stayed at home all day due to the Wuhan epidemic, and as the first free movie "囧Mom", it became a hot topic. Movies like
"囧Mom" can only prove that it is the right choice to broadcast to the public for free. Because this kind of movie is just a phenomenon, one-off consumer goods, it is impossible for people to talk after dinner. It's not that it didn't bring entertainment and joy at the moment of epidemic siege, but that it didn't give the audience the enlightenment that it should have or it brought few ideas.
If tragedy is to destroy good things for others to see, comedy is to expose ugly and hypocritical things to others. The first part of the
"囧" series, the 2010 "People on the Road" followed this rule and achieved quite "astounding" effects. "People on the Journey" touched a hidden pain in China today, namely, class differentiation. An indifferent, "rational" and "tasteful" successful person, Li Chenggong, due to some chance, encountered a milker who still maintains a simple morality. At the same time, he had to start a period of "lower society" that he was already unfamiliar with. "Life-ride in a hard-seat green leather car, stay in a small hotel at 60 yuan a night, etc. The embarrassing attitudes Li Chenggong appeared in this process exposed his selfishness and hypocrisy. Niugeng became a mirror for him, reflecting his insignificance, and saving him.
In fact, really good movies have the characteristics of dare to touch reality. For example, the Oscar Best Picture "Green Book" touched on the most sensitive racial issue in the United States.
But for some people, the film satisfies their inner emotional needs. Because each person has different growth, experience, personality, and preferences, it is normal to have different feelings about a film.
First, the whole movie revolves around the son being forced to accompany his mother to take the train to Russia to fulfill his wish. It shows family affection, love, love and killing in the family, and finally after the experience, slowly understand others, wake up, Understand the true meaning of love. I think middle-aged people should have the same feelings. There are old people at the top and young people at the bottom. After two rounds of love and killing, it was originally out of love for the other party, but it did not know that it turned into harm to the other party. In reality, there are too many such family, love, and such families. It's not that we don't love, but the concept of love, the way and method of love is out of order.
There is a passage in the film that is quite touching. His wife Zhang Lu said to her husband Xu Yiwan, and his son Xu Yiwan also said to his mother. This sentence may suit many people: This is the problem between us, in your heart I grew up with a fantasy, what should I like, what should I hate, and how to talk, you have all set it up, why do you want to reform me persistently? It's been so many years, don't you realize that I am not the person you think? Yes, in a lot of family relationships and love, the biggest problem is wanting to transform others, transforming each other according to their own wishes, and hoping that the other person will live the way they want. I have read a sentence on Weibo and I deeply agree: changing oneself is a god, and changing others is crazy!
If you love someone, you should make that person a better (her) self. The happiest thing for a person is to become oneself and become a better one. Love is perfect, not destroyed. As the film said at the end: Everyone is an independent individual, and every individual should be complete. Love is not about controlling and taking, but love is about acceptance and respect. I think this is what the film wants to tell people.
Finally, during the Spring Festival of this house, I was concerned about the epidemic situation and moved the medical staff and caring people from all walks of life. I also thank this warm and educational film.
