1. A person’s character and personality are most likely to be expressed when breaking up
On August 18, Ku Hye Sun posted on his personal social account that "The husband who changed his mind due to the burnout period wants to divorce, and I want to protect the family."
then announced the SMS chat history with her husband Ahn Jae-hyun, and ins has deleted all posts related to Ahn Jae-hyun, leaving only a photo with her mother.
And Ku Hye Sun mentioned in a recent interview that Ahn Jae Hyun seemed to love him only briefly, and he loved more.
On August 21, Ahn Jae-hyun issued a long article in response to the marriage change for the first time four days later, resolutely denying that he had committed infidelity, and accused the woman of distorting the facts, and also revealed that he and the woman had agreed to divorce as early as July 30 .
then claimed that he suffered from depression after marriage and always wanted to be a good husband, but in the end he still chose to divorce by agreement.
was less than two hours after Ahn Jae-hyun’s self-defense statement was issued. Koo Hye-sun retorted in a batch, saying that Ahn Jae-hyun was drunk and contacted several girls because he had heard and witnessed. He also suffered from depression earlier than Ahn Jae Hyun.
On August 22, Ahn Jae-hyun responded to Koo Hye-sun's remarks, saying that he would publish all the chat records of the two Katalk. People close to Ahn Jae-hyun said, "As for Ku Hye-sun's revelation, Ahn Jae-hyun feels wronged. He intends to disclose the full text of the conversation between the two in an official way through consulting a legal agent. It is expected this week. Go on. "
's response, Ku Hye-sun shot back: "I don't need Kaotalk~ Don't be too busy, betrayer." Whether there will be new reversals and evidence for the disturbance between the two of
, it is unknown. Let us briefly review the previous bits and pieces of the two people.
Ahn Jae Hyun Gu Hye Sun fell in love with the Korean drama "Vampire Doctor" in 2014, and the two got married on May 21, 2016. When
presented the awards for the variety show "New Journey to the West" at the TVN10th Anniversary Festival "tvN10 Awards", Ku Hye Sun appeared on the stage and said: "I came here without telling my husband. Yes." The husband Ahn Jae Hyun in the audience of
was surprised and moved.
participated in the variety show "Newlyweds Diary" in 2017, and the sweet couple has countless fans.
Gu Hye-sun once said, "Sister, I am 34, and I don’t feel tempted to do anything. The last time I was tempted was because of you."
But now it’s only three or four years, these people who love deeply have had to break up. .
Everything was frank and frank, without tearing or verbal abuse. Although Ku Hye-sun was unwilling and disappointed, she still announced the news of the marriage change neatly. But looking back on the goodness of each other, even though my heart has changed a lot, I still make up my mind: If you don't love me, leave me.
Some people say that a person's character and character are most easily expressed when breaking up.
Kind-hearted people, even if they are scarred and sad, still know how to let go and perfect each other.
2. It is better to divorce as soon as possible.
Xi Murong said: "Life is like this, sometimes you take a step back, just to perfect others, unintentionally, but also perfect your own blue sea and blue sky."
true The same is true for marriage. Don’t be obsessed with the integrity of marriage and lose yourself.
, 43-year-old Ma Yili, who ended her 11-year marriage with the article, both posted on Weibo, saying: "One is two wide, each is happy." Group", the mood is open-minded.
divorce by agreement, even if it means that I once loved you so much that I loved you so much, tolerate your cheating, tolerate your childishness, and after separation, I still told the world loudly: Thank you, and eventually I became myself.
Ma Yili released her first Weibo post after her divorce. She pulled away from the noisy public opinion and matched the food and beauty in the elegant country manor.
But the article was much lower-key after the divorce, and Weibo was fixed at the moment of the divorce declaration. Busy at work, keen on parent-child interaction.
divorced, and the two started a new life. The real "one do not have two wide, each one is happy".
"Although love is easy, marriage is not easy, do it and cherish it." What does
keep in a marriage that can't be saved by reproach? It's better to pull away and find the next one who cherishes himself.
3. Every sentence that insults the other party is to belittle yourself.
In 2011, the relationship between Huang Yi and Huang Yiqing was exposed, and the marriage news came out in 2012.
In 2013, Huang Yiqing sent several microblogs to accuse his wife Huang Yi, accusing Huang Yiren of pretending to be shy and becoming vulgar. Soon, Huang Yiqing suddenly sent a Weibo to reflect on herself, and apologized to Huang Yi, "I'm sorry to hurt the other half of my favorite." Unexpectedly, the next day, he reversed again: "The heart is determined and must be separated"!
In 2014, the "Double Yellow War" broke out on Weibo. Huang Yiqing exposed that Huang Yi was hypocritical and derailed during marriage; Huang Yi accused her husband Huang Yiqing of spreading rumors, domestic violence, and showing bad behavior. Huang Yi forwarded the lawyer's Weibo and wrote "Huang Yiqing fabricated facts, distorted human nature, and has no bottom line."
Huang Yi and ex-husband Huang Yiqing gathered at Beijing Bazaar Charity Night in 2015. The media asked about the current relationship with ex-husband Huang Yiqing, Huang Yi frankly said:" It's good for each other to let go, let go of the pain and baggage, and then each other can walk the way of the future. Recombination? Impossible! "
in just five years, from love to divorce. Once vowed to each other, but in the end it was all feathers. Two apparently elegant people ended up in a panic.
Huang Bo said in a line in the movie "The Flower of the Heart": "My previous failed marriage was a shadow in my life, but it is also part of my life. Then you insult my ex-wife, You are insulting me. "
Your past is also a part of your life, and insulting the other party is even demeaning yourself.
"Predecessor 3" always has such a lyric:
should be decent to break up, no one should say sorry, if I owe it, I dare to be heartbroken.
Rather than torturing each other, it is better to break up peacefully, "a couple of days of grace".
4. People who don't know how to let go in time will not let go of themselves.
In fact, the way you break up largely reflects your character.
Zhang Yuqi has experienced two "junk marriages". The first husband of
Wang Quanan, ignoring his wife's beauty, went crazy outside, and finally went to jail. Yuan Bayuan, the second husband of
, disregarded the relationship between husband and wife, and tore apart in anger. Zhang Yuqi laughed at herself "looking at men is too bad."
On 26th, 2019, he scratched her husband Yuan Bayuan with a knife and was on the hot search list for a while. However, on September 27th, Zhang Yuqi asked her client to issue a divorce with Yuan Bayuan. Although
is divorced, he has been entangled by Yuan Bayuan. In order to destroy his ex-wife, Yuan Bayuan spread rumors, uttered ruthless words, and did not pay back the money he owed, doing everything he could.
Zhang Yuqi confessed that she was unclear about others and had a lot of faults, but she loved it.
When in love, never find a boyfriend in the trash. You have to be clear that you have experienced a good relationship. Since it is not good, why not leave quickly?
Zhang Yuqi and Yuan Bayuan are both unable to get out of the quagmire of marriage. After the divorce, they were always entangled by the "garbage ex-husband".
Zhang Xiaoxian once said, "When loves to leave, both parties must let go together. "
women who do not let go are certainly not cute, and men who don't know how to let go are even more lackluster. You can’t learn to let go in time. In fact, you yourself are trapped in the garbage and can’t get out.
Why not let go in time to give yourself a chance to start life again?
5. The last love is to let go. Separation is another way to understand
When Li Shutong became Master Hongyi, his wife asked him: "Master Hongyi, please tell me what love is?"
Li Shutong: "Love is compassion." "The wife returned to Japan and didn't bother again.
Love is compassion, compassion is not loving, just let goRight. The lyrics in
's song "Let go of hand" sing:
The last love is to let go of the hand
I don’t want to use words to pull, so I choose not to blame
. Finding someone you like depends on fate. Life is long. If you can meet a perfect love, Of course, Sansheng is fortunate; if you don't meet it, you will never die-the flower that blooms alone is just as fragrant.
"I am a ghost who lives at home. The woman you loved so much has turned into a zombie." Goo Hye-sun's response to Ahn Jae-hyun ended with such a painful moan. Perhaps the stronger and more romantic the previous love, the harder it is to let go today, and the less reconciled it is to give in.
Since you've been in love, it's better to break up, don't kill each other like Ku Hye Sun and Ahn Jae Hyun: Thank you for letting me see what love is like. Since I don't love it anymore, then goodbye.
What kind of ending their story will be, no one is uncertain about the prophet. Maybe it's a bitter woman who can't love it, or a scumbag who has always been in chaos and abandoned it, but it is not what love should be after all. For their reversal and then reversal, the truth is unknown, we can only bless.
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Author's brief introduction: Liuma, a newbie born after 90. A slash young man who is good at thinking and good at output. I hope to share what I have seen and felt with fellow fellows, and move forward.
