I am chasing a drama "Ji Dang" these days. I am very impressed by the fate of the three brothers and sisters in the drama. Seeing the contribution of the elder brother "Lu Haibo" reminds me of the sentence "Elder brother is like father and elder sister is like mother". This is probably the fate of the "boss" in the absence of parents.
　　This drama is mainly about the economic construction of the reform and opening up period. The protagonist, brother and sister, have both parents dead. The eldest brother Lu Haibo leads the younger brother Lu Jiangtao and the younger sister Lu Siqi to a difficult life together. This generation has encountered the opportunity of China's reforms and the development of Shanghai's Pudong New Area. The story of the elder brother leading the younger siblings to start a business together. There are various characters in the play. Their thoughts and behaviors are unique to that era. The entanglement of love and hatred between them finally reaps their own happiness, and everyone’s lines also have that. The taste of the times.
　　, the three brothers and sisters in the play, both of their parents died, and the eldest brother led them to survive. It is an incredible thing to see now. That’s because the current society has a very good orphanage system. There are almost no families with this structure. It will exist, but this kind of family structure is common in the age of the protagonist's existence and all ages before it. China is a disaster-prone country. Historical wars, plagues, and natural disasters have almost never stopped. In addition, our productivity and medical standards are not high. People's death is very common. The average life expectancy before the founding of New China Only 36 years old. In this way, there will be many children who have lost their parents. Does China have a "welfare home" adoption system has resulted in many families without parents, and it is quite difficult to survive.
　　 Chinese people have a strong family concept. The early family inheritance is the eldest son inheritance system, which may be due to this long-standing consciousness. In the case of losing parents, the "boss" between brothers has become the backbone of his efforts. It is also the most. We often hear parents telling the "boss" to take good care of the younger before going out, and let younger brothers and sisters listen to what they say. The eldest brother Lu Haibo in the play is such a role. Before his father died, he entrusted his younger siblings to him, and he did fulfill the responsibilities of his elder brother. The burden of survival of the three brothers and sisters basically fell on him. He had to bear the consequences for his brother's misfortune. He never gave up his brother when his brother was rejected by others. What this brother did is no different from "father". When you are in trouble, when others abandon you, only your parents will silently bear all the results for you, and your parents will never abandon you.
　　Of course, the dedication of the "boss" is generally respected by younger brothers and sisters. Lu Jiangtao, Lu Siqi and their spouses in the play respect their brothers very much. I have witnessed this since I was a child. My mother lost her mother when she was very young. Her younger siblings almost grew up under her care. After growing up, my uncles and aunts did treat my mother. Very respectful. Basically, my mother will execute what he says. I also grew up in such an environment. As the "boss" in my family, I feel a great responsibility, and I generally don't care about gains or losses with my younger siblings.
　　 Although suffering can make us grow quickly, we still hope that the family structure of losing our parents will not exist. After all, the shoulders of children are too immature.
