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Huo Zun and Chen Lu's love turmoil, has caused a lot of turmoil in the entertainment industry. Chen Lufa said in a long article that he had been in love for 9 years and was abandoned by Huo Zun, which seemed to be dissatisfied.
A woman has been with him for 9 years, but in the end not only failed to achieve a positive result, but was abandoned. Whoever changes this matter will feel unwilling. After all, after 9 years of youth, how many 9 years does a woman have?
Although the two people have their own principles, as a melon-eating crowd, they still feel that if the two of them have been together for 9 years and have not entered into a marriage, then there are some certain problems.
At this time, the two had already passed that good time, and the two had already become the most familiar people. The once beautiful emotions no longer exist. The relationship that the two can maintain has long been consumed by some trivial matters in life. Once there is a little conflict or quarrel, this relationship will be in crisis.
1, love time cannot be too long
When young men and women are in love, the time must not be too long. One to two years is the best time to truly fall in love. At this time, the two have already understood each other, and the relationship between the two is also in a sweet period. This time is the best time to get married.
Once the two have been in love together for eight or nine years, it is actually equivalent to experiencing the life after marriage, and naturally there is less beauty. Some people even the longer they are in love, the less they don't want to get married, because when they are in love, they have already done everything that should be done for marriage, and marriage is no longer important.
This is unfair to women. A woman has spent so many years trying to achieve a positive result with the other party. A few years have passed and nothing has been achieved. Who wants to face such a result?
2, three views are very important
two people love each other and keep the three views is very important. At first, it may be because of the beauty in the eyes of the lover. At this time, the three views are not very important to each other, because at this time, both sides will show their best side in front of each other, and the shortcomings are naturally concealed.
However, as we get along for a long time, the shortcomings are unknowingly exposed. If at this time, you find that the other party is inconsistent with your own three views, then please plan to break up early. Don't wait until too much time is spent, and then think about separation, then the loss to yourself will be great.
especially women, when you are in love, you must keep your eyes open and learn to stop losses in time. It is best to treat those who are inconsistent with their own three views.
3, please break up decently if you don’t love it.
After getting along for a period of time, if you no longer love, then please break up decently. Don't make yourself like a resentful woman, be ignored by others, or if the other party treats you badly, just keep telling others. In fact, all of this has something to do with yourself. Now that you have seen the other person’s character, why bother to spend it?
When two people are in love, they really love each other, so when they break up, please break up with dignity. Don't put all the responsibilities on the other side just because you don't love. Doing so will not only cause harm to yourself, but also make the relationship no longer beautiful. Love has always been good, even if you can't be together in the end, please leave a good for each other.
A decent breakup is something that every adult man and woman has to learn to do. It not only allows oneself to retain dignity, but also allows others to step down. What's wrong? There is really no need to tear each other, and it ends up hurting both.
Love is a very beautiful emotion, but now most people seem to have less awe in this love. Some people use feelings as a game, and some people do not respect their lover. Such people seem to be able to afford it and let it go. In fact, they will eventually harm themselves, and ultimately they will not be able to have a happy marriage of their own!
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