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The summer of 2020 is extremely hot, and a "Thirty Only" brings the strongest "little three" topic in history. It's been many days since the finale of
, and the popularity of Lin Youyou in the play's "Little San" is still unabated. The strongest junior in the history of
, the fighter in the green tea, and the character and character , these words are flying all over the sky, and even online shops are on the shelves. To accompany Lin Youyou’s service, 10 yuan an hour, where you click where to scold, don’t ask for money if you don’t scold you.
In the case of Xu Huanshan’s derailment, almost everyone is accusing Lin Youyou, thinking that she is step by step. It was Xu Huanshan that finally led to the breakdown of the marriage relationship between Xu Huanshan and Gu Jia, the perfect couple.
In fact, Lin Youyou certainly has its reckless, paranoid and moral anomie side, but any cheating story is not just a "little three." One person’s responsibility. While we verbally accused Lin Youyou of high seduction rank and strong means, why didn’t we think about what the story would happen if another man met Lin Youyou?
For example, straight man Chen Yu, in the face When Lin Youyou licked ice cream, would you just throw it over and let her eat it all alone? Even the least reliable Zhong Xiaoqiang estimated that seeing Lin Youyou's big fangs would not give her a year The rent.
Lin Youyou doesn’t look pretty and doesn’t dress stylishly. She just smirks her teeth and says that she is high in rank, which is a bit overestimating her. As for why she allowed Xu Huanshan to sink in step by step, In the final analysis, it is not that she has great skills and high means, but Xu Huanshan's own determination is too poor.
Lin Youyou is a young girl in her 20s who has just graduated from university and has no life or social experience. And wisdom, Gu Jianeng throws her a few blocks away, and even Zhong Xiaoqin who is confused is much more beautiful than her. This kind of girl is impossible to stir up much waves from a mature uncle. Xu Huanshan will fall, nothing more than himself. The problem, the lack of these things that men should have.
A sense of boundary
A responsible man should have a sense of boundary. He knows what he can and cannot do with the opposite sex. Xu Huanshan has some in the forest. When he tasted his ice cream, he didn’t give a polite warning, and he ate it with joy, which invisibly encouraged Lin Youyou’s later behavior.
In order to prevent Lin Youyou from living on the street, Xu Huanshan still bought something for her outside. For the house, if Lin You has a strategy, it is Xu Huanshan’s step-by-step indulgence that made her strategy begin to come true. Because the communication without boundaries is to indulge and imply. Every time you think you don’t care about crossing boundaries The behavior is to pierce the other party's body with a needle.
" I will not have a real girlfriend in my life. It is absolutely impossible for a married man to say that he has a girlfriend. "
's model husband Huang Lei in the entertainment circle said that his best girlfriends are Sun Li and his daughter. All his friends of the opposite sex, Sun Li knows, and are also Sun Li's friends. The most exciting thing in the relationship between
This sense of exclusivity can only bring security, trust and respect by setting boundaries.
Two sense of responsibility
There are not so many selves in the adult world, and some are just responsibilities, to the family, to the society, to friends, etc. Responsibilities are not determined by their own temperament and what they want to do.
Men can have their own preferences, but they will not only consider their own hobbies and conveniences, but also consider the feelings of their wives and the safety of the family, even if they have to make sacrifices. Also consider family first.
Xu Huanshan is a firework designer. It is his dream to produce blue fireworks, but he is still a married person. He has a wife, son, and company. These are things he has to face and must go to Responsibility.
knew how dangerous it is to produce blue fireworks. Just because Lin You said "so beautiful", he waved his hand to let Lao Yan continue to produce, and deliberately told Gu Jia that they had been destroyed.
What happens to the company, Xu Huanshan is the first to escape. He can hide in the office and lose his temper. He can turn off the phone and find no one for a whole day. Such a person has no responsibility.Where does the man think of the responsibility.
三 Maturity
A perfect wife and a silly white sweet, most men will choose the perfect wife, only the immature people will choose the pressure-free silly white sweet. Because he can only find a little self-esteem and satisfaction in front of silly Baitian.
Lin's looks and knowledge are inferior to Gu Jia in all respects. Just because she said a few words of worship, Xu Huanshan felt that his wife was too strict in his control, which made him breathless.
Lin Youyou told Xu Huanshan that he was originally a funny person, but because of them, he couldn't do what he liked, just like a little boy who was covered by a big shell, he couldn't get freedom.
Xu Huanshan feels that what Lin Youyou said makes sense. He really feels like living in a role set by Gu Jia. He feels that Gu Jia is not that suitable, and it is better to be comfortable with Lin Youyou. When
said "I have the final say" when Xu Huanshan said "I have the final say", it did not make people feel the pride of a man, but was as childish as a child, like an artist living in fantasy, without realizing it at all. When Gu Jia found out that
was cheating, he went out to see his wife again after a few days. She was shamelessly asking "May I go home now?", which was ridiculously naive.
A mature man will treat his family as a belief and is willing to protect all his family members from outsiders.
Four Executive Forces
When Xu Huanshan realized that his cheating might lose his family, he was scared, and he came out to meet with Lin Youyou, and wanted to draw a line with her, and said that he would not meet again in the future, Lin Youyi cried Nao just forgot the purpose of coming.
When Lin Youyou forced him to divorce, pretend to be close to Gu Jia for property maintenance, win over his son, and instill bad thoughts into the children, Xu Huanshan had no way of confrontation, only a few verbal warnings.
asked Lin Youyou to go back to Shanghai several times. She had no choice but to go downstairs to find Lin Youyou verbally. In the end, he had to let his wife Gu Jia come forward and send away his derailed object.
A man who can't even defend his family is not an attitude problem, but a lack of ability.
Married men not only want to enjoy the stability and dignity brought by the family, but also want to have the freedom and happiness of being single. Where can there be such a good thing? When you encounter a junior in marriage, don't just accuse the junior of bad morals and tricky methods. If there is no man's indulgence, how can there be any mischievous involvement of the small three?
In marriage, as long as a man can restrain himself, there is no room for survival. A truly mature man must have a sense of responsibility and responsibility. When facing the temptations from the outside, no matter how high their ranks are, your moral conscience will keep those juniors away from yourself and save your family!
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