"Imperfect She": Three different mothers, tell us there is no mother with perfect score in the world

2020-04-22 17:36:07 news 2122℃

Korean drama "Please answer 1988", there is a line saying: "God is not everywhere, so he created mother!"

maternal love is probably the most commendable and unpretentious emotion in the world. There are many film and television works about maternal love. We can find all kinds of images of mothers from different works. They are short or humble, tough or confused, but only the matter of beloved son is paramount in their eyes, because love is in the hearts of all mothers. The song of annihilated soul.

The languages of different countries in the world are different, but the pronunciation of the word "mother" is surprisingly similar. This is a great role. How to interpret it may take a lifetime to find the answer. The

hit drama "Imperfect She" is starring Zhou Xun and Huang Jue, with Hui Yinghong and Zhao Yazhi starring in particular. A female perspective, interspersed with the touching plot of three different mothers guarding their children, gives this touching and mutual warm tears a different color. In-depth analysis of the TV series of mothers and maternal love. In one word, a love. There may be a lack in life, but love will make it perfect.

1. There is a kind of good mother Zhong Hui: with a child, there is a lifetime of worry.

Zhong Hui-(Zhao Yazhi), Lin Xuzhi's biological mother.

Looking at Zhong Hui's life, her experience can't help but make people embarrassed. In

"Imperfect She", Zhong Hui is a forbearing and strong traditional woman with no education. She abandoned her daughter 30 years ago for some reason, and then reunited with her daughter but did not dare to disturb her daughter's life. So did Zhong Hui abandon Lin Xuzhi There is something unspeakable, her life is also very difficult, there are many unspeakable sadness. She uses her own method to help Xuzhi silently, who is all her life.

Zhong Hui was originally a simple and kind mother, she should have had a good life, but from the day she met her husband Li Ze, her life was ruined. Zhong Hui did nothing wrong, but she experienced the most miserable life.

After getting married, Zhong Hui not only did not feel the love of her husband, but often suffered mental violence from her husband. Zhong Hui is a very traditional woman. She did not divorce her husband because of this, but kept tolerating it. Originally Zhong Hui thought that her husband would change after she had a child, but what she didn't expect was that after giving birth, her husband beat and scolded Zhong Hui more vigorously.

Faced with Li Ze's mental torture, Zhong Hui did not dare to speak out or ask for help, but to endure his torture day by day. But Zhong Hui could bear it, and the 5-year-old Lin Xuzhi could not bear it.

Lin Xuzhi took advantage of his mother's absence, smashed the horrible photos Li Ze took of them in the living room, and piled the photos together to set them on fire. However, before she had time to ignite, Li Ze accidentally ignited the flammable agent by smoking. Because Lin Xuzhi was afraid of being discovered when he smashed the photo, he locked the bedroom door, which caused Li Ze to catch fire and unable to escape. Li Ze's yelling frightened 5-year-old Lin Xuzhi and caused her to accidentally set the photo pile on fire.

In a fire, Li Ze was seriously injured. Zhong Hui mistakenly thought it was her daughter who set fire to her. Because she didn't want her daughter to grow up, she quietly sent Lin Xuzhi to the door of a kind person in Beijing to protect her daughter. Go back and surrender yourself. Zhong Hui was finally sentenced to 15 years. After

was released from prison, she didn't bother her daughter and wanted her to live better.

Later, after Zhong Hui and Lin Xuzhi experienced ups and downs together, they finally resolved their grievances for thirty years and became caring mothers and daughters. But what made people run into tears happened, and Zhong Hui had acute leukemia at this time. For Zhong Hui, the happy time is short. She doesn't know which will come first tomorrow or the accident.

Zhong Hui dedicated her life to her daughter.

2. There is a kind of good mother who is Yuan Ling: the relationship between mother and daughter depends on fate, not choice.

Yuan Ling – (Hui Yinghong), Lin Xuzhi's adoptive mother.

We met, mother and daughter for a lifetime.

She is Yuan Ling, she is aloneSelf-reliant business women are also great mothers who give to their children without reservation.

A single mother who raised three daughters alone, Lin Xu's adoptive mother. I gave Ouzhi all the love, but this love was careful, trying to get Ouzhi out of the shadow of being abandoned, but was also afraid to touch the wounds in Ouzhi's heart. No matter what happens, she always stands firmly behind Xu.

Yuan Ling's love for Xuzhi has been guarding Lin Xuzhi silently, but because of her lack of blood relationship, she can't let Xuzhi treat her like a normal mother and daughter. There is a plot in the

drama that is particularly moving: "How long have you been coquettish to your mother? Only when you have the memory of pampering do you know how to be coquettish. Only children who grow up surrounded by love will be able to act coquettishly. Children who grow up through hardships are brave. , Be strong, don’t show weakness easily", I heard Yuan Ling say to Xuzhi: "You haven’t acted like a baby to your mother once." She burst into tears...

and the last plot:

Lin Xuzhi left with Zhong Hui,

Yuan Ling hid upstairs and only cried, sister Guo Zhi chased out to save her eldest sister!

In fact, the adoptive mother at this time is really reluctant to give up, poor!

Yuan Ling, she knows how to guide and is willing to respect Xuzhi's wishes.

When I heard Yuan Ling say to Xuzhi: "Hidden you are just because you are afraid of losing you, afraid that you will go back to your biological mother." It was too heartbreaking.

Yuan Ling loves Lin Xuzhi only a lot, and there is still a sense of distance between Xuzhi and her adoptive mother. If you don’t know your life experience, will everything be different.

Zhong Hui and Yuan Ling are the biological mother and adoptive mother of Xuzhi's life. The birth mother is the mother who gives life, and the adoptive mother is the life mentor on the growth path and the mother who gives love and kindness. Ozuki's two such kind mothers are also lucky in his unfortunate life.

3. There is a kind of bad mother Mu Jing: If she can be born again, she can also forget me.

Mu Jing-(played by Cai Yatong), Mu Liansheng's foster mother.

originally had a kind of mother, just a title, not worthy of being a mother at all.

Mu Jing is Mu Liansheng’s biological mother. As a single mother, she was under tremendous pressure to raise her children alone. She couldn’t breathe until she met her boyfriend Shangwu with better financial conditions, even though she knew her boyfriend was a scumbag. .

She was afraid of her boyfriend leaving her. This fear made her ignore the fact that her daughter was abused by Shangwu.

She blindly indulges Shangwu to harm her children, and even becomes his accomplice.

When she saw her daughter being used as a shooting target by her boyfriend, she silently cooperated with him even if she was afraid of being at a loss.

When she saw her daughter being stuffed into an airtight cardboard box by her boyfriend, she was obviously afraid of being terribly uncomfortable, and she smiled and said to her mother " is really fun" , she was still indifferent.

When her daughter was injured by her boyfriend, she was forced to wear a snow-white tutu and lipstick, but she did not dare to resist.

When she wanted to pounce on her mother’s arms and cry, her mother pushed her away, and even pointed to the lipstick on her lips and cursed: “Disgusting! Dirty! Dirty!”

Isn’t she a child? Mom? It's just that she is afraid of losing her current financial support, and is afraid to make her boyfriend angry and leave her. She will return to the hard days of the past. In order to please her boyfriend, she can only sacrifice her daughter.

Whenever I see these clips, Mu Jing is pitiful, but also very hateful, not worthy of being a mother.

We will all mourn our misfortune, and we will not fight, can't you live without that man? Love and money are more important than biological children? Such Mu Jing really does not deserve to be a mother. However, for this so-called "hope", he would rather go against his conscience and cooperate with others to abuse his own daughter .

" I am the initiator. Let me die. I abandon her. If she can be reborn, let her forget me." finally heard a mother confess to her child's harm to her child. It was too sad...

Mu Jing represents such a group. Although this role is very negative, it is very real, and it warns young women to be good mothers.

What is the meaning of mother?

is like a line in "Find You", with deep feelings: childbirth is perhaps the most selfish act, because we are using the lives of others to perfect ourselves. It is not that parents create children, but children use their growth to make their parents grow up.

If we compare life to a house. Mother is the role of earth and ceiling.

mother is Dadi -she can take on all our needs. Infant nurturing, childhood care, adolescence protection, adult support;

mother is the ceiling -she can lead us to the height of life. With the establishment and formation of our three views, we have been guided to grow into a qualified adult from the self-growth of our mother role.

No one is a perfect mother. The best maternal love is to be yourself and grow up with your children. Even as a mother, I still have many shortcomings, so what qualifications do I have to let my children listen to me? Only by growing up with him, constantly examining one's own heart, constantly learning, and constantly improving oneself, can we travel side by side with our children and be the strongest guardian of our children.