In the past two days, a movie has burst into popularity, and it has been pre-booked as the best movie of 2019.
It is the pride of Korean movies and got the first Palme d'Or; it is a phenomenal director Bong Joon-ho, comparable to the pinnacle of "Memories of Murder".
at the Cannes awards ceremony in May, the major media directly named it, and tens of thousands of people directly scored 10 points on Douban, and its comprehensive score reached 9.3.
It is "Parasite".
1. The parasitic high
movie begins to tell about a family living in the basement. They have no jobs, the house is shabby, and they can’t afford telephone and internet fees, so they can only use the wifi next door.
By the way, the best place for wifi signal is at the highest point of the house-next to the toilet.
By chance, my brother faked his academic qualifications through the introduction of his high school classmates and became the tutor of a rich lady. When
came to the rich man's house, he was like Grandma Liu entered the Grand View Garden, everything was beyond his imagination.
Then, under the planning of the two brothers and sisters, a family of four who originally lived in the basement, through various tactics, used different identities to enter the home of the rich.
He became an English teacher, his younger sister became an art teacher, his father became a driver, and his mother became a helper. The unemployed family of
settled here at ease, and got a stable job in the rich family and got a good salary.
Even when the rich family is out camping, the poor family can still gather together happily, treat the mansion as their home, and enjoy this rare luxury time.
2. Perhaps the poverty of the native family will make the human bones see humble.
In these two families with great disparity in social status and a huge gap between the rich and the poor:
poor fathers go with the situation and do nothing; the rich father is the president of a technology company and has a successful career.
Poor mothers are thoughtful and a little clever; rich mothers are innocent and kind, and a little careful.
Passing the normal college entrance examination is the only way to success for the sons and daughters of the poor; the sons and daughters of the rich have diversified choices in learning English and painting.
The two masters and servants seem to be indifferent to each other. Although they are both blindfolded and blurred, they can see each other's identity from their clothes, shoes and socks, and jewelry.
The eldest son of a poor family has failed the college entrance examination 4 times, and has no diploma and no job. The youngest daughter of
, Jijing, can't even afford the tuition fees, let alone studying. Originally,
's only source of income was to help pizzeria stack paper boxes to make ends meet.
has no job and no stable source of income. They are obviously inferior to people, and even drunken men urinate in front of their windows and dare not stop them hard.
When the rich family cannot camp because of a sudden rainstorm and can only return, the poor family can only hide and crawl out like cockroaches after the rich family is asleep.
When they went home in a heavy rain, they found that their basement home had been flooded, and the only thing that survived was the commanding height toilet.
and the rich family give the child the best environment, create the best learning conditions for the child, and give the child the greatest space for development.
They don't have to worry about anything in their material life, even if they are considered spiritual life, most of them can be solved with money.
In the words of the poor father, that is:
The children of rich people have no wrinkles, and there is an iron in front of them to smooth out the wrinkles.
So rich people look very decent, they have good temperament and long-term self-confidence, natural and calm.
Even if the children of poor families are in love with the children of rich families, they dare not cross that hurdle.
In the film, two rich and poorPeople of class can even distinguish each other by taste, and the poor have similar tastes.
In the words of the rich father, this is a kind of "the taste that people who take the subway will have" .
Maybe, in life, there is a kind of humbleness that comes from the poverty of the original family, that is the inferiority that penetrates into the bones?
3. How can the poor children of the original families come back?
Indian founding father Gandhi once said: "Poverty is the worst violence" .
Nowadays, more and more people recognize that "it is difficult for a poor family to have a good son." In their eyes, poverty has become synonymous with ignorance.
However, in the 2018 college entrance examination, a girl born from poverty turned out to be a hit on the Internet. Her name is Wang Xinyi.
Wang Xinyi wrote an article describing her growth experience after being admitted to the Chinese Department of Peking University with high scores:
"Thank you, poverty." "Thank you for being poor. You gave me endless hope and the spirit of never bowing." "Poverty may shake a lot of beliefs, but it makes me believe in the power of knowledge more persistently."
She believes that the ups and downs suffered by poverty, the death of her grandma from cancer, the ridicule of classmates, and the hardships of the journey to school all make her stronger.
Wang Xinyi was not overwhelmed by the adversity of his native family. Instead, he was very optimistic, determined and independent, and moved many netizens.
is just the "poverty" she is grateful for, and it has attracted many people's controversy: because of poverty,
has suffered many pains that she should not bear at her age, and has also increased many setbacks. She needs to thank her parents and self-improvement. Yourself.
According to the impression of many people, it is difficult for a person to escape the fetters of the original family.
Why did Wang Xinyi successfully counterattack?
In fact, the original family will have an impact on our life development, but the impact is limited.
It determines the starting point of our life, but the trajectory of life comes out on our own.
For example, when Zhou Xingchi was very young, his parents divorced. He and his mother went to Hong Kong to seek a living. He grew up in a slum and has a very withdrawn personality.
In his student career, Zhou Xingchi was still a poor student, and the principal and teachers did not like to talk to him. Although
grew up in such an environment, he has always believed that he will become an excellent actor. When
is running the dragon set, he will think twice about playing a dead body, playing a good Song Bingjia and the director based on reason... These experiences of
will be filmed by him in the autobiographical film "The King of Comedy" in the future. .
hope that each of us will not use our original family as an excuse for refusing to grow and change, and that our happiness and joy are in our own hands.
We cannot choose our origin, but we can choose our own attitude.
Poverty may hinder your quality of life in the early stage, but if you don't give up yourself, you can live out the wonderful life afterwards.
