wrote it in August 2022,
accidentally swiped the clip of "'s lifetime " at station B a few days ago. Now, apart from the looks of Gao Yuanyuan and Nicholas Tse , the plot and three views seem to have a lot of hard work. Injury, Douban also has only a pitiful 5.3 points. Back then, it was a complete mess, especially the crying flowers at the end trembling. It can only be said that the aesthetics and logic have improved in the past few years. This article should be a record of those years, let's be purely moved together.
Written in December 2014
How far is forever? ——Inscription
I have been thinking for a long time what to use as the title of this film review, life and life love, there is such a song to describe the entanglement and length of love. Maybe life is too far, we can't promise, only this life, this life is the forever I can promise to you. Long time no see, Gao Yuanyuan is still such a goddess, so beautiful and peaceful; Nicholas Tse always grabbed my heart so easily, just like the first time I saw his " Little Fish and Flowers ", so affectionate, only belongs to him. He used this life to spend her whole life.
The Tangshan Earthquake changed the fate of the little girl Enron, but we may ignore that Enron's parents in the whole play also have an eternal love, reluctance to part, stubbornly facing the fact that their lover died, and that A watch that never stops beating and a black and white family portrait. Without too many scenes to render, An Ran's father never remarried in his life. In his heart, she was always there, and this feeling can be remembered.
The life of a person is too lonely, so there are so many romantic talents, and he also took a nickname for his loneliness - continuation string. Today, a lifetime of love has become the exclusive property of the film and television industry. What we can't get, we have to find it in an illusory world. That kind of love that is absolutely necessary for you is often vulnerable in the face of reality. We are too young to talk about forever. So, but be single-minded. Leave the future to the test of time and it will leave you with the most suitable but not necessarily the best person.
Zhao Yongyong and An Ran's relationship began to be hazy. Following one after another, the sound of footsteps not far and near, the unexpected opening remarks, and the delicious candied fruit in my memory, "Lang rides a bamboo horse and goes around the bed to get green plums." But that's it. Gradually, they got used to each other's company.
However, the death of my grandmother forced him to leave with his uncle forever. He frantically knocked on the glass in the car and called for the girl in his heart, An Ran, but he could only watch her waiting back getting further and further away; I haven't seen the boy who has been following behind her. He has a nice name - Zhao Yong Yong, then will he never come back, like he never appeared.
In the blink of an eye, they're all grown up. Gao Yuanyuan is wearing a ponytail, riding a bicycle, standing next to the bus station with a stunning look, as youthful as "17-year-old Bicycle". She must have never thought that this stop sign "Tongjia Hutong" has witnessed the changes of the city and their whole lives.
Forgot how long ago, Zhao Yongchang returned to this city again, the same bus stop sign, misses his girl, some things have already been destined, just like two people who have been separated for so many years can still recognize them at a glance. The other side, this kind of true love is touching and has no grudges. The two people who have been separated for so long are like old friends who have been by their side, there is no strangeness and estrangement.
It's raining, and the gestures of intimacy when taking shelter from the rain together, as well as the surprise and resentment of reuniting after a long absence, neither of them realize that this is the person they're looking for. Kindness always brings unexpected rewards, just like giving out yo-yos in exchange for countless business. At that time, they laughed so sweetly; at that time, they were both young.
Enron's visit to forever has become an important step in the development of their relationship. Enron is a little bit incapable of facing a sudden relationship change. In the past, the boy who existed like a family member now wants to get along in the name of love. She is not ready yet. Fortunately, she always chooses respect and protection, and earns money desperately.He could send her to study abroad, even if he sent her away from him, he didn't hesitate, as long as that was what she wanted, he would even take the risk to make quick money, put the money in An Ran and leave quickly.
When the two were pushing and shoving, the local snake sent someone to look for trouble. Although he was outnumbered, he always focused on An Ran and protected her from any harm, but his head was covered in blood. Such love, and that The girl can't resist it.
Perhaps at this time, An Ran really understood that the relationship between her and Yong Yong had long since changed from childhood childhood sweethearts to a love that is willing to win the hearts and minds of each other. People say that people in love are fools, because they only have each other in their eyes, so An Ran would rather give up America and give up her dream. From then on, her dream is to be named forever and be together forever. How could the story of
be smooth sailing? Under that familiar stop sign, only An Ran was left as a lonely figure. After waiting for a long time, only a heartbreak ended. "He won't come, he doesn't like you anymore." These words stabbed An Ran like a knife, how many tears she shed is unknown. I just saw too many pictures of separation in the rain. It seems that in the rain, people cry a lot, because with the rain falling, no one can see their despair, and I can deceive myself and cover up the pain, saying it doesn't matter.
People who don't cry late at night are not enough to talk about life. We are always used to leaving the brightest side to the world, and do not easily reveal our fragility. Because growing up, we all have to understand that not everyone cares about your sadness. So we have no choice but to pretend and be strong.
So far, Enron went to the United States, but it was no longer the original dream, but healing; forever in prison with thoughts. I often wonder, how happy would they be without this accident? However, no if. People always like to think like this, but they don't know that there is no more than one behind ten thousand ifs. But no, we all know it well, just this kind of comfort can make us feel better. The epitome of
's ever-successful epitome of film has been taken carelessly. Indeed, in this love-themed film, the hardships behind this success can only be ruthlessly cut out. So there is often a misunderstanding that success seems to be easy, or we prefer to believe that success is easy.
it's just that movies are always scripted. Everyone's success is a different experience, I think, whether it is a film of success, or other, should have such values. Success is the same destination. As long as you persist, you may not succeed, but if you don't persist, you will fail. This is the truth of the vicissitudes of life. Suddenly I found that it was a bit off topic, but watching the movie, the things I felt from it should be diverse. But most of us ignore other than love. A thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand readers, probably the same.
It's no surprise that An Ran's life in the United States was not good. She worked as a hotel service worker, was tired of losing her child, and met someone who was willing to take care of her. At this time, what else could she hope for, it would be good to have someone by her side. However, in the face of such good, she can only express her gratitude with company. An Ran's heart has long been calm, and the scar has never healed.
forever finally came to the United States, trying to find Enron, but goodbye, he is still Enron's weakness, but no longer her armor. She couldn't face it, couldn't face the eternity that left her with those words, and couldn't face the self who still loves eternity despite being bruised and bruised. What she wanted to escape was not just forever, but herself.
obviously thought he didn't care, but still couldn't. I don't want to listen to the explanation, I don't want to think about everything about that person, even if I often find his shadow at an inadvertent moment, and then I miss you so much. And I really want to get close to him and ask him if he has been doing well these years, why didn't he want to be himself in the first place. From the perspective of dress, it is always obvious that he is a successful person, but now Enron can only live a life beyond his means in the United States. What do you want her to do with it? Even if they knew what the result would be, they couldn't go back. But she didn't know that there was something that could last forever, it was love.
Enron takes forever to visit New York, looking at the benches and the lover's locks, the two people who should be intimate are like strangers, despite the turbulent hearts, they can only hurt each otherHarm, seeing the feelings of the past lost in misunderstandings, the more I want to explain, but I always get An Ran to dodge. She was too afraid of the truth and too afraid of disappointment. So much so that in her later recollections, only her blunt attitude and patiently ingratiating herself were always there.
When Enron couldn't bear to go to the leadership for a replacement, she got a dress and an invitation to dinner. She was noble and elegant in her clothes, and she was very happy to see her friend from many years ago, but she was so embarrassed in front of the glamorous Zhao Yongheng, which only made her feel ashamed. Run away again, and finally, after a questioning "why are you always only behind me", "I'm used to it!" forever shouted. The two opened their hearts, no matter why they separated in the first place, at this moment, they are happy and in love, which is enough.
remember Ji Rufeng said to Mu Zhiqing in "Love Wakes Up": "I'll always stand where you can see when you turn around." I'm always defenseless with this kind of protection. Most girls will also admire the infatuated male two, they are given to the audience to love, like the warm male Qiao Ran of " in a hurry that year ", which may explain "people often choose in reality Love yourself, not your loved one." It takes a lot of persistence to spend a lifetime with the right person. An Ran and Yong Yong may have understood this truth and cherished each other at the moment.
backfired, movies always whet your appetite. While the two were enjoying the tenderness of love, the man who helped An Ran through the most difficult period in his life appeared. In the days when he was gone, her heart also became cold. It was this man who gave her a little warmth and accompanies her. Gone through the days of losing a child.
She can choose to stay together forever and never be separated again, but she can't ignore the pain that her happiness brings to her friends. If she could be a little selfish, she is the kind Enron who chooses to take care of the person who had a car accident for her. In fact, if she doesn't choose this way, then she will not be the girl she will love forever. There are always many helpless things in life, and life is not only about love. Sometimes, despite being heart-broken, smiling and saying goodbye, they parted.
But life is not destined to end like this, not even a minute or a second, how far is it forever? do not know. But he chose to wait, but felt sorry for An Ran, no matter how far she was away, he was by her side. An Ran took care of the patient thoughtfully, but even a fool could see what was on her mind. She was not happy.
Even though the man who made her happy was always behind, when she finally unloaded everything and made that fatal call, no one on the other end would ever say "I've been waiting for you", every day from now on Anyone who could see it just disappeared. An Ran ran desperately, and the only response to her was the ruthless gunpowder and overwhelming news reports.
In 2014, Beijing, the same bus stop sign, the same girl, the same thoughts, once in an unknown distance, such as a paradise that is close at hand.
Enron monologue: Are you okay? Love is for a lifetime. I loved you and I still love you. With a boy like that with me, it's hard to like someone so much again. And you are always in my heart.
After watching a lifetime, it seems like a lifetime, this kind of love is always sad, it is difficult to distinguish between reality and fantasy. We are too young to talk about forever. how far is Forever? Everyone should have a question mark in their hearts.
