In a relationship, whether the spiritual level or the material level is more important is a topic that is often discussed. In today's society, the pressure of survival makes most people have to become reality and become "material." After all, with the material basis of houses, cars, and tickets, can they enjoy life better and better nurture the next generation. Just like Gu Li once said in "Little Times", "Love without material is just a piece of sand. It doesn't need to be blown by the wind, and it will be scattered after two steps!".
But after reaching abundance at the material level, can they be together without any worries, and the relationship between two people can go smoothly?
is not necessarily, this is very intuitive in the TV series "Happiness Will Knock on the Door". Huang Zili & Zhong Qing, Dialect & Wei Chao, two CPs, have good economic conditions. There are no material problems between them, but they have not reached the end.
Huang Zili and Zhong Qing are both doctors. Their profession, income and future development are the envy of many people. Although Huang Zili’s family background is not as good as Zhong Qing’s, he is very competitive. Zhong stood out and was promoted to hospital chief, and the two were very loving in their daily lives, but why did they fail to keep their marriage in the end?
The wife is pregnant but the child is not his own! If this is a scam, then no one can bear it, but Zhong Qing actually had no intention of deceiving, and the smile on the face of the wedding clock Qing also proves that she has feelings for Huang Zili, and she herself was the day of her marriage. Knowing the fact of pregnancy, and Huang Zili also chose to accept it because of love, so you are my wish. Huang Zili is not a "receiver", and the problem between them is not the newborn baby. It is because there is no absolute candor, absolute trust, and tolerance between each other that the marriage ends.
If Huang Zili's separation from love is because there is not enough frankness, trust, tolerance, and the knots that cannot be opened to each other, then it seems that the dialect and Wei Chao that are clearly right have failed to come together. What about?
——The dialect mistakenly regards habit as love
Some people start a relationship because of love at first sight; some people start a relationship because of the other person's "hunting"; some people just think it's quite appropriate, so get together.
For dialects, her relationship with Wei Chao probably belongs to the combination of the latter two. A childhood sweetheart, has been with me since childhood. It just so happens that you like me very much, and I don't hate you. It also happens to be the age of love, so let's be together.
So in the dialect, I probably just got used to the existence of Wei Chao, not love.
Even to a certain extent, Wei Chao is only one level higher than ordinary friends in dialect-Fa Xiao! ! ! Just like the dialect said when calling a colleague, "I want to send my friend to the airport" instead of a boyfriend.
And the two people's getting along pattern is similar to that of ordinary friends. Maybe it's not as comfortable with ordinary friends in other words, otherwise she will not pretend to have a stomachache and avoid some private topics.
——Wei Chao’s humble love is doomed to an imperfect ending from the beginning
Some love is destined to not have a perfect ending when you choose to give humblely. It’s not that we didn’t expect the result, but we don’t want to give up, and we always believe that we are the most special person in the other’s life. Love and persistence move each other.
Wei Chao’s love relationship with dialects is more like "the rich second generation courtship", or "Wei Chao is in love alone", because no matter what romantic actions Wei Chao makes, he will not get a response. He was let go and ignored, but because he loves dialects more than dialects, he has been catering to, choosing to understand and tolerate, and because he is afraid of losing, he suppresses the true emotions in his heart and dare not express.
In fact, in a relationship, both men and women need a sense of security, and the more deeply loved one needs a sense of security. This is the case with Wei Chao. He does not need his efforts to get the same return, but at least Can have a little sense of existence, can be needed, can have the meaning and value of being around the dialect. And the dialect attitude made Wei Chao gradually seeThere is no future for this relationship, and once he chooses to give up, this relationship will end.
