used to be slow, cars and horses were slow, and a lifetime was only enough to love one person. Today, with the development of information technology, the "global village" formed by the Internet has become more and more convenient for people to connect with each other, and everything is speeding up. A relationship can start in a day or end in a few days. After reading too many gossip stories, I feel that sincerity is more valuable.
recently watched the ancient costume detective drama "Story of the Tang Dynasty". The cases are complicated and complicated, and the protagonist's image is also very full, and each one is flesh and blood. The audience sighed that the IQ of the protagonist group was online, and they were addicted. Brain-burning suspense cases must of course be accompanied by sweet love. Although "The Story of Tang Dynasty" is a suspense drama, the love line is very attentive and reasonable.
During the Tang Dynasty, especially after Wu Zetian became emperor, the status of women was relatively high. Pei Xijun is the daughter of Shilang Pei. From a modern point of view, she is not only a "white rich beauty", but also a talented woman. Such a woman is someone who dares to love and hate. When she first saw Lu Lingfeng, she mistakenly thought he was her fiancé. Seeing that Lu Lingfeng is upright and strong in martial arts, he can't help but fall in love. After knowing that the "fiancé" died in the battle, I once made a fuss about going to the Western Regions to find her husband. From Xijun, I saw the purity and steadfastness of the ancients in love. If you like it, you like it, and swear to follow it to the death. Love is not the result of her weighing the pros and cons, but her decision to follow her heart. Only by following the heart can love last forever.
Faced with the fanatical pursuit of such a beautiful and talented woman, how could Lu not be moved. But it wasn't him who had a marriage contract with Xijun at the beginning, and he didn't dare to be tempted. Later, he had a bumpy career and felt that he was not worthy of Xijun. Although the audience complained about his stupidity and hesitation, I saw from his hesitation that he cherished Xijun, and he couldn't bear to blaspheme this relationship. A good love is not to feel that the other party is not worthy of you, nor to feel inferior because the other party's conditions are better than yourself, but to want the other party to have a better life. He could have used Pei Shilang behind Xijun to return to his official career, but he insisted on his bottom line and dignity, and saved Xijun from distress many times, but he did not repay his gratitude. Sincere love is to use my own strength to prove that I can be worthy of you and make your life better.
Although this relationship is not the main line of this drama, I can see the most original face of love in it. Love should be that two people treat each other sincerely, think about each other, plan for each other, support each other, and encourage each other. A good love can make two people better, not love makes people unrecognizable. There are all kinds of stories in modern society, all kinds of love, happy love is always similar, but incomplete love has its own defects. If you don't know whether a love relationship should persist, you can actually compare whether you prefer the current self or the self after falling in love. I prefer the present life, or the life after love. In fact, when you ask this question, you already have the answer in your heart.
