In the complex dyeing vat of modern society, people's feelings seem to be not only based on love, but also on material, rights and desires. Therefore, many people like to test their significant other to see if they are loyal to them. But regardless of loyalty or not, most of the endings ended in tragedy. It really echoed Zhuangzi's "Drawing dragons and tigers is hard to draw bones, knowing people, knowing faces and not knowing one's heart" -human nature cannot stand the test!
There is such a story in "Warning Message", called "Zhuangzi Hugh Drums into the Road" , the general content is the story of Zhuangzi testing his wife's loyalty:
Zhuangzi often dozes in the daytime, dreaming that he turns into a butterfly, wakes up After coming, I felt that I had two wings. His teacher, Lao Tzu, enlightened him and taught him to stick to the Tao. Zhuangzi then left Laozi and traveled around for further studies. Zhuangzi married two wives successively, and the third wife was Tian, the daughter of the nobles of Qi.
Zhuangzi often wanders in the wilderness by himself. On this day, Zhuangzi wandered to a graveyard and saw a woman holding a fan fanning a newly hidden grave. After asking about it, I learned that there was a saying in ancient times that you can remarry on the grave of a widowed husband.
Zhuangzi went back and told his wife Tian Shi. While Tian Shi deeply despised the woman, she swore to Zhuangzi that she would never do such shameless things. Zhuangzi didn’t believe: "Don’t just talk in empty words, if you catch up with my unfortunate death, can you not remarry for three to five years?"
Tian said in a serious manner: "Loyal ministers do not care for two masters, martyred women do not care for two husbands. Who has seen good people The woman drinks tea from two families and sleeps in the beds of two families? If unfortunately it is my turn to be a widow, let alone three or five years, she will never remarry for a lifetime!"
Zhuang Zhou shook his head: "It's hard to say, it's hard to say!" After hearing the anger, Tian scolded: "Aspiring women are better than men. Ruthless and unintentional like you, thinking that others are just like you. Our women's family must be the same!"
unexpectedly Zhuangzi died that night, but turned to visit Zhuangzi as the grandson of the king of Chu. He said that he had a relationship between teachers and students, so he lived in Nanhua Mountain in the name of filial piety for Master. Seeing that Chu Wangsun was handsome, Tian clan chatted with Wangsun every day on the grounds of fake crying spirits. As soon as he came and went, he fell in love with him for a long time, and after many days of seduce him, Chu Wangsun finally agreed to marry the Tian family.
Unexpectedly on the wedding night, the bridegroom suddenly frowned and fell to the ground, dying. The old servant said that his master has a long history of this disease, and he commits it every year. There is no medicine to cure it, and only one thing is effective immediately. Tian asked urgently what it was, and the old servant said: "Only human brains can save him.
So Tian took the axe to the Zhuangzi cemetery, raised the axe in both hands and cut it. Why? She wanted Zhuang Ziwei. Dry brain, heal his new love. At this time, Zhuangzi suddenly sat up from the coffin. It turned out that "Gao Fushuai" and the old servant were both the incarnations of Zhuangzi. Tian suddenly realized that Zhuangzi was teasing her and felt ashamed. She hanged herself to death.
Zhuang Zhou saw that Tian was dead, so he untied her body, put her in a split coffin, and sat down against the coffin, picked up a clay pot, and sang:
Chunk Wuxin Xi, I am born with Iraq. I am not Yves Xi, I am not my wife. I meet Xi by chance and live together in the same room. The end of life, there is harmony and separation. The unscrupulous life of life, the love of life and death. The true love sees Xi, What is it for not to die! Yishengxi chooses to take it, and Yixi returns to the emptiness. Yi hangs me and gives me a giant axe; I hangs Yixi and comforts Yi with lyrics. The axe rises and I am resurrected, and the singing sounds You know! Hehe, break the pot and no longer drum, who is Iraq and who I am.
Zhuang Sheng's song, and chanted four more poems:
I will bury you if you die, and you must marry if I die.
Death, a big joke. After
laughed out loud, Zhuang Zhou smashed the crock pot, set a fire, lit the house, and turned it into ashes with the coffin. Since then, Wandering Quartet has no longer Marry.
Perhaps this story focuses on the lack of human affection, so that everyone can correctly view the issue of love "from one end". However, in the eyes of some people in later generations, Zhuangzi's behavior is "unnecessary"!
Human nature can't stand the test, don't just ask for trouble.
"Everyone said that they were kind, and everyone would like to fan their graves after death. Drawing dragons and tigers is hard to draw bones, knowing people, knowing faces and not knowing one's heart"
Zhuangzi and his wife were originally harmonious. It was because Zhuangzi was away and met a woman fanning her deceased husband's grave with a fan. It turned out that she wanted to wait until the grave soil was dry so that she could remarry. Just like that, Zhuangzi started testing his wife when he came back. If I find any misconduct by my wife, it would be excusable to engage in the test, but Zhuang's wife has no wrongdoing in the first place. If I see other wives are unfaithful, then I will go home and test my wife? Isn't it all right?
Suspects don’t need to, no doubt about employing. Whether it is a couple or a lover, since they have come together, they should trust each other. If they are susceptible to each other, then this relationship is no longer necessary.
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