplace does not need it. At work, people who have their own ability and ability will naturally become the final winner.
Since Li Siyu has the opportunity to be promoted to the position of group leader, she must have her outstanding points. Yuan Hui has been in the company for more than ten years, but she has to rely on competition with others to win the position of director. There must be her shortcomings. If you rely on other people's concessions and charity, you can get promoted. Simply put, it is because you have insufficient ability, and you may not sit firmly in that position.
Li Siyu's unrestricted concession did not go well. In the end, Yuan Hui regarded her as a person who did not believe in words.
Whenwas divided into groups, Yuan Hui deliberately cried poorly in front of Li Siyu. Li Siyu was soft-hearted and agreed to only accompany running, but things often have their own development direction. She is willing to give up the opportunity to compete, which does not mean that Yuan Hui trusts her wholeheartedly.
On the day of thegrouping, Li Siyu was still designed by Yuan Hui to tune the tiger away from the mountain, so she missed the opportunity to select people first.
Yuan Hui pulls all the excellent salespeople into his own group. This is the workplace. It is very realistic. There is no such thing as trust. When you trust others, you may not be sure, they are already digging for you.
For a kindness like Li Siyu, it is very difficult to go long-term by relying on hard work in the career without any scheming. There must be no harm to others, and no defensiveness.
Li Siyu perfectly interprets women's passion for career, neglect of feelings, and fear of marriage in the new era.
She and Chen Yiming’s relationship is very stable, but it is inevitable to put the career first and ignore the relationship. For example, she never greets Chen Yiming every time she travels short distances, and she always says she didn't have time to say hello. In fact, it wasn't that it was too late to say, it was that I didn't even think about telling Chen Yiming that I was going on a business trip.
In a relationship, the most important thing you can’t ignore is the feelings of the other person. Of course, career is important, but you also need to worry about the relationship. At least when you are on a business trip or encounter problems at work, you should fight your boyfriend as soon as possible. Hello.
Li Siyu seemed to completely leave Chen Yiming behind when he got busy.
For Chen Yiming, Li Siyu seldom considered his feelings. He refused to propose and put the two of them into crisis. He never talked about it on business trips, which made Chen Yiming very inexistent.
Chen Yiming originally thought that his career was stable and proposed to her. Their relationship could develop into a marriage smoothly. However, Li Siyu was a bit cruel to Chen Yiming because he only fell in love and did not want to get married.
Li Siyu should be a little afraid of marriage, but she would rather talk to her friends instead of telling Chen Yiming what she thinks completely. Chen Yiming feels that she doesn't value herself, so she feels helpless.
Sister Li Siyu broke someone else’s car and needed compensation. She told Chen Yiming and wanted to bear it alone. However, after Chen Yiming knew how much she would pay, Li Siyu said with great momentum: "This is my own business."
The independence of a woman is confidence.
Li Siyu's independence is that she does not rely on anyone else's confidence, but too much independence is not necessarily a good thing. A woman's independence requires a certain degree of "measures."
Chen Yiming was right. He said: "You can't do this every time." Because the two people in the relationship need to face everything together and bear them together, even if they don’t want to use a boyfriend before getting married. At least you have to make it clear to the other party,Rather than relying solely on concealment to maintain their relationship.
Chen Yiming has really indulged Li Siyu. He hoped that he could help her, but Li Siyu didn't give Chen Yiming a chance at all, and said coldly: "I've been independent since I was a child."
Real life advocates women's independence, but in the relationship, sometimes it is too clear, which may be a kind of harm to the other half.
Most men like independent women, but, as Chen Yiming said: "If you are too independent, it will have a sense of distance."
Li Siyu's independence made her carry everything on her own, and she was unwilling to rely on Chen Yiming. Therefore, after Chen Yiming lost his job, she kept hiding from Li Siyu. You know, the most taboo between lovers is not timely communication, which can easily affect the relationship.
Li Siyu, who always regarded work as more important than Chen Yiming, did not realize that he was troubled by unemployment and misunderstood that he was empathizing. This is the bane of her being too independent.
If Li Siyu has something to confess to Chen Yiming, he is not too dependent, but not too independent, and the two can keep in touch with each other, and there is no sense of distance in love. Chen Yiming will not be able to keep Li Siyu from being unemployed, let alone Misunderstanding after it happened.
The image of Li Siyu is in line with society's requirements for women. He works hard and dares to accept any challenge.
In terms of feelings, she did a very poor job. Chen Yiming is not a man who does not seek to be motivated. On the contrary, Chen Yiming works hard for their future. He is also very attentive to Li Siyu, but Li Siyu values his career more.
However, Li Siyu is also puzzling. Since she loves work so much, she is so motivated, but she is too modest to Yuan Hui and obviously wants to get promotion opportunities, but she promised Yuan Hui to accompany her.
Compared with Li Siyu, Yuan Hui is more frank, she just rushed for promotion, and she did not shy away from making many requests directly, but Li Siyu concealed it, it would be better to tell Yuan Hui she also Want that opportunity instead of doing your best while agreeing to be a side run.
Rather than making trouble in the competition arena, it is better to show your position at the beginning and fight for it according to your own ability. Then you don't have to worry too much.
Li Siyu worked very hard and was very independent, but he was very immature in dealing with issues. He was awkward to get promoted, didn't dare to let go of fighting, ignored too much feelings, and distanced himself from Chen Yiming.
Since a person has the strength, there is no need to restrain yourself in work for someone, and just work hard to be yourself. When the other party kidnap you with morals, there is no need to be too weak, otherwise, it will only be led by the nose .
treats feelings just like work. There must be a certain degree of enthusiasm. Don't be cold or hot, don't take feelings seriously, otherwise, it will only bring the two people apart.
