Author: Mei Xiang snow
"thirty only" inside Manning, worked hard for eight years in Shanghai, in order to be able to stay in Shanghai, can take root in the heart of Shanghai, as she sat rent money for rent On the balcony of the house, watching the dazzling traffic, Manny fell in love with Shanghai, a charming metropolis. However, like most of the working girls, she faced the rising rents, the frame of work, the dissatisfaction of love, the urging of her parents to marry and the aging body of her parents, too much realistic pressure, let She chose to escape, so she went back unwillingly.
When she returned to her hometown and small town, she saw the unchanging scenery and felt the boundless enthusiasm and noisy humanity. She could no longer adapt to such a slow life. Manny was entangled and contradicted. This is not the happy life she wants. If it is for her parents, she will accept the people she doesn't love, then the rest of her life and her heart will be wronged. I will be trapped in a small town forever. So, is the town really bad? Is your boyfriend bad? Are parents’ worries and worries wrong?
is not bad, but Manny doesn't like it, her character determines her destiny. Manny's character is a person who dares to dare to fight, is a person with strong self-esteem, is a person who is not willing to be mediocre, is a person who pursues herself A person who knows what kind of happy life he wants. And most of our ordinary people are destined to live a mediocre life. Don’t complain about how unfair your fate is. It’s because you are too much to find reasons for yourself. It is easy to choose a comfortable life and a marriage that will end, because you feel that the people around you Isn't it all like this?
So Manny chose to start again and return to Shanghai. Choosing to start again, dare to find the noble President Wei, start from the bottom, eat the hardships that others can't bear, do things that others dare not do, face the difficulties directly, don't be afraid of them, and don't shrink back. Finally, give President Wei a satisfactory answer. He did not live up to Mr. Wei's expectations and finally got his approval. What's more commendable is that during the three months of work, Manny realized the truth: "If you don't get trapped in a city or in a relationship, then you will be a truly free person."
So instead of staying with Mr. Wei, she chose to leave Shanghai and go abroad to study. Although she is not sure about her future, she must be what she wants most. So no regrets.
Faced with her ‘boyfriend’ who had hurt herself, Manny walked over confidently and calmly faced the past without being trapped in a relationship. At that moment, his ‘boyfriend’ realized that Manny was a truly charming woman.
When a woman is no longer trapped by love, no longer has the face of troubles, no more complaining eyes, living clearly and confidently, that is a woman full of charm.
I have a girlfriend, Xiao Y. After 7 years of ordinary marriage, she, like most married women, has children, respects her in-laws, has done nothing wrong, is a good wife, a good wife, and a good mother. , But her marriage was hit on the rocks as well. She managed the marriage carefully. She was a traditional and kind woman. She couldn't understand, let alone why her husband wanted to betray the marriage and why she gave up this relationship? She cried and cried hysterically, feeling that her destiny was unfair to her. She hated her husband and was reluctant to divorce. Of course, she was more concerned about the reasons for the child and tried every means to restore it. Marriage, save love. The more she tried to save, and the more she cared about her husband, she realized that she was the most ugly self. She had been trapped in the vortex of emotions, lost herself, lived a painful life, and lived very entangled. As long as her husband did not come back one night, she Look everywhere like crazy. Result: Lived in embarrassment and without honor.
After three years, I figured it out and looked away. I am no longer stuck in a marriage, no longer entangled in the reasons, no longer questioning, now I am living happily, living happily, but it has become more happier than before charm.
Why are women more likely to be trapped by a relationship than men? That's because "women are a model of formal logic and an obstacle to dialectical logic." Women are too emotional and too easy to indulge in emotions. Men are different, men are more rational and willUse value to measure the matter itself, not to be trapped in love, not to be entangled in love, of course, I am talking about quality men.
loves seven points is enough. It makes sense to leave one third to love yourself. If you love someone and be loyal to a relationship, when love comes, just love with your heart. When love is gone, let go, it is the most gorgeous Turning around, live in the present, not just talking, but being loyal to the present and loving your own heart. When your heart, when your vision is wide enough, you will not live in a dead relationship, a period A meaningless marriage.
Don’t be trapped by a city or by a relationship, live to understand, live transparently, you will be a truly free flying person, you can soar in the vast sky like an eagle.
"The ocean is wide and the fish leap, and the sky allows birds to fly" is true spiritual freedom!
