has to say, the screenwriter of "He Actually Doesn't Love You That So" is really greedy. In the length of more than 30 episodes, he has to show us four heroines and N loves. As shown in the poster, there are four women in the front and a row of men in the back.
This is a TV series with women picking men as the main line. Next, we will analyze the truth in relationships from the perspective of women.
One, love will never be separated, you don’t give to move yourself
Rather than watching the four sisters entangled in love, I prefer to see them separated quickly.
Ren Ran and Lu Hao finally broke up. The editor finally took a sigh of relief, just feeling relaxed inexplicably.
still after eight years of waiting, after the passion after the return, after the yearning for marriage, after a moment of disappointment. She finally understood now that in Lu Hao's world, there are many things to worry about and more things to deal with.
The future of the company, the body of his ex-wife, etc., are all his priorities. And Lu Hao loves himself all the time, but he is a pet that only comes to mind when he is free. Like it, but you can also discard it. Anyway, he will wait in the house for him to come home.
Anyone can still see the deep affection for Lu Hao, otherwise, Lu Hao's ex-wife would not try to hand over the baton to her. Everyone is determined that they will not give up easily, after all, this relationship has accompanied her entire youth.
However, I still gave up because I was tired and couldn't love it anymore.
loved it before, and it was right for eight years; if you don’t love it afterwards, it would be wrong for one more day.
Son Yehe and Sam also goodbye. Sam's Doraemon talked very well, but this time Sun Yihe finally didn't feel relieved and drove him out of the car.
used to be cautious and steady in order to cooperate with Sam Son Yeha, and didn't dare to laugh loudly.
As a result, Sam still does his own way, and Son Yehe is the girl he likes, but not the only girl. Not married yet, Sun Yihe has become
The red flag at Sam's house, inserted there, and waited patiently for him to come back occasionally to take a look. Because Son Yehe is really super sensible, he doesn't cry or make trouble.
Sun Yehe gave the reason for breaking up, I don't hate you, I hate myself who loves you.
The change beforeis to be together. The separation afterwards was to find myself.
Ren Ran and Sun Yihe’s love experience, one can be calculated by length, and the other can be measured by intensity. One is tepid, the other is vigorous, but it is always very injured.
Their dedication moved their friends and themselves, making them think that dedication is what love should be, but they alone did not touch each other. I have to say that this kind of relationship has gone in the wrong direction from the beginning, and it is good to end early.
2. Feelings are not omnipotent, and natural marriage is not as pure as childhood.
Karen told Yu Tian that he was going to have a preventive mastectomy. The editor would like to give a big praise to Yu Tian's reaction.
Shock and hesitation, even pain, should be Yu Tian's normal reaction. If Yu Tian immediately said affectionately, I can accept what you become, then that would be an unwilling deal.
After all, emotional needs and physical needs are equally important in marriage. Therefore, Yu Tian's painful entanglement is necessary.
If you love you, you will accept all of you. This sentence is really just talking. Not so, let alone necessary, just work hard or try to accept all of you.
In today's society, every marriage begins with feelings, but feelings are not all, let alone omnipotent, because marriage itself is not pure.
Marriage is not only a carrier of feelings, but also a form of survival. Therefore, Karen can't live with Wang Mark, she can't take care of a child all the time. Karen needs a stable source of income, a partner who often accompanies her, and a father who can accompany her children, and these can be collectively referred to as material things.
When all material needs areI can satisfy myself. The feelings in marriage have become rootless water, and after a gust of wind, they drift away. You don't even want to know where it floated.
Third, in relationship and marriage, we have to bear many responsibilities, but the biggest responsibility is to be responsible for ourselves.
After Sun Yihe breaks up, he can do, make trouble, and perm the hair of a poodle.
That is because she is financially independent and her career is smooth. She can choose to fill herself with work, she can also numb herself with alcohol, or she can choose to go to the gym to sweat.
The premise ofis that she has an economic foundation and Sun Yihe has the ability to be self-sufficient. At least for money, she did not rely on any man.
After breaking up, facing the gossip in the classmate meeting, he can go back without mercy.
"I will live better and will not let you down."
is because, if you leave Lu Hao, she will be injured. But she has bought a house independently and has successfully established herself in Shenzhen.
After Karen's divorce, the quality of life has not deteriorated at all. Instead, she has more time and energy to do what she likes.
As adults, each of us has to shoulder different responsibilities. Especially after we get married, we have to play different roles. But for any mature woman, your greatest responsibility is always to be responsible for yourself.
No one cares more about your own future, your emotions, your body, everything about yourself.
Because in this world, the situation will change, the appearance will change, and the mood will naturally change. So, he really doesn't love you so much. In other words, he really won't always love you so much.
At least, when love is not there, we must be able to embrace life and embrace ourselves.
