In the drama " Ode to Joy 3", if Ye Zhenzhen is as beautiful as an angel, then Zhu Zhe is the angel who fell into the world, she suffers from the indifference and ruthlessness of this world, but still has a A child's heart is really rare.
However, as beautiful as Zhu Zhe, she also has her dark side.
For example, when her younger siblings came to look for her in Shanghai, not only did she not plan to help them, but she also joined up with her roommates and neighbors to perform a bitter scene in front of them, forcing her younger siblings to rush to the hotel overnight. .
For Zhu Zhe's behavior, Xiao Wenqing and He Minhong were all disgusted by it.
He Minhong felt that Zhu Zhe's younger brothers and sisters might have done something wrong before, but now they have come from thousands of miles away, indicating that they really need her sister's help, and Zhu Zhe, as a sister, should continue to help them.
Zhu Zhe was not angry with He Minhong's behavior of criticizing others from the commanding heights of morality, but said that she hoped she would not say that again next time, she felt wronged.
Anyone who has watched the drama knows that Zhu Zhe's younger brothers and sisters are like two vampires, who can't wait to suck every drop of blood from Zhu Zhe's body without the slightest gratitude.
If Zhu Zhe doesn't "calculate" them, he will only force himself into a miserable situation called Tian Tian not working and Di Di should not. In other words, she calculated this, just to protect herself.
The eldest sister has more responsibility than her parents
Zhu Zhe started attending technical school after finishing junior high school. When she was a teenager, she was dragged to a hotel in Shanghai for an internship not long after she entered school. The work of
's internship is very hard and the salary is very low. Many people can't make it after a few days.
But Zhu Zhe cherishes such an opportunity, because for her from a poor mountainous area, it is the only way for her to earn money and support her family as soon as possible.
Therefore, when the state suppresses the operation of technical school directly assigning jobs without classes, many girls like her from poor mountainous areas feel it is a pity.
Zhu Zhe climbed from a hotel waiter and through his unremitting efforts to the position of room manager of a well-known five-star hotel step by step. This journey is far more difficult than everyone imagined.
Just like what Ye Zhenzhen said, the position of room manager requires not only oral English, but also a certain aesthetic ability , and a certain understanding of interior decoration and room layout.
And all these, Zhu Zhe has, but not because she has studied in school, but by self-study. If there is no extraordinary perseverance and strong beliefs, it is very difficult to achieve.
However, her family is not interested in how hard she makes money, they will only stare at how much money she can take home, not only to pay for daily living expenses, but also for her younger siblings to study. The responsibility she took for that family has far exceeded the responsibility a daughter should do.
is only regarded as an ATM
Logically speaking, Zhu Zhe has paid so much for his family and his younger siblings, and the family should be very grateful to her and be very considerate of her hard work.
But her family members are unintentional people. They only care about how much Zhu Zhe can take home and how much he can help his younger siblings. As for what grievances she has suffered outside and how hard it is to make money, they don't care at all.
In other words, Zhu Zhe is just an ATM in their eyes. Once they can't withdraw money from her, they will use all kinds of ugly language to attack her and kidnap her with morality.
But fortunately, Zhu Zhe is not Fan Shengmei , on the contrary, she is sober in the world.
For everything she has paid for her family, she regards it as doing her due responsibility. But this responsibility is limited, so after doubling it, she secretly resolved to no longer pay for them unconditionally.
So, she secretly saved money to buy a small house in Shanghai, and she didn't reveal a word to her family. She knows a thing well, that is, her family only wants to squeeze her value, and they don't care about her life or death at all, she can only make comprehensive plans for herself.
The hard-hearted is forced out
In the eyes of some people, especially people like He Minhong who like to standFor those who criticize others on the moral high ground, Zhu Zhe is indeed a heart of stone.
She can bring her girlfriend and future mother-in-law to Shanghai to find her fashion poor when her younger brother brings her girlfriend and future mother-in-law to Shanghai, making her brother humiliated in front of his girlfriend and future mother-in-law.
She can sit back and watch when her brother and sister are arguing, even if she knows that her sister's quarrel will stir up brother Huang's feelings, she will not come forward to stop it.
She can still not tell her family that she has bought a house when her sister does not have a house to marry, and let her sister continue to quarrel with her brother.
However, if you understand the behavior of her younger siblings, you will understand Zhu Zhe's behavior, because some people, if you give her a little sweetness, he can rob you of all the sweet things in you.
Therefore, Zhu Zhe's hard-hearted heart was forced out through disappointment after disappointment. If you can get a little love from your family, who would be willing to do such a silly thing to offend the whole family?
Conclusion: Your kindness requires an edge
is also used as an ATM by the native family. Fan Shengmei pays her salary every month and subsidizes it to her family. Therefore, although she has a good income, she has almost no savings. And later, because of things at home, he almost forced himself to the brink of collapse, which also brought some trouble to the people around him.
And Zhu Zhe is very serious about her responsibilities, so when she put a lot of effort into her family and was sure that they would not care about her at all and feel sorry for her, she started saving money to buy a house and didn't tell her family a word. It can be seen from
that the unfortunate family of origin of will indeed hold a person back, but it is not that you were born in an unfortunate family of origin, you will be held back all your life, as long as you have clear boundaries and are determined to get rid of this. This kind of unhealthy pulling, you are fully capable of completing the separation from the family of origin.
Be a kind person with sharp edge, do what you should do, but don't give without bottom line.
hopes that every girl who is hurt by her original family can live as Zhu Zhe, maybe she won't get everyone's understanding, but it doesn't matter, as long as you have a clear conscience, it is the best choice!
