"He doesn't actually love you that much": You desperately to please the man, holding countless little secrets

　　The hit drama "He Doesn't Love You That", tells the love-hate story of four girls who live wonderfully but also live in confusion.

　　 Everyone ran hard on the road to growth, and fell down gorgeously. They supported each other and struggled alone.

　　 These four girls resemble our youth. They endured the pain recklessly and continued to move forward.

　　 At the bifurcation at the age of thirty, they each had their own stories and made extremely difficult decisions.

　　 The protagonist we are going to talk about today is Sun Yehe played by Song Qian.

　　 The strong woman in the workplace, the heroine in the gym

　　Sun Yihe is a producer of a TV station. Every time she appears on stage, she is full of vigor, positive, sunny and enthusiastic.

The leader of

　　 gave her a problem and invited Chen Nan, a leader in finance and economics, to start a program.

　　 to invite a cold character who disdains the media program at all. For Son Yehe, it is simply an impossible task.

　　What did she do? She went to please Chen Nan's secretary, Lauren, and gave gifts to each other. She went to Chen Nan's company every morning to greet her with a smile, and was severely rejected.

　　 But Sun Yihe is not discouraged or embarrassed, he is full of emotions and full of vitality.

　　 One day Chen Nan wanted to see an important customer, but he didn't catch up with the time. He figured out that Sun Yihe must be following him, so he called her and asked her to find a way to stop the customer, and he would give her back.

　　Sun Yihe first stopped the customer and said that she was a fan and asked for an autograph. Seeing that Chen Nan hadn't come yet, she had the idea that she would perform a show for others.

　　 Under the gaze of the crowd, Sun Yihe danced "Seaweed Dance" and led a group of people to dance together. Chen Nan happened to see this scene when he arrived and smiled with satisfaction.

　　 In this way, Sun Yihe infected Chen Nan with his enthusiasm and loneliness. He finally nodded and agreed to join the show.

　　 Sun Yihe in the workplace dares to dare to fight, no matter how hard it is, he will bite the bullet, so what about life?

　　 The place where she goes most often is the gym, where she met her sisters, and in the gym, she most often looks very similar to her work.

　　 There is a scene where she is walking on an elliptical machine, and someone is with her next to her. She bites the roots of her teeth faster than others and persists longer. She is exhausted by others. She is like a deflated balloon and collapses on the ellipse. on board.

　　 her sister laughed at her, "Why are you?" She stared: "I can't lose!"

　　 This is Sun Yihe in life. Just like in the workplace, he will not accept defeat and not be discouraged. With a sense of stubbornness, he will go forward.

　　 However, no one would have expected that such a strong girl would have a different appearance in the face of emotions.

　　 The emotional wavering reveals the humble heart

At the beginning of the

　　 TV series, the three sisters are berating Sun Yehe’s boyfriend Sam. This man has no major faults, but only wants freedom.

　　 Two people in their 30s, when they talk about love, he just wants to have space for each other and don’t need to communicate too much.

　　 In the eyes of the sisters, Sam is very irresponsible and will not consider the future of him and his girlfriend. Sun Yihe understands the truth, but when he turned around, he still gave a few sisters red envelopes of invalid betting contracts.

　　 Because they said yes, if Son Yehe can't give up on Sam, he will give them a red envelope.

　　 How strong she is in work and life, how humble she is in her relationship.

　　Sam’s parents are coming to Shanghai. He bought a dress for Sun Yihe, but he didn’t know it was her style at all.

　　 dressed in awkward clothes and stepped on awkward shoes, she was an intellectual and elegant girl in front of Sam's parents.

　　 At the same time, she also hid her preferences in an attempt to be a perfect girlfriend.

　　Sam asked her to watch a movie, and bought her favorite literary filmDuring the whole process of watching, Sun Yihe yawned again and again and said "like" to her boyfriend.

　　 did not dare to show her true self, making friends feel that when she faced Sam, she was completely two people in her life.

The feeling of

　　 made Sun Yehe heavy. She didn't dare to act like a baby in front of Sam. Even when she was sick, she went to the hospital alone, for fear of adding a little trouble to the other party.

　　 Even in the face of Sam's deception, Sun Yehe couldn't muster the courage to expose it.

　　 Sam told her that she was going to Shenzhen on a business trip and told her that the weather in Shenzhen was very good. Sun Yihe, who turned on the weather forecast, looked at the rainy day in Shenzhen in a daze.

　　 At first she thought she was thinking too much, but then she saw Sam at the entrance of the shop where two people often go, and followed him to a hotel.

　　 Sun Yihe's heart was entangled, wandering alone for a long time, and finally turned and left, not even having the courage to go up and question the truth.

　　 she hates herself.

Where does

　　 come from such a strong personality contrast?

　　 Zhang Ailing once wrote this sentence on the photo she sent to Hu Lancheng, "When she met him, she became very low and low, down to the dust, and flowers bloomed from the dust."

　　 This is how she really feels about getting along with Hu Lancheng. No matter how many people praise her for her excellence, when she sees her lover, she becomes humble.

　　Sun Yehe is the same. The reason why she feels humble in front of Sam is because his parents are both intellectuals and he himself is very elegant and talented.

　　 And these are things that Sun Yehe doesn't have, so she will unconsciously feel that she is not worthy of Sam, so she will play the self that the other party expects.

　　 Chen Nan once asked Sun Yihe: "Are you a flattering personality?"

　　 Son Yehe thought for a while and wanted to answer: "I'm just afraid of seeing the disappointed eyes of others."

　　 I understand when I think about it, because I am afraid of disappointing my boyfriend, so I try to be a girlfriend who I don’t like. Because I was afraid of disappointing my boss, I went to work hard.

　　 She has lived for the expectations of others all her life, not for herself.

　　 This stems from the lack of self-confidence in the heart, not believing that you are good, and that you don't believe in yourself, it is enough for others to like.

　　 In fact, many celebrities have had the experience of being unconfident. The CCTV's famous Bai Yansong came to Beijing from a small city. Looking around the bustling surroundings, he felt inferior in his heart.

　　 During the four years of university, he turned this emotion into motivation, in exchange for grades and a more confident future.

　　 Coincidentally, the same CCTV celebrity Dong Qing also has an inferiority complex due to the strict teaching of his childhood father.

　　 She claims that she needs to revise repeatedly to make one thing perfect so that she can feel at ease, otherwise she is worried about mistakes.

　　 Even the successful people in our eyes will have this kind of emotion, let alone ordinary people?