Nowadays, "fast food" love seems to have become a common phenomenon around us, which makes the word "breakup" often echo in our ears. When it comes to the reasons for breaking up between couples, although there are all kinds of rhetoric, it is a common and habitual template to end a relationship with an "inappropriate" sentence. Among the many reasons for being "inappropriate", intentional or unintentional deception occupied the majority. In the popular urban romance drama " Summer of Love ", Xia Xia ( Wu Qian ) and her current boyfriend The mutual harm between Guan Xin ( Yang Bingzhuo ) interprets the deceitful behavior of couples vividly.
in the play. In the summer as the heroine, in the 5-year straight-ball relationship with his first love Xu Zehao ( Qin Junjie ), they got along very well in all aspects, but I couldn't feel Xu Zehao's intentions for their relationship. Therefore, in the summer after the breakup, when he met Guan Xin who was thinking about him everywhere, he was full of happiness and thought that he was the flawless "100-point" boyfriend.
However, how can a nutritious relationship be written in a straightforward manner? Even if Guan Xin is a "100-point" boyfriend, he can't escape from getting along with Xia Xia, because of factors such as growth environment, personality, and principles of doing things. It is different, and the stars are ignited, just like Xia Xia learned that Guan Xin went on a blind date without telling him, and went to the bar to get drunk, but spent a night with his ex-boyfriend Xu Zehao in his room in a daze, which made him feel uncomfortable. The next morning, Guan Xin, who happily came to celebrate Xia's birthday, came to her house and rushed to her house.
When Guan Xin called Xia Xia to inform her that she had arrived at her door, in order to prevent her boyfriend from having unnecessary misunderstandings, Xia Xia, who was anxious, wanted to use various excuses to cover up the truth that she was not at home: "(best friend) ) Komatsu... She quarreled with Dong Hao", "I'm actually here with my mother, because my mother's health is not very good these two days...". Unexpectedly, just finished talking one second ago, and the car overturned one after another in the next second. It is conceivable that even if Guan Xin can tolerate it again, it is difficult to let go of the summer's all-night stay.
is a white lie to beware of causing a bigger misunderstanding. However, if there is a lack of effective communication, couples, husbands and wives, even brothers and sisters, will bring many or avoidable troubles in the future because of this kind of goodwill.
For example, about the dinner between Guan Xin and his childhood friend Lu Xi, he could have told Xia Xia openly and honestly, but because of his secretiveness, when he asked about it in Xia Xia, Guan Xin used "learning from a person he didn't know in Xia Xia." "Brother gathers and disperses" excuses the past, but Xia Xia saw the message sent by Lu Xi, and became jealous.
Many times, we always think that our white lies are to maintain this relationship. However, the so-called act of kindness is nothing more than wishful thinking, because this kind of kindness, after all, is looking at the problem from its own perspective, and it is all subjective "I think". Over time, if accumulated over time, it will become a habit, and it will even evolve into a fuse for emotional breakdown.
As Xia Xia said: "What about quarrels (between couples), it's better than saying nothing. If this (silence) continues, the problems between us will become bigger and bigger, and you Playing stupid all the time will make me think that you have always been a good deceiver, don't give me such a chance, and I will not give you such a chance."
It should be like this between couples, between husband and wife or friends, it should not be Is that so.
To put it bluntly, deception is deception, whether it is kind or deliberate, the precious relationship between two people, if you don't work hard to get along with each other and treat each other with sincerity, each will respond with "I think ”, then even a white lie runs the risk of being sour due to a lack of effective communication. So, keep an evergreen relationship, each of usAll should sincerely pay more for that hard-won affection.
