There is also a problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that has not been solved by the wisdom of China for thousands of years.
Although Xiao Qi has always been very creative, he is always cute in front of Ruofeng. But when I went to my husband’s house, Xiao Qi’s popularity fell to the bottom.
Not only the guests on the show disagreed with her approach, they felt that the mother-in-law here was too wronged, and Xiang Tai said directly, "It's my wife and you are done." Netizens scolded even more.
Because Xiaoqi has always felt that there is a estrangement from her husband's family, and Ruofeng decides to let them talk face to face, but it is like a situation in which his son and his wife are attacking his mother.
Xiao Qi’s entanglement is that Ruofeng’s mother didn’t recognize her before, and she didn’t admit that she was her daughter-in-law. When she called Ruofeng, she said that she wanted Ruofeng to find someone who would help her career. She is worthless; and if Ruofeng's mother wants to give money to Xiao Qi's mother who brought the children for them, Xiao Qi feels that she didn't treat her as her own, and looked down upon her. I was so wronged.
We can't see what their real daily relationship looks like. In fact, it is not good to say who is right and who is wrong. But from the short dialogue in front of the camera, Xiao Qi has been wronged, but if he wants to live in harmony in the future, this is not appropriate.
It’s understandable to turn the old accounts and solve the happy knot, but after all, it’s passed, and after all, it’s the elders. A posture to force people to admit their mistakes is likely to create new contradictions. In fact, the parents of anyone want their children to be good, but not From the beginning of the meeting, it is good for "other people's children". Even if this selfishness is not understood, it cannot be regarded as a serious sin.
Ruofeng's mother has always been a smiling face, but she can see the tears in her eyes, it is really sad.
, in fact, Ruofeng’s mother is also quite innocent. They said that Ruofeng must have introduced them like that before. Of course, it was really embarrassing to be disapproved of their daughter-in-law. It would be wrong to give money to the family. No matter who it is, it should be what it should be, and it does feel that people have worked hard and sacrificed a lot. Wanting to make up for it is a kind of misunderstanding.
is okay, Xiao Qi later added to tell everyone that she recognized her problem and the contradiction eased.
In fact, many times intergenerational contradictions stem from cognitive bias, misunderstanding and demanding. There is no absolute right or wrong in emotional matters. In fact, in the show, Qi Wei said it very well, like getting along with a sister. Although she is an elder, she can't be as uncomplaining as her parents. Exchange your sincerity and try to understand each other.
Many people watched the show and felt that the married life of Ruofeng and Xiaoqi was simply a way to open up disaster films. In fact, even if it is not a straight man like Ruofeng, no Xiaoqi can "make" these problems, few people can Bypass, who doesn't have a scripture that is difficult to recite?
