Author: forgetful of Mogg (parents Intensive writer)
April 18, Henan Yuanyang, a district construction site, earthwork within four children killed, including two 9-year-old, a 7-year-old, only a 5 year old!
4 pm, 4 children went out to play; around
5, it was raining, parents called their children to go home for dinner, but they could no longer find the child;
6, there was news that a child was dug out at the construction site;
8 o’clock , The news came out that two more children were dug up. The ambulance came and the parents of the children forced into the scene. The child's body was still warm, but there was no vital signs;
10:44, the last child was dug up. The whole process of
is desperate just to listen!
said in the news that 7 relevant persons responsible have been controlled and investigated. Netizens’ comments have become a mess. Some people scolded poor supervision of construction sites, some blamed parents for negligence of guardianship, and some people worry about real estate developers...
is no matter the adults. How crazy they are, the 4 poor children have never come back!
What a child!
Following the sexual assault of the child victim and 14-year-old "adopted daughter" in room "N", there is another distressing case in which the victim is a child. The tragedy reappears and many cases occur frequently. People can't help but want to ask :
Why are children always hurt! How can we protect our children?
Guarding children is the biggest responsibility of parents
President Bao Mouming was suspected of sexually assaulting the 14-year-old "adopted daughter" Li Xing for three years, which caused an uproar on the Internet.
can always go back, where is the source of this evil? It turned out to be the girl's mother, who personally delivered the child to the beast.
Even if he is a president, a lawyer, an executive, and has countless golden names, he is also a mature adult man. He handed over a 14-year-old girl to him. Why?
Will you bet tomorrow with your child's youth, body and life? Unfortunately, this bet was lost.
Many people sympathized with this mother and defended her, but no excuse can change the fact that her daughter has been violated. It is an indisputable fact that the daughter was given to the animal by hand. Is this mother not negligent?
Wang Baoqiang has a movie "Unbelievable" in which Tang Liguo played by Wang Baoqiang is a small truck driver who delivers express. When he took his daughter Guoguo to deliver the courier, he put her daughter in the car alone. But within 5 minutes of his delivery, his daughter had a car accident and never woke up. The death of
's daughter was Tang Liguo's heart disease. He has been unable to accept a new life. He can't accept the fact that his daughter died after only 5 minutes of leaving. He has been pursuing the truth of the matter. What has happened...
has been incredible. He found the truth, and the truth is that
"As a parent, I didn’t take care of my child for a minute, that’s my responsibility!"
Yes, we can be held accountable for the failure of the police and the public security organs can be punished. The result is the bad guy in the car accident, but we cannot expect others to protect our children all the time, let alone the bad guys not hurt our children.
From the most practical point of view, only parents are the first and most important line of defense to protect the children. What we can do at
is to protect our children by ourselves, not to make up for it afterwards.
It is very useful for the sheep to make up for the lost sheep, but the sheep that have been sacrificed are very sad.
Would you like your child to be the sheep that lost his life?
What we have to do: give the child the necessary safety protection
1, the safe growth of the child is more important than success
I have a friend who has a wealthy family. There are two options when choosing a primary school. One is a public primary school at the door. One is the boarding private noble school in the next city. She finally chose the private aristocratic school in the next city, with the purpose of exercising the child's independence.
I don’t agree with her point of view, let’s not talk about the parent’s company to the child’s growthThe importance of the distance, the safety of children is greatly reduced!
We have seen a lot of books, articles, and courses that talk about "let go and let the children go by themselves", but the premise of "going" must be safety.
I remember a saying: The best love we give to children is not to let go of our hands, but even if we let go of our hands, the child is fearless.
2. Enhancing the awareness of prevention
Take accidental injuries as an example. In 2017, the "Review Report on the Status Quo of Injuries in Children and Adolescents in China" was released in Beijing. The data in the
report showed that an average of more than 360 children in my country are sent to medical care every day, and more than 5 More than 4,000 children-an average of 148 people die in accidents every day!
Wang Linhong, director of the Chinese Center for Disease Control and Prevention, said: “We believe that all (accidental) injuries occur according to certain scientific laws. In fact, these can be prevented.” There is a saying in
: is not me the most regrettable Can't do it, but I could.
Yes, many children’s deaths could have been avoided,
if the fence were denser,
if you didn’t put the child on the car alone,
if you put a helmet on the biker,
if you caught the child while crossing the road The child’s wrist instead of the hand...
enhance the awareness of prevention, keep the injury away from your child, and don’t cry "what if" afterwards.
Regarding accidental injuries, several major injury prevention strategies given by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention are particularly useful. They are shared with you:
Top Ten Strategies for Youth Road Traffic Injury Prevention:
Eight Strategies for Prevention of Children’s Fall :
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Eight strategies for the prevention of burns and scalds in young people and children:
Eight strategies for the prevention of poisoning among young people and children:
We are worthy of our children’s safety education in Japan.
There was a news report that an elementary school girl in Nara was suspected of being abducted. Less than 3 minutes after receiving the call, more than 200 police officers blocked the intersections of various roads in the city. The little girl was rescued on the same day. The efficiency was high. , The speed is so fast that people can't help but give a thumbs up.
In addition to the police force, there are many heart-warming measures:
, for example, the school road near the school, during school hours, vehicles are restricted;
parents and teachers will escort at nearby intersections and zebra crossings;
police often come Schools and kindergartens go to traffic safety classes, invite children to the police station and fire department, and teach them what to do in an emergency. What is most enviable about
is Japan’s nationwide volunteer activity with the widest coverage- "Children's 110 Home" .
Since the 1990s, Japanese police and local organizations have set up "Children's 110 Homes" in shops, stations, and houses along the way primary school students go to school. Children can go to "Children's 110 Homes" for help in emergencies.
They even produced a special "Children 110 Home" corresponding manual, which regulates what the protector wants to say, what tone of voice, how to comfort the children and a series of procedures.
Currently, there are at least 145,895 residential houses in Osaka alone that are "Children's 110 Homes".
It is good news that in 2019, the first batch of 80 “Children’s 110 Homes” also appeared in Weifang, Shandong. A unified sign was hung around the school, shops along the way, and the security rooms of various communities and units for children. We provide shelter in an emergency. The existence of
asylum is more than just a place to help children. Its value is to deter crimes against children, to arouse everyone’s care and protection of children, and it is more important for the whole society.Proof of valuing and cherishing children.
protecting children is never just the responsibility of parents and the school!
protecting children has never been a slogan, and no one can stay aside.
Every family loves their children, and the candle of love is lit in every family;
every school protects its own students, and the bonfire of love is lit in every school;
every road protects the children Escort, the fire dragon of love burns on every road;
everyone can stand between danger and children, and the flame of love will shroud the world!
When these loves come together, children are safe everywhere, so that they can fly with confidence and live up to the future, hopes and dreams.
About the author: Moge, who loves to forget things, the author of Fushu, the 7th student of the Fushu Parent-Child Camp Introductory Class, the post-85 mother who fell in love with codewords, the first-line teacher, the first parent of this article intensive reading, unauthorized, Not reprinted.
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