" Dear Life " I didn't like the title very much, because it felt like a bloody drama, but for the combination of the newly-promoted Xiaohua , Song Qian, and Wang Xiaoli, I still chased it. As a result, Li Junxiao became a fan. Who is the most successful character in this show? There is no doubt that Li Junxiao is the first. Isn't Li Junxiao the most typical Phoenix man around us? The appearance is acceptable, the ability is acceptable, and it is enough to work hard and fight hard enough to be promoted to a major hospital such as Shengji at a young age. From the midwives to the training doctors, they all stared at him. Such a person has a bright future, but why is he the one with the most tragic ending? There is no reason for him, his character is everything, because he has all the shortcomings of the Phoenix Man. The town of
is an essayist, Phoenix Man. These labels with their own attributes seem to imply value judgment, but they are not, because Phoenix Man is also excellent in the end, and they are excellent because they can surpass their own class. Limitations, but Li Junxiao did not. First of all, he lacked the pattern that a person should have. For him, all efforts should be reported. After he broke up with Du Di, he began to slander and slander Du Di in every possible way. It all stems from the idea that men are strong and women are weak in his bones. He can't admit a woman, and it is his ex-girlfriend who is stronger than him. In the theory, a woman should be the same as his sister's infinite sacrifice and sacrifice for a man. The most important responsibility of a woman is to give birth to children and take care of the family, not career. He also doesn't have any respect for the sister who gave everything for him. He interfered in the love between his sister and the courier because he only talked about conditions and not feelings when looking for a partner, so he felt that his sister should be the same as him.
Second, he is worried about gains and losses and is not willing to take any risks on his own. He is not lacking in intelligence and hard work, but why does Du Di oppress him everywhere, just because he does not have Du Di's determination to go all the way to the dark in his career and life, no matter what he does, he starts from himself. Taking advantage of his own interests and not wanting to suffer a little loss, Du Di rushed to pick up difficult patients in order to advance his career, but he was different. When the director asked him to pick up the patient named Gao Ying, it was the difficult female lawyer. , he was a little withdrawn, for fear of affecting his future. This is actually a manifestation of the consciousness of small farmers. Just like those people in the countryside, if they heard that there is an opportunity to make small money but without any risk, they will go in a swarm, but if there is They will definitely not take a little risk. Those who really do big things are not blind, but they are definitely not afraid to take big risks. Risks and opportunities often coexist. The higher the opportunity cost, the greater the benefit, but for farmers, a dollar for nothing is far more attractive than ten dollars for a risk. Li Junxiao is a typical person with this kind of thinking.
Third, he is insatiable, he has everything in his hands, and he doesn't know how to choose. He didn't want to take any risks, but he also wanted to stand out. As long as he saw an opportunity, no matter what the opportunity was, he would go forward and fight for it. If you can't fight for yourself, you have to let Wu Congrui fight, anyway, the fat and water will not flow to outsiders.
Fourth, the fox is suspicious, swaying from side to side in doing things, without any principles and bottom lines. Wanting to live a good life, wanting to treat his sister's illness, these were originally understandable, but he still did not understand that a gentleman loves money and takes it in a proper way. Some things should be done, and some things are too poor to do.
Fifth, those who have no major evils and many minor evils will not have a good life after all. There are actually a lot of these annoying people around us. Do you think they are really evil? No, because they lack the courage, but they are like a nasty fly, although there is no big harm, but they just want to disgust you all day long, make you unhappy, and affect your mood. Only in this way is the real life, the real life. It's not that there is no love in his heart, seeing the little girl, he didn't hesitate to help her, but in the end greed and ambition prevailed.
On the other hand, Du Di, who is also a peacock girl, is completely different. She has a determination that Li Junxiao does not have, and she also has a great love that Li Junxiao does not have. Even if she is misunderstood and slandered, she will not hurt others, and her family will also Very poor, but she will not do things without bottom lines and principles. Her life may be very hard and difficult, but she will definitely find her own way.
Du Di's father is also worth talking about. In fact, we may be somewhat misunderstood about machismo. The real machismo can be seen by looking at Du Di's father.Patriarchal. But he is filial to his mother, loves his wife, and dares to take responsibility for what he does without shirk. This is true machismo. As for the current Li Junxiao-style straight man who is selfish and does not dare to take responsibility, he is just a synonym for scumbags.
There are differences in the family of origin, and we can't choose either. As a Phoenix man, we can't choose. We are all born with this brand, but this is not the reason why you have a bad life. We can't choose before we are born. After birth we can absolutely choose what kind of person we become. Whether to inherit your own good genes and surpass your own inferior marks, or discard the good ones and carry forward the bad ones, the choice is yours.
Of course, Li Junxiao's tragic ending is inevitable. Although the screenwriter tried to make up for it in the end, it is basically superfluous. Throughout the whole drama, Song Qian's steel straight daughter is also in love, and Wang Xiaoli is okay, but she never likes it. Myolie Hu and did a good job too, and Xiao Xianrou's appearance was a little lower, but her acting skills were still online. Lin Wei also fell in love, if he was twenty years younger, I would pursue it without hesitation. Wu Congrui's ex-husband's image of a science and engineering man who does a lot and talks less is also very real. In short, the acting skills of all the members of this drama are online. Although the plot is a little bit bloody, it is still within the acceptable range.
