In 1973, Jin Xing, a six-year-old boy, was lying by the window, watching the sky pouring rain, lightning and thunder, and was not afraid at all.
He imagined that he could stand in the rain with his arms outstretched, be struck by a bolt of lightning, and then turn from a boy into a cute little girl, preferably one as beautiful as a white-haired girl. The idea of
has been in the mind of Venus for a long time.
You must know that when he was three years old, he was already terrified of the men's bathhouse, but he felt kind to the women's bathhouse, and could be called "home away from home".
However, at the age of 23, Jin Xing married a beautiful girl from the same art troupe and lived a "cohabitation" life under the witness of his buddies.
who is this girl? What is the relationship between Venus and her?
Here is the windmill of 's progress. In this article, we will talk about Venus and her "mysterious girlfriend".
In August 1967, Jin Xing was born in an ordinary family in Shenyang.
His mother, Han Ying, was orphaned during the Korean War. At the age of ten, she fled to China with her sister, and was later adopted. After
became an adult, she married a Chinese Korean man Kim Marley, and gave birth to a daughter, Jin Xianglan, and a son, Jin Xing.
In those turbulent times, Venus suffered from the hardships of life.
On the first day he was born, his mother hid under the hospital bed all night with Jin Xing in his arms to prevent stray bullets.
Later, Han Ying was also considered to be a suspect of "Litong foreign countries" and was pulled out of the house for criticism.
But even in such a difficult situation, the tenacious Venus mother still tries her best to protect her children.
Sometimes when she was put back home between criticisms, she had to use this short time to bathe and wash the children's clothes.
Jin Xing once said proudly: "I always dress neatly and neatly in my childhood, this is because of my mother's hard work."
From a very young age, Venus was different from other boys.
During the New Year's Day, he never blasts and slaps like other boys, but likes to paint and "dress up" to celebrate the festival.
In order to make himself "prettier", Jin Xing learns how to talk with girls, learn how to walk with women, and "disgusts" with his men in every possible way.
These "abnormal" behaviors, her mother, Han Ying, did not take it to heart, thinking that "it's good to grow up".
However, what makes Venus different is a gift from God.
At the age of 4, she showed extraordinary artistic talent, was selected to join the Korean literature and art propaganda team, and began her stage career.
At the age of 9, Jin Xing entered the art troupe and officially became a dancer.
But this choice was strongly opposed by her mother, Han Ying.
She persuaded her bitterly and hoped that her son could go to college. Going to college was the only way out at that time. How can Venus agree? After
experienced layers of "awakening", he has clearly realized that he was born to belong to the stage. To this end, he went on a hunger strike against his mother who kept him at home. In the end, the mother gave in and left a sentence: "Do whatever you want, as long as you want it."
And this sentence, in countless choices since then, has brought Jin Xing the power to firmly believe in himself .
In 1979, Jin Xing joined the Chinese People's Liberation Army Art Academy to study dance and military knowledge.
In 1985, he pioneered the men's pointe dance , and won the first Chinese dance " Taoli Cup " youth group champion.
Venus received the second-class merit award, and his military rank was also promoted to the regular level. He also participated in a performance in France for the first time. In the year
, he was 17 years old.
Three years later, Jin Xing received scholarships from the American Asian Cultural Foundation and the American Dance Festival, and became the first mainland dancer to receive a scholarship from the American Academy of Arts, and went to New York to study modern dance .
is supported by several scholarships, and Jin Xing's life in the United States is relatively good. The only problem is that his visa does not support his long-term stay in the United States.
At that time, Jin Xing made great achievements in the dance industry frequently and was affirmed by foreign professionals. She hoped to continue her studies here for a period of time. And the only way to stay is to get a US green card.
Unfortunately, as a Chinese public student, it is almost impossible to get a green card. At this time, Venus thought of his good friend Eric.
Eric is Venus' classmate at dance school, and he has a beautiful girlfriend named Ken Pauline. Because the two are not financially rich, they often worry about paying the rent.
Under Eric's relationship, Venus met Ken Bolin a few times and thought it was a good conversation. So he found Eric and expressed his willingness to let Eric and his girlfriend live in the apartment he rented for free, on the condition that Kembo and him fake marriage, so that Jin Xing can get the US green card.
The young couple, Eric and Ken Pauline, were very happy to hear the proposal, and agreed without saying a word.
Immediately after, Eric packed up and moved his girlfriend with his girlfriend, and personally served as a witness to hold the wedding for his good buddy Jin Xing and his girlfriend Ken Boline.
Of course, this legally binding marriage is meaningless in reality. The three of them get what they need, they live happily, and their relationship is still very good.
In 1991, Venus decided to leave the United States, and after a brief stint in Europe, he returned to domestic development.
At the same time, that wish, which had been with him for many years, also began to move.
In this regard, the fake wife Ken Bolin gave Jin Xing a lot of encouragement. She said: "You are a maverick, you must stick to your own ideas and live your own life."
So, Jin Xing gathered up his courage , ready to do sex reassignment surgery idea, told parents. To his surprise, her parents were very supportive of her decision, especially her father. When Jin Xing called to inform his father, he only said that he was hospitalized and asked his father to come over.
After his father came to Xiangshan Hospital by car, he asked his son in confusion: "Did you get burned by ? How did you come to the plastic surgery hospital?"
At this time, Jin Xing confessed: "I want to do sex reassignment surgery, I want to do sex reassignment surgery. A woman."
Jin's father heard the words, smoked a cigarette silently, looked at his child and said, "It's finally the right number."
Jin Xing was surprised, but his father continued: "You know, you are young At that time, how can I see how you look like a girl. After 28 years, you have found yourself, and you are on the right number, congratulations!"
With the support of friends and family, Jin Xing's belief is even stronger.
Before the operation, the doctor brought a booklet with more than 1,000 questions to answer. Only when the correct rate of
reaches more than 80% can it prove that it is completely female and meets the standard for surgery.
In this test, the correct rate of Venus is 94%. The doctor said, "You can do it. There is no problem at all." She finally found her true self.
After becoming a woman, Venus has had three boyfriends: a Texas cowboy, an Italian psychiatrist, and a Belgian politician.
also has a prosperous career, becoming one of the most accomplished dancers in the world.
She and "wife" Ken Boleyn never divorced until 2000In 2008, when Ken Boline was pregnant with Eric's child and was about to get married, they told Jin Xing to ask her and Ken Boline to dissolve the marriage.
We haven't seen each other for many years, the former "husband and wife" became best friends, and Jin Xing and Ken Boline embraced each other and laughed. After
, the two filed for divorce, ending their decade-long marriage.
This time, it's Venus to witness the marriage of Eric and Ken Pauline.
After getting married, the two gave birth to a pair of lovely twins, and Jin Xing also met his destiny.
In February 2004, on the plane from Paris, France to Shanghai, China, Venus had a lively chat with the German Hans next to him.
Although it was a chance encounter, Hans was fascinated by Venus and pursued relentlessly.
And before that, Jin Xing has adopted three children, the eldest son Dudu, the daughter Nini, and the youngest son Xiaosaner. '
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From the moment he picked up the children, Jin Xing changed his most important identity from a dancer to a mother.
She enjoys being a mother very much, not to mention daily skills such as changing diapers, she also pays attention to teaching students according to their aptitude in education. The
mantra also became "I'm a mom".
So when Hans came to Shanghai from abroad and wanted to date her, Jin Xing wouldn't even go out.
She said: "In Paris I am the fashion girl, in Shanghai I am the mother of three children."
Fortunately, Hans did not give up, and through hard work, let Jin Xing understand that this gentle man is an authentic gentleman, and also A person worthy of a lifetime.
On February 1, 2005, the two finally got together, got a license to get married, and chose to live in China in order to raise their children.
But the two did not expect that when the child was registered with the household registration, the staff refused to give the child a household registration because Hans was a foreigner and should apply for an international adoption certificate.
However, the staff also told Jin Xing that there is a solution, which is to divorce first.
Hans had to be "wronged" for the sake of the children.
Jin Xing, who acted resolutely, immediately called her husband who was on a business trip and asked him to come back to file for divorce. Hans also expressed his understanding.
Interestingly, when the two were asked about the reason for their divorce, it was the time when Germany was playing against Italy in the World Cup.
That's it, after spending 50 yuan and 5 minutes, Jin Xing and Hans "divorced". Her attitude was so straightforward that the staff in her information office before were dumbfounded.
On August 18, 2018, the children's household registration issues were all settled, and Hans was finally able to "work with a certificate" again.
The two held a romantic wedding to make up for the regrets of the year.
Jin Xing wrote when sharing wedding photos: "I am at the moment of happiness~"
's tone is as sweet as it was thirteen years ago.
Now, Venus and Ken Boline have a happy family and lovely children.
The past has gone with the wind, and they have already lived their dreams.
And the marriage between the two has become the most wonderful stroke on the canvas of life.
This is a progressive windmill
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