Cai Yuxiao was Zhanyan's senior when he was in college. The two went to the same university. After graduation, they joined the same hospital.
are in front of people, they are harmonious and friendly seniors and juniors. In particular, Cai Yuxiao, who is a senior, takes great care of Zhanyan.
's kind of care is somewhat "pampered".
In addition to being seniors and juniors, they are still competing in the hospital.
is a senior and can handle interpersonal relationships. Whether facing colleagues or patients, he performed outstandingly.
and the other, junior, can't handle interpersonal relationships. In addition to excellent medical skills, there is almost no place to make leaders like.
Aside from the seniors and juniors and the competition on the surface, in fact, they still have an unknown relationship, and that is the "ex". When
was in college, Cai Yuxiao and Zhanyan were together.
But later, this relationship was ended by Zhanyan on the grounds that it was "inappropriate".
Although the relationship has ended, Cai Yuxiao has never let go of Zhanyan, and the wait is seven years.
At first glance, Zhanyan's reason for rejecting Cai Yuxiao was because of his parents. Because of her mother's early death and her lack of understanding of her father, she lost confidence in marriage.
but really?
's mudslide scene yesterday can be said to be the most vivid reflection of Zhanyan's reason for rejecting Cai Yuxiao.
01: "Abandoning love to escape" is understandable, but unacceptable
Cai Yuxiao deliberately chose a mountain homestay , and wanted to continue to confess to Zhanyan.
music, flowers, white suits, and picturesque mountain homestays, not only the ceremony is full of confession, but also the sincerity is real.
because what he asked for compounding was not the ring, but the key to the new house.
just nodded and agreed, Cai Yuxiao could immediately give her a ready and stable home.
, but this time, he still refused. The reason for refusal is still "inappropriate". In order to ease the embarrassment,
went to the cellar in the basement to get wine. But it was this move that almost made her go nowhere. At the moment when
noticed the debris flow , Cai Yuxiao was still fine, he didn't hesitate, the first thing he thought of was to save Zhanyan.
and others rushed to the basement and saw Zhanyan who was unable to move under the pressure of the wine cabinet, Cai Yuxiao was also fine. At this time, all I can think about is to do my best and drag Zhanyan out of the mud.
But obviously, in front of the bulky wine cabinet, Cai Yuxiao's strength is so pale. On one side of
is the second mudslide that is about to sweep over, and on the other side is Zhanyan, who is crushed by the wine cabinet and unable to move.
In just a few seconds, Cai Yuxiao made a choice, "I can't do this, I'll go out and call someone".
Cai Yuxiao didn't even dare to look Zhanyan's eyes directly, so he left Zhanyan and fled the hotel in a hurry.
As soon as he came out, the mudslide swept the B&B again. The small homestay was instantly submerged by the torrent.
Watching the swept mudslide, Cai Yuxiao collapsed, helpless, and desperate. He dug into the soil with his bare hands over and over again, unaware that his fingers were already bleeding.
seems to be the only way to relieve the guilt in my heart. It seems that only in this way can he show his concern for Zhanyan.
So the question is, is it wrong for Cai Yuxiao to escape Zhanyan alone?
think about it, it's not wrong.
Under the circumstances at that time, besides being able to accompany Zhanyan to talk, what else could he do to accompany her to die together at a critical moment?
can't do anything.
More importantly, in the face of danger to life, survival is a person's instinct. Therefore, Cai Yuxiao does not need to stay to accompany Zhanyan to "live and die together".
Cai Yuxiao, who is very good at handling interpersonal relationships, must also be very good at making choices in life. so shortIn just a few seconds, he made a choice.
It's not wrong for Cai Yuxiao to escape, but it's his fault. He doesn't even have the courage to look directly at his selfishness.
He left Zhanyan aside for the reason of "going out and calling people". The implication of this sentence is that if someone is called, she will come back to save her.
But when Robben appeared, Cai Yuxiao "stayed out" again.
Robben and Zhanyan are not close friends, neither are they friends. More importantly, his mastery of rescue knowledge only knows a little bit of fur. People like
rushed into the homestay to save Zhanyan, and they actually depended on their loneliness and their love for Zhanyan.
But Cai Yuxiao is different. Although he has no physical strength, he understands rescue and has also been an examiner for international rescue training. More importantly, he is also a doctor.
If he can follow Robben in to rescue Zhanyan, it will undoubtedly greatly increase Zhanyan's chances of surviving, and it will also reduce the risk of Robben saving people as much as possible.
But in the face of the mudslide that might make a comeback at any time, Cai Yuxiao stayed out of trouble without any struggle.
He also shouted to Zhanyan who was trapped inside at the entrance of the cave: "Don't be afraid of Zhanyan, Robben will go down and save you".
is like this, and Cai Yuxiao is still trying his best to hide the guilty conscience in his heart.
is actually still the same sentence, when faced with death threats, people will shrink back, and it is not a shameful thing. Will escape, nor is it incomprehensible behavior.
But the mistake is wrong, you are timid, but you have to cover it up. You choose to protect yourself, but you still have to show your innocence. As everyone knows, the more you do it, the more deliberate it becomes.
02: Leaving Zhanyan aside, Cai Yuxiao is completely out of the game
As mentioned earlier, Cai Yuxiao's escape behavior is not intellectually wrong. Normal people will have normal choices when facing danger.
But emotionally, if there is a boyfriend who leaves you alone to escape like this, who can cross this "abandoned" hurdle in his heart?
I let you go, and you go, it seems to be the same result, but the mentality is completely opposite.
In the end, Cai Yuxiao's behavior is understandable intellectually, but emotionally unacceptable.
From another angle, Zhan Yan has love and trust in Cai Yuxiao. She was trapped in the dark ruins, hoping her boyfriend would come back to save her.
But I didn't wait for it in the end. The pain in my heart cannot be described in words.
When measuring something is right or wrong, most of the time there is a yardstick.
can't be found in relationships. Relationships can't be simply added or subtracted.
Zhanyan has always had a hard time letting go of his father, but he couldn't understand that when the earthquake happened, he did not give priority to saving his mother.
Between the outsider and the mother, the father chose the child. Mother, became the one who was abandoned.
The situation Zhanyan is now facing is very similar to that of her mother. It's just that the Cai Yuxiao she faced this time was worse than her father.
So, no matter what the reason for Zhanyan's rejection of Cai Yuxiao is. When he chose to escape alone, there was no possibility between him and Zhanyan.
Cai Yuxiao really likes to show her face, but she hasn't liked it enough to give up her life for her.
He has selfishness and human weakness. Looking at Cai Yuxiao's actions alone, he can barely understand them.
But people are afraid of comparison, compared to Robben's self-respect, compared to Robben's loneliness, Cai Yuxiao lost a crushing defeat.
03: Zhanyan rejected Cai Yuxiao many times, it was her transparent
Cai Yuxiao always thought that Zhanyan rejected his pursuit because of her parents. Because her father Qingshan gave up on her mother, she was afraid of marriage.
really so?
isn't actually. There is only one reason for
, that is, the two are really not suitable, and what they pursue and care about are not in the same channel at all.
is also a doctor, and Zhanyan's heart is only to cure diseases and save people. What can save the patient, what can minimize the suffering of the patient,what she does.
Other relationships, honor, fame and fortune, as well as the troublesome doctor-patient communication , are secondary here in Zhanyan.
Therefore, she is willing to take huge risks, even if she offends the hospital leaders, which may lead to disputes between doctors and patients, she has to perform high-risk operations on the patients.
just to not remove the patient's organs.
Other doctors care about "stability" and reputation. When she came to Zhanyan, she only had patients.
Zhanyan doesn't care about interpersonal relationships or fame and fortune. It's not that she doesn't, but she knows that spending more time on these things will result in less money for patients.
She doesn't want to, and doesn't want to.
but not dealing with interpersonal relationships does not mean that they do not understand interpersonal relationships. Cai Yuxiao's hard work in the hospital, and even small calculations, she saw it.
Cai Yuxiao, after all, is an exquisite egoist.
doesn't say anything, doesn't make it clear, that's because Cai Yuxiao's painstaking "management" is not wrong, but it's just the opposite of her choice.
As far as earthquake support is concerned, how much Zhanyan has paid for this support, the leadership is not clear, Cai Yuxiao will not be clear?
But when the leader wanted to give him all the honor, he accepted it happily and calmly. When
showed his face to win back the honor for his group, Cai Yuxiao said a few good words symbolically. Something like this must have happened more than once.
In the hospital, Cai Yuxiao and Zhanyan are two extremes. The more perfect he manages in front of others, the more suitable for Zhanyan's low emotional intelligence.
can say that every progress of Cai Yuxiao is inseparable from Zhanyan's "foil".
Is this a coincidence or a meticulous design?
is unknown. The only thing
is sure about is that every time the colleagues and leaders of the hospital give Cai Yuxiao and Zhanyan a thumbs up and a foot on them, Cai Yuxiao always chooses to remain silent.
