At 7 o'clock in the evening on November 22, 2019, the Tianyin Movie Appreciation Activity was carried out as scheduled in the lobby of Tianyin Psychological Counseling Center. This event was hosted by Mr. Zhimin Wang and shared the movie "The Gifted Hand". This is a film based on real person events. It tells the story of a genius neurosurgeon Ben Carson who was promoted from a black poor to the head of children's neurosurgery at Johns Hopkins Hospital. The protagonist of the film was born in a black family, his parents divorced when he was 8 years old, and his family was poor. He was discriminated against by others when he was a child, and he got into trouble because of his impulse and irritability during his adolescence. However, his mother guided him positively and positively since he was a child, gave him faith and infinite strength, and finally realized his self-worth.
thanks to teacher Wang Zhimin for sorting out a lot of psychological knowledge in the movie during his busy schedule. There are the psychological and behavioral characteristics of adolescent children (6-12 years old). Children in this period are quietly occurring in terms of perception and memory, imagination and thinking ability; emotion and will, as well as emotion and personality. Variety. In the movie, you can also see the psychological development characteristics of adolescent children (12-16 years old, junior high school students). Children in this period have high emotional experience, high excitement, poor stability, high volatility, and easy Impulsive, high self-awareness, start to pursue independence and self-esteem, etc. At this time, the children's sexual awareness is gradually developing. Although they are avoiding the opposite sex on the surface, in fact they tend to be cautious and shy in front of the opposite sex. Psychological defense mechanisms are also reflected in the characters in the film, such as denial, rationalization, and sublimation. In the session when
shared their experience of watching movies, in addition to the tense atmosphere during the last operation of the film, and the exciting mood after the successful operation, everyone talked about the influence of mothers on the education of their sons in the movie. Although her mother is depressed, she never let her negative emotions affect her children. Despite the economic pressure, she never transmits any negative energy to her children. On the contrary, when the child encounters any difficulties, the mother will say "what others can do, you can also do it, and you can do better", which stimulates the child's great potential. At the same time, in guiding the child’s future, the mother does not force the child to learn a certain skill that can make money or succeed in the future, she just leads the child to the library, so that the child can find the knowledge that interests him in the ocean of knowledge. , The child will persevere in learning consciously. The various interactions between mothers and children in the movie are worth learning.
started discussions around the movie, and everyone also discussed how parents avoid letting their emotions affect their children? What is the significance of the children’s growing up experience, even those that seem to be serious. For example, the protagonist of the movie stabbed his classmates with a knife in high school. Although the result did not really hurt the classmates, this experience helped him to perceive his emotions and start learning to control and adjust his emotions. This is positively positive. significance.
