A happy childhood heals a lifetime, an unhappy childhood heals with a lifetime. The An Lingrong in " Zhen Huan's Biography " is unfortunate, her whole life is pitiful and pathetic.
And the root of all these misfortunes lies in her origin. The quality of a person's original family has an important impact on his future life.
Psychology believes that when your conscious does not enter the subconscious, that is your destiny.
An Lingrong is just such a person, originally close to Meizhuang, Zhen Huan as sisters, Zhen Huan does not dislike her origin, takes care of An Lingrong in everything and helps An Lingrong.
But because she was jealous of Meizhuang and Zhen Huan's favor, the unwilling An Lingrong gradually ignored her sisterhood, and even used Shuken glue to cause Zhen Huan to have a miscarriage, and Meizhuang was born prematurely from the palace because of Wen Shichu She died from a blood collapse, and these extraordinary means ended up harming others and herself, ending her unfortunate life by suicide.
Even if she pleases the emperor in every possible way, the emperor doesn't like her at all, she is just a plaything, all of which have to do with An Lingrong's original family.
It is precisely because of her unfortunate background that she has a sensitive and suspicious character, and she has extremely low self-esteem towards men. In the end, she died tragically in the palace at a young age.
01 The eldest daughter of the county magistrate, but she doesn't get her father's love
An Lingrong was born in the family of the county magistrate. Although she is the eldest daughter in the family, her mother is not favored. Her father has married several concubines, and her mother needs embroiderers to supplement the family. Naturally, he was not liked by his father, and was even sent to the palace for election, hoping to develop his career through his daughter.
Someone else was a servant carrying a sedan chair and accompanied by a maid, but she was very shabby. She hired a carriage to go to the palace to be selected. Humiliated by him:
A small family from the backcountry, humiliated and thrown into the palace.
She also accompanies her carefully and does not dare to offend. She was accompanied by only her new clothes, which were made of materials from a few years ago. The clothes were newly made for the sake of selection. There was no jewelry, and it was very shabby.
was selected because Zhen Huan saw that she had no powder, so she picked a begonia and put it on her temples. It happened that a butterfly flew on the flower, which attracted the attention of the emperor, so she stayed. She was originally a timid person like her. Girl, the emperor doesn't look down on it.
Compared with An Lingrong's humbleness, Zhen Huan, who was also laughed at by his father's low official position, was neither humble nor arrogant, and taught Xia Dongchun a lesson.
02 Xiaojiazi's personality
is because he is not favored at home and needs to be careful in everything. An Lingrong is also a highly sensitive personality. This kind of person is cautious everywhere, and will first protect himself when encountering a problem. But it is easy to think wildly. She can neither get good friendship nor get the love of the emperor.
Zhen Huan entered the palace together and lived in the palace together, so she cherished her friendship very much. Every time she was kind, she was suspected and misunderstood by An Lingrong, so An Lingrong would eventually lose Zhen Huan who was sincere to her.
It can be known from Zhen Huan's gift to her that when Chunchang said that the emperor was wearing the "Two Dragons Playing Pearl" bedclothes embroidered by Zhen Huan and did not like embroidered dragons with auspicious clouds, he did not know that it was the Anling shelter. Embroidery is just a joke by the sisters, but An Lingrong is very sad: she will reward me with two horses when she has good materials, and now even Chun Changzai dares to smack me on the nose.
She is really sad, but it is precisely because of her own sensitive personality that the sisters who are randomly arranged together, no one is a little teasing. as a maid of honorWhen she said that Mrs. Guan was sincere to you, she began to think wildly and block herself:
, why is she for me, she is afraid that I and Chunchang will be angry, she has similar backgrounds, so she is closer.
Her delicate mind is also her inferiority complex. Zhen Huan is always careful when she talks to her, for fear of An Lingrong's random thoughts. A good gift.
's original intention was to cherish the friendship between the two, because there are too few true sisters in the palace, but coming to An Lingrong is not the same thing at all. In fact, it also hurt Zhen Huan's heart, and An Lingrong's character also caused the two In the end, there was a rift in her heart, and she was isolated in the palace in the end, so it was her own reason that she could not get sisterhood and friendship. People like
actually live a hard life. Even if the other party has good intentions, they will be completely distorted by her. She will feel sad when they accuse Sang and scold Huai of others' unintentional words.
She is destined to be unhappy in her life, because of her unfortunate childhood, the way a person gets along with their parents is also the way they get along with society.
03 loves humbly
in front of the emperor, like her title " Oriole Concubine ", with a bit of playfulness, a bit of disrespect, even she herself feels that she is not loved, she tried her best, but just to please the emperor , to maintain the honor and disgrace of her family, even she herself thinks that she will not be loved and not worthy of being loved.
saw that she sang well, threw a apple to her, like a juggler, or treated an actor with no respect, when she was pregnant, I hoped she would have a daughter, and Not a son, the reason is: your daughter's family is as well-behaved as you are.
is just because she is docile and well-behaved, which is also related to her humble character that she is not valued by her father at home, and her health is a humble character. Psychology believes that the relationship between a girl and her father is good or bad, and it predicts whether she will be happy in her life.
Compared with Zhen Huan's father's love and nurturing of his eldest daughter, An Lingrong is her father's chess piece. In addition to her selfless dedication to her original family, she makes her mother feel better at home, and a girl who lacks love will know it. How to love oneself, let alone how to get along with a man, not to mention this man is the emperor.
wrote at the end
In current words, An Lingrong has a constitution that is extremely prone to internal friction. She does not believe that good luck will fall on her head. .
And her life is also unfortunate. She has never been loved by her father, but is only a tool used by her father. She has never been loved by a man. The emperor only treated her as a plaything and never treated her sincerely. Although
has received the sincerity of Zhen Huan and Meizhuang, she does not believe that she will be treated kindly, and even betrays their sisters' affection, hurt others, and hurt herself.
She's not having a happy life.
