01 Sober in the world Shen Jianan
TV series " Their Names " Shen Jianan lived the most sober and free and easy life, whether it was work or life, she lived a very powerful and confident life.
has not yet entered into marriage, but she has seen the truth of marriage through her parents' marriage.
Although her parents' marriage is not perfect, her parents' unconditional and wholehearted love for her fills the gaps brought by her parents' marriage.
She saw the truth of marriage, but she was still full of hope for marriage, dared to love and hate, and liked her boss Tan Tian, so she bravely pursued it.
At work, when she saw that her colleagues were treated unfairly, she dared to stand up and attack Tang Dong.
saw that her friend Ren Duomei was bullied by her mother-in-law, she taught Ren Duomei to dare to resist.
She has been persuading Shuangshangdu Online's full-time wife Ren Duomei to come out to work, and women still have to have a job to support themselves.
In the latest plot, Shen Jianan is still persuading Ren Duomei.
people are used to it, today you compromise, and when you give birth to a child in the future, you will really become a life sentence .
Why does the young Shen Jianan have such courage and courage? It is due to the solid native family conditions and the enough love of her parents for her, so that she has enough room for choice.
Shen Jianan can be like a duck in water both in life and work. The economic conditions of her native family and the love of her parents have given her enough confidence and courage.
There are conditions to live sober in the world. Some people are not sober in the world, but they are often defeated by the real society. The courage of
children is mostly given by their parents.
would like us, as parents, to be the strongest backing behind our children.
02 Full-time wife Ren Duomei
Ren Duomei opened a public account and wrote an article about her marriage life and sent it to the public account. Her mother-in-law did not allow her to expose her family life to the public in this way. She was afraid of Ren Duomei. The move will affect her son's promotion.
As Shen Jianan said, whether her son is a star or a prince, what influence can a doctor have? She just wants to lock Ren Duomei in Zhang's cage and make you lose your hunting skills.
Men won't be grateful for your concessions, they will only make things worse.
Indeed, when they first entered a marriage, a man would say to a woman affectionately: "You are at home with your beauty and beauty, and I will take care of you." A man makes you lose your hunting skills or survival ability first, and then you have to do it obediently. He tells you to go east, but you dare not go west.
Because you left him, you have no ability to support yourself and survive in this world.
This is why women have suffered so much in their marriages that they don't dare to divorce.
Not all people can successfully divorce when they find that the problems of marriage cannot be solved.
Especially for families with children, children and parents have become hostages and dare not act rashly.
Marriage seems to be a matter of two people, but it is actually a matter of two big families. When
divorce, it will involve a lot of problems in both families. The problem of
marriage is not black and white, there are too many factors to consider.
03 Parents' love for their children is their confidence
The difference between Shen Jianan and Ren Duomei is that Ren Duomei always thinks about others, she loves herself more, and she can be happy.
Shen Jianan said to Ren Duomei with a sigh: "You are a beautiful family, you live like an ant every day, you bear the burden of humiliation, you should be careful on which day the ant nest is stepped on and the place to live is gone, you It's better to be happy every day."
In fact, Ren Duomei has a high EQ and IQ, she understands what Shen Jianan said, but the disappointment of her marriage has not forced her to leave.
Her marriage is the result of her hard work, as she told her mother, every piece of furniture in her house is as carefully selected as she is, and she does not want to break the current marriagestate.
This marriage is indeed managed by her heart. In the eyes of others, they are a happy couple with a happy family. Even if her heart is full of holes, she must maintain the status quo.
Ren Duomei put a lot of thought into this marriage, and she is also full of expectations for marriage.
's original family is not beautiful, which makes her more eager to manage her marriage well.
So even if she suffers grievances in this family and lives carefully, she has to endure the humiliation.
She also knows very well that if one day she doesn't do well enough, her mother-in-law and husband will sweep her out of the house, so she tries her best to manage this marriage.
Your mother's family is not strong, and your husband's family does not like you everywhere. If you want to live in this place, you can only swallow all the grievances and be a bull and a horse for this family, because she has no confidence to leave.
and Shen Jianan are different. Her parents' family is financially strong, and her parents love her very much, giving her enough courage and confidence to act casually.
Even if she makes trouble with her husband's house like , Sun Wukong, , her parents have the ability to help her settle it.
Even if she loses her current job, she will go home and inherit her parents' property.
Because her parents gave her the confidence to do whatever she wanted and leave at any time, Shen Jianan lived a very sober and free and easy life.
has the strong backing of his parents, Shen Jianan can handle his own life and work without his parents coming forward.
04 Written in the last
From the different characters in the TV series "Their Name", I can see that everyone's life is not so perfect.
Whether you are rich or not, you will have their own troubles.
Parental love is the best education for children, but in reality there are not so many loving and happy marriages.
But parents should love their children deeply no matter how their marriage is managed. Parents are not only their children's heaven, but also their children's umbrella.
let the children rush forward bravely outside, with the strong backing of their parents behind them.
Don't let children fight alone, or there are chasing soldiers before and after, so that children have no way out, only a dead end.
