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celebrities accompany their children has often received great attention from the society, especially those celebrities after divorce.
Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu have a lovely daughter Tianxin. After they separated, how they raised their daughters together has always attracted much attention, and many people are full of curiosity.
Recently, some media photographed Jia Nailiang appearing in the community where Li Xiaolu lived to visit Tianxin. On the day of
, Jia Nailiang was very happy to play with his daughter during the whole process. Li Xiaolu was waiting by the side while the father and daughter were playing badminton.
After Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu divorced, Tianxin lived with his mother Li Xiaolu. Long time ago, will the daughter be strange to her father?
When Jia Nailiang picks up her daughter, the picture is still so warm and touching.
seems that everyone's worry is unnecessary. Tianxin is not affected by the divorce of her parents at all. Her life is still the same. It is really not easy for
to do this.
In addition, Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu also communicated face to face for a long time, in a relaxed and natural state. Although
was very unpleasant before, but for the sake of the children, letting everything turn around is the best and the best result.
This time Li Xiaolu was not scolded by netizens, but won high praise.
This is also a rare picture of Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu in the same frame after their divorce. The comments of
are full of applause, which should be the case after the divorce. The
couple can choose again, but the child has no choice. In any case, you will always be the child’s father and child’s mother.
children grow up in a blink of an eye. Is there any reason not to leave them a good thing?
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53zThe divorce of parents is a blow to the child, but if handled properly, the child can continue to be happy and happy.
Before Children's Day, a photo of Tianxin "Leading Fireflies" was on fire. The sweetness on the
photo looks generous and very flattering.
Although Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu divorced, they always accompanied Tianxin and planned her education early.
Therefore, Tianxin's singing, piano, painting and other talents have all fallen.
Therefore, Tianxin still keeps many children envious.
But some children really make people feel distressed.
watched a video, the couple went through the divorce procedures, and they scrambled for their young children at the gate of the court as soon as they walked out of the court, and then fought... What happened to the couple in the end? We don’t know, but we can be sure Yes, the child must be terrified.
A reader said to me: In marriage, as long as you can survive and endure, a woman will never get divorced. This reader,
, was divorced just because he couldn't stand his husband's long-term alcoholism and domestic violence.
At first the husband did not agree to the divorce, and later said: divorce is fine, but he will not care about the children.
Because the life is really too much, this reader accepted all the conditions. After the divorce of
, this reader took the child to live in a rented house. The father of the child has visited the child in the future and never called the child...
The child is a little older and wants to see his father. A reader called his ex-husband, but he couldn't get through anymore. She couldn't hold the child and took the child to find it, but the news was that the child's father had sold the house, and no one knew where he was going. What makes
even more chilling is that some parents don't care about their children when they are divorced. They treat their children as a drag and wrestle with each other. The children are kicked and kicked by their parents like a ball.
had such an incident. A private kindergarten accepted a child. In the first few months, the father of the child would pick up the child, but no one came to pick up the child. The principal of
had no choice but to take the child back to his home, and no one answered the phone when he called.
finally called the police angrily.
The police found the father of the child. The child’s family is not poor. There is a house and a car at home, but the child’s parents have divorced and the mother is missing. The child’s father is busy with a new relationship.
When the police reprimanded the child's father, the child's father was still confident: "Her mother doesn't care, why should I care?"
Some livesHe didn't deserve to be a parent.
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If you don’t get married and have children, you don’t know if you marry a man or a dog.
and divorce, you can see humanity and character.
Some people use their children as weapons and tools to put pressure on and torture each other.
There is a mother in Hunan. When she was preparing to celebrate her child’s birthday, the child was “missing”—at the time, she and her husband were divorcing, and the husband’s family moved with the child and cut off all contact information. .
searched for familiar places one by one, and went to the police station and court many times, but this mother found nothing. She didn't know until she joined a WeChat group called "Purple Ribbon Mother's Love" that there are many other mothers who are experiencing children being hidden by their relatives like her. There are more than 200 in this group—some of them have got children. The child was forcibly taken away by her husband’s custody rights; some were not satisfied with visitation rights, and some were afraid to end their unfortunate marriage because they were afraid that they would never see their children again...
just as the group owner said:" To us, children are like being'abducted', except that they are taken away by our former relatives."
Can we cut off the family relationship and monopolize the love of the children without letting the children meet? Too naive!
In the Korean drama "The World of Husband and Wife", Dr. Ji Sun-woo divorced after his ex-husband Lee Tae-wu cheated. She didn't want her child to talk to her father, but the child said: It was mother that father betrayed, not me. Although the
TV series is a bit exaggerated, it also tells us that there is a mistake between husband and wife, it is a matter between husband and wife, don't impose on the children, otherwise it will be self-defeating and even lead to tragedy.
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Jia Jingwen and Sun Zhihao failed in their marriage, and the two struggled to the death and death of the child's custody and economic division.
Sun Zhihao "evaporated" four months after taking away Wutong sister . In order to win the custody of her daughter Wutongmei, who was only 4 years old at the time, Jia Jingwen was desperately forced to hold a press conference when she couldn't see her children no matter how she contacted her grandchildren, and asked for help from public opinion in tears. After
, driven by the media, after several rounds of negotiations, the two people who had been married for less than 5 years formally signed a divorce in 2010; the custody of her daughter Wutongmei was jointly guarded by both parties after a court decision;
later Jia Jingwen and Sun Zhihao partially settled. Both parties are willing to maintain the number of days to visit their daughter at 2:1 each month.
Later, the two signed a legally valid settlement before the judge: the daughter stayed with her mother Jia Jingwen to study before junior high school, but Jia Jingwen's behavior must be focused on the daughter, and his father Sun Zhihao also ensured visits to her daughter right.
In 2014, Jia Jingwen fell in love with Xiu Jiekai, who was 9 years younger than herself, and married the following year. She gave birth to two daughters, , , and Bo Niu. The eldest daughter, Wutongmei, lived with them, and the family lived peacefully and happily.
After Sun Zhihao and Jia Jingwen divorced, they also married model Lin Ruoya in 2016.
On June 12, 2019, Jia Jingwen, Xiu Jiekai, Sun Zhihao, and Lin Ruoya attended the graduation ceremony of their eldest daughter Wutongmei. Jia Jingwen took a group photo with her ex-husband Sun Zhihao and her daughter Wutongmei for an unprecedented time, sparking discussion. If the husband and wife are divorced, if they have no children, they might not meet each other again in this life. If you have children, it is really difficult not to meet, because we will always be relatives of the children and no one can change this.
Instead of doing this, why not treat each other well?
Kindness may not be forgiving each other, but at least it is letting go. Since it's over, torturing each other, why is it torturing yourself?