For a while, celebrity parent-child shows became a boom, and many celebrities became popular because of their children. After the broadcast of the variety show " Dad is Back, ", Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu's daughter Tianxin impressed netizens. At first, people's evaluation of Tianxin was not good. They believed that Tianxin did not inherit the advantages of mom and dad, and looked dark and earthy and did not look like celebrity children. However, as the show was broadcast later, Tianxin's quirky personality was very likable. In the show, Tianxin always had golden sentences frequently. Her funny expression often became the favorite emoticon package used by netizens.
Wang Yuan's status as a small fan has made Tianxin circle fans countless, many people have expressed that they are too envious of Tianxin to chat with Wang Yuan. Later, Li Xiaolu and a certain rapper were caught in a "headman" storm, and the relationship between Li Xiaolu and Jia Nailiang broke up. After this incident broke out, the netizens are most concerned about Tianxin. Everyone hopes that lovely Tianxin can have a happy childhood. After the divorce between
Li Xiaolu and Jia Nailiang , Tianxin has been living with Li Xiaolu. From the photos Li Xiaolu posted on social platforms, Tianxin has a very happy life, and Tianxin has changed a lot in the past few years. Not only has she grown a lot taller, but Tianxin has also grown. Tianxin was more like a tomboy when she was a child, but when she grew up, Tianxin became very elegant and somewhat like Li Xiaolu.
Netizens said one after another: Tianxin really counterattacked, the longer it gets, the more stary it gets. Although Tianxin looked very cute when she was a child, she is definitely not high-value compared to other "Star II". Today, Tianxin can really be regarded as an "ugly duckling" and a "white swan". In fact, there are many Stars didn't look good when they were young, but they get more and more beautiful as they grow older. This also confirms the popular saying "The Eighteenth Change of Women".
Every parent hopes that their children can have a good appearance, but the baby doesn’t look good when he is young, and parents don’t have to worry too much. After all, the baby is still growing, maybe the appearance will change with age, except In addition, parents can cultivate the child's temperament and enhance the child's first impression.
So, what should parents do when their children are young?
1. Pay more attention to the cultivation of children’s self-confidence.
If children look mediocre, they will be easily ignored and ridiculed by other children, which can easily lead to children’s lack of self-confidence. Children without self-confidence will be more timid and affect their future development of. We often say that childish speech is unscrupulous, but children's words can sometimes be very hurtful. Many children have been attacked by their peers because of their appearance problems, which makes them feel inferior.
Parents should pay attention to their children’s mental health, and should encourage their children more often. When children are young, they are psychologically vulnerable. Others’ evaluations will lower their children’s self-understanding, and parents’ encouragement and care can save helpless children. The child's appearance is not high, but there must be other shining points, everyone is unique, and the child with low appearance can also shine. Parents should guide their children to pay more attention to their other strengths and be more attentive in their areas of expertise instead of always paying attention to their own appearance.
2, pay attention to children's etiquette and manners
The image of a person is not only the appearance, but also the temperament and manners of every move. We often see people who look average, but have good manners, men are tall and upright, and women are graceful; these people will also give people a good impression. At the same time, the manners of a person reflected in every move will also affect the first impression. An elegant woman will always give people the impression of a lady, and a gentleman will be more likely to make a good impression on women. The same is true for children. Even if they are not cute enough, they can be generous and courteous. They can still be very likable.
3, pay attention to the inner cultivation of children
"Poetry and book spirit in the belly" A person's temperament is from the inside out, a person has a good inner cultivation, then the outer temperament will be more calm and generous. For children with mediocre appearance, letting children develop the habit of reading is a good choice. Through reading, children will become more wiser and at the same time speaking more appropriately. The short-term relationship depends on the appearance and the long-term relationship depends on the personality. Children onlyA beautiful skin, without an attractive inner, or unable to establish a good social relationship, an interesting soul can make a child have more confidants.
For children, having a good-looking appearance is the icing on the cake. If the child looks mediocre, you don't need to care too much. For children, the most important thing is to cultivate good living habits, study habits and cultivate a good character. Regardless of whether the child is good-looking or ugly, the love of the parents will not be more or less.
Friends, do you think Tianxin is a counterattack? Everyone thinks that if children look ugly, how should parents train them?
