The second time is also beautiful: you can't imagine how harsh this world is to Bao Ma

The second time starring

　　 Wang Ziwen is also beautiful, do you guys catch it?

　　 may be older, but I prefer TV shows that are easy to be funny and divorced from reality. For example, I have been watching "The Life of the White Fox" and "There was a Spirit Sword Mountain in the Past". It is a state of blindness.

　　 Until yesterday, Mr. Ding was watching, and I was instantly attracted to him.

feels that the beginning of the show is very real, and it is too difficult for women.

　　 If the marriage is not well managed, when you become a mother, whether you are a full-time wife or a working mother, it is you who are wrong.

　　 1. Choose a workplace = an incompetent mother

　　 begins with a broken-up couple fighting for custody of their children in court.

The heroine of the story of

　　 is a pediatrician, a proper working mother, because of the particularity of the profession, she spends very little time with her children.

　　 When divorced, this became the reason for the other party to attack her. The other party’s lawyer Xu Lang stated in court: “With such a working attitude and such a density of work, Ms. Fang Qin missed every wedding anniversary with her husband, every child’s birthday... Fang Qin is a good doctor. But by no means a good guardian."

　　 "A good doctor" is so highly affirmed, but "by no means a good guardian" this condemnation is so strong, it hurts a mother's heart.

　　 suddenly remembered a popular sentence on the Internet before "I can't hold you when I pick up a brick, and I can't support you if I put down a brick..."

　　 If a woman chooses to work and pays less attention to her children, she will be accused of not paying attention to her children and failing to fulfill her mother’s obligations. If she is a man, she will be much more tolerant...

　　, for example, the one we are going to talk about below is also the husband of the heroine An An of this TV series.

　　 2. Full-time mother = no financial means to raise a baby

When

　　 was fighting for custody at the end of the marriage, the full-time mother was even worse.

　　①Inability to raise children

　　 Full-time mothers do not go to work, so their financial ability is naturally not as good as their fathers who have been working outside for a long time.

　　 The other party will take you away from you because you don’t have the financial means to provide a better living environment, better education, and not suitable for raising a baby. The child who has spent countless youth and painstaking efforts will be taken away from you. .

　　 Many years of full-time family contributions are not worth mentioning in everyone's eyes. It seems that they grew up in a flash, without any credit from you.

　　②It’s all your fault if the child is sick

　　 The child is weak, how can he not get sick?

　　 The child is active and lively, and injuries are inevitable.

　　 However, this time is all your fault. If you take your baby full-time, you can still make your baby sick and hurt your baby. Are you embarrassed to say you are qualified?

　　 The world is too demanding for women. Not only do they have to give birth to a baby, but also to earn money, raise a family, and do housework! No matter what you do well, you are not a qualified mother or wife.

　　 Many people say that women cannot choose to stay at home full-time at any time.

　　 But sometimes, when there is no one to take care of the children, full-time is also a helpless choice.

　　 And as far as the education of children is concerned, it is extremely important before the age of 3, which will have a profound impact on the child's later life, and it also needs more parent company.

　　 Finally, Mom said some of her own opinions. If you find it useful, listen to it:

　　 First of all, when you get married, you must keep your eyes open to see the person clearly. If you choose the right person, he will understand and support you whatever you do; if you choose the wrong person, you will make any mistakes in the future, and he will never reflect on himself.

　　Secondly, if you are a working mother, it is best to take care of your children. Even if you are busy at work, you still have time to spend time with your children.

　　 Once again, if you are a full-time mother, please don't lose the ability to make money and learn. Once it is really out of touch with society, it will be very painful to start all over again in the future, and the days of reaching out for money are really difficult.

　　 Finally, I hope every mother can be treated tenderly by this world. z1in