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Zhong Liti cried again. The cause of
is that in the reality show "My Favorite Women", Zhong Liti talked about the changes before and after her husband got married, and suddenly told everyone sadly: "
" (Zhang Lunshuo) is so different from when he was in love."
Before marriage, as soon as I was in a bad mood, he immediately hugged me and comforted me. After marriage, I was in a bad mood during my menstrual period, and he would only let me pay attention to my emotions."
said, Zhong Liti became red. Eye sockets, choked up.
To be honest, I saw here, there was a little gloat. Why is
?
Because Zhong Liti has cried for Zhang Lunshuo several times in the show.
The beauty shed tears, and the one who heard it was sad. Every time Zhong Liti cried, the netizens would naturally stand for her and blame Zhang Lunshuo for not doing well.
But the netizens have not finished cursing, Zhong Liti turned around and quickly showed her affection with Zhang Lunshuo, desperately saying good things for Zhang Lunshuo.
For example, some time ago, also in this program, Zhong Liti was busy cooking for her mother-in-law and husband, Zhang Lunshuo was taking a shower and asked her to cover the camera.
Zhong Liti easily covered the lens with toilet paper.
Zhang Lunshuo felt that Zhong Liti's attitude was rash and did not respect herself, so he quarreled with her and kept her crying.
People who have watched this video think that Zhang Lunshuo is too much, and went to Zhang Lunshuo's Weibo to denounce it.
But how does Zhong Liti do it?
She told everyone: "I quarreled with him because we cared about each other. We wanted to handle the relationship better and better, so there was some friction. And we have just been married for three years, and the road is still long, and there are many places to communicate. I agree to quarrel with my husband for the rest of my life, and I quarreled very well with him."
Okay, since Zhong Liti said it was good and wanted to "arguing with her husband for a lifetime", no one else is qualified to say anything.
Not long after, Zhong Liti started crying to the camera again, how wronged she was living with Zhang Lunshuo.
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Is there a woman like Zhong Liti next to you?
She will often complain to you about how bad her husband or boyfriend is, she doesn't do housework, she is bothered, stingy, mommy, she has a bad temper, and she starts to cry when she talks.
But just when you are filled with righteous indignation, the more you look at her significant other, the less pleasing to your eyes. When you can't wait to have a fight, people turn around and start showing affection again, which makes you look embarrassed.
Their mantra is: "Although my husband has a lot of problems, we are really in love."
is true love, don't cry! Someone from
once recounted such an experience on the Internet: When he rented a house before,
heard the drunkard next door beat his wife with alcohol, so he went to persuade him to fight.
didn't expect that the drunkard came to hit him. In a hurry, he picked up a wine bottle and broke the drunkard's head.
At this moment, he suddenly got a sap from behind, hit the head directly, and bleed a lot of blood. ——It was done by the drunkard’s wife.
In the end, he paid out the medical expenses himself, and also paid 1,000 yuan for the alcoholic family. Not long after
, the drunkard started beating his wife again, he stood at the door and looked at him, and he would never make another move.
After reading this story, I also began to believe that some people may show their affection in a really weird way, such as cursing dead ghosts while showing affection; wiping tears while showing affection; while bandaging wounds and showing affection.
This is probably the legendary "love and kill each other."
We have no other choice but to respect the way people show affection.
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Mr. Lu Xun wrote a story called "Smart Man and Fool and Minion". The story of
is about a minion who likes to complain to people about his master's harshness: let him work day and night, eat pigs and dogs, and live without a window.
In the beginning, the minion met a smart man.
The wise man sighed and sighed with the minion, said a few blessings and left.
Later, the minion met another fool.
idiot listenedThe miserable fate of the minion was so angry that he immediately carried a shovel to open a window to the house where the minion lived. The
minion was so scared that he lay on the ground and rolled around, asking his master to complain.
In the end, the fool was driven out by a group of people, and the minion got the praise of the master, and his heart was full. Before
, I always opposed "persuading peace but not dividing."
later discovered that when a person cries to you how bad the other half is, the best way for you is to be a smart person.
Don't be like a fool to be filled with indignation and uphold justice. Because people who really can’t make it through, don’t need to say anything, but will find a way to escape.
You have to listen more, be more agreeable, and more open: "Men are like this." "The way of marriage is to tolerate each other." "He usually treats you very well." "Be patient, children are big Just click.”
In this way, when she shows her love next time, you will not feel embarrassed because of what you have said.
She will also be sincerely grateful to you: "You said earlier that I will always get better. It is really foresight."
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You can never wake up a person who pretends to sleep, especially a woman who deceives herself.
I met a friend in college, and later she married in the same city as me. During her honeymoon, she encountered domestic violence and was discouraged.
She cried to me for half a month, and by the way, she consulted the specific process of divorce and what to note.
I thought she really wanted to divorce.
A few days after the result, her circle of friends posted a photo with her husband and smiled naively.
I didn’t ask her what’s going on, because I knew she would probably tell me: “He sometimes treats me very well.”
What she said was “very good”. It might be a begging for mercy and a begging for mercy. A cup of hot water, a joke.
But the feeling is like this. When you love it, it is true love, and when you don’t love it, it’s true not. Love and non-love are intertwined, and every moment is a large-scale "true fragrance" scene.
I know that such a woman is not deliberately hypocritical, deliberately makes people feel uncomfortable.
She just got emotional, and when the negative energy burst, she didn't control herself. Then after waking up, she stood on the same front with her husband decisively.
But even though I can understand, I still don't want to listen to her easily complaining, complaining to her husband, and don't want to watch her show affection after wiping away the tears.
Because it's like what a father said when he sent his daughter to marry:
"If you are wronged by your husband in the future, don't tell me. Because you can choose to forgive him, but I can't."
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